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bella_taurus
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posted November 21, 2011 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bella_taurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay...I know this has nothing to do with astrology.

BUT...


I just had the most weirdest thing happen to me. A few months ago, while walking down the street window shopping, I locked eyes with this cute security guard. I was in a pretty confident mood that day so I approached him and asked for his name, and it was Christian. We sent texts to each other here and there, but nothing serious, but it kinda trailed off for a while. Just last week, around Monday or Tuesday, he sent me a text to ask how I was doing. I was stunned that he actually remembered me, we had coffee last night and I wanted to chat with him forever! Unfortunately, he's married... but unhappily, as he puts it, so I don't exactly know if it will go anywhere.

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So today, I was on my way to work and I saw this guy I always say hello to in passing but I was always curious what his name was. The exchanges have been a little flirty, but not much to rave about. So as he was walking past me, I said to myself I should stop him and ask him for his name...and it was...Christian! The other part that trips me up is that they are both very tall and with sexy, foreign accents! I was in shock! I'm trying not to read so much into it, but I can't help but to notice that weirdness!

Can someone tell me is this fate or just a sheer coincidence?

Thanks!
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posted November 21, 2011 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's a trend here to look up the name asteroid and see what it's doing in your chart.
As for the unhappily married guy... don't. It's the oldest li(n)e in the book. Next thing he'll tell you is that you are not his mistress, but a very special person. True story.

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posted November 21, 2011 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know what to tell you except that there are countless "unhappily married" guys whose wives would beg to differ. Once, I asked such a guy if I can talk to his wife about their "understanding," and he said I'm rude and that was the last I saw of him.

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posted November 21, 2011 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are no coincidences.

My 2 cents,
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posted November 21, 2011 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
I don't know what to tell you except that there are countless "unhappily married" guys whose wives would beg to differ. Once, I asked such a guy if I can talk to his wife about their "understanding," and he said I'm rude and that was the last I saw of him.

Yeah, forget the married one.
The other one is single, right?

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posted November 21, 2011 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannarama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow I totally didn't know about the name asteroids! I just have a question though, how do you know which version of the name to use? I did it using two of the closest name asteroids, and what do you know! One is conjuncting all three Saturn, Uranus, Neptune in my 7th house and IN my 7th house (he's the Capricorn with the Scorpio moon who's living with a Wildabeast) and the other one is squaring those three and in my 11th house. WEIRD, but the 7th house one definitely explains why I feel such a connection with him, I guess.

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posted November 21, 2011 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bella_taurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
UPDATE:

they are BOTH married.

Coincidence.

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posted November 21, 2011 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If the Universe has this in store for you, then you will live it one way or the other. Just be extra cautious. I have a good friend who warned me at the right time - I was at the time in a strictly sexual relationship with a married man. He started to insinuate that we could have a real relationship and just as I was considering allowing myself to fall for him, she found out and warned me. I cut all contact. Months later he "fell in love" with another girl. You have to see the judge three times in my country in order to get a divorce. He made it until the second hearing, and then broke that poor girl's heart. He decided that he was incapable of loving anyone and might as well live in a loveless marriage with his wife, who took care of him and accepted him as he is.

This man had a strikingly similar chart with my ex husband's. I believe there were two reasons as to why I had to go through this. When I was married, I hated "the other woman"'s guts and I had to see for myself how this happens and that sometimes it's not with evil intentions. Also, I got to see a side of my ex husband I suspected it existed, but never actually saw.
So, lesson learned, points taken.

And don't say no one ever told you so.

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posted November 21, 2011 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would never mess with taken people, esp married men. I would think about how the wife would feel, it's just wrong. Besides, married men that cheat always say 'their wife doesn't understand them, they're only staying for the kids etc, their wife is selfish and demanding...etc? If they were so unhappy they would divorce them right? So they're just excuses.
I also believe in karma so yeah, it's just not right to get involved with somebody who's with somebody else.

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posted November 21, 2011 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's a lot to be said about karma. In my particular case, I think I was spared the heartache due to the fact that I was cheated on constantly before. It was, however, the wife's karma at that time to get cheated on.
If I learned something all my life is that nothing is ever black and white. And that the whole point of this journey may be experiencing karma (good and bad) on the samsara wheel, until finally arriving to nirvana and then going back on the wheel again.

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posted November 21, 2011 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannarama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why is everyone giving her advice about dating/pursuing a married men? She clearly didn't KNOW they were married until they said so and they both 'fessed up from the start they were married. She hasn't given us any indication she's pursing them otherwise but wants to know about why she's meeting married guys named Christian. Bella Taurus, did you check out the asteroids? Is it making any kind of aspects?

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posted November 21, 2011 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
... so I don't exactly know if it will go anywhere.

Because of this.

My friend has been a tremendous help when I was young(er) and naive. I am in no way judging. At the same time, I feel that it's important to say what the other person may or may not know.

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posted November 21, 2011 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannarama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by maira:
Because of this.

My friend has been a tremendous help when I was young(er) and naive. I am in no way judging. At the same time, I feel that it's important to say what the other person may or may not know.


OH.

Please excuse me while I get a glass of water to wash my foot down with.

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posted November 21, 2011 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bella_taurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannarama:
Why is everyone giving her advice about dating/pursuing a married men? She clearly didn't KNOW they were married until they said so and they both 'fessed up from the start they were married. She hasn't given us any indication she's pursing them otherwise but wants to know about why she's meeting married guys named Christian. Bella Taurus, did you check out the asteroids? Is it making any kind of aspects?

I have no idea about astroids...lol

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posted November 21, 2011 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Please excuse me while I get a glass of water to wash my foot down with.

English is my third language so I don't understand if you are agreeing with or mocking what I've said.

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posted November 21, 2011 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannarama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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English is my third language so I don't understand if you are agreeing with or mocking what I've said.

Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm agreeing. It's a term we use in the states when we've made a fool of ourselves.

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posted November 21, 2011 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannarama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
I have no idea about astroids...lol


all you have to do is go to astro.com, click the extended chart selection and at the bottom there's a link to a page with the thousands of asteroids names on it. just click "C" and scroll looking for "Christian" or the closest form to it.

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posted November 21, 2011 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm agreeing. It's a term we use in the states when we've made a fool of ourselves.

Lol, I was actually giving a speech in my head that went something like this: "these young people, knowing it all and not accepting that maybe, just maybe, they are jumping to conclusions; it's kind of cute though; yadda, yadda"...

I'm thirty and already giving speeches like this

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posted November 21, 2011 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As for your question, I'm not familiar with asteroids. To be quite frank, I consider it a waste of time, since astrology is very complex in its initial form, without adding 5 bazzilion asteroids. I only use some of the ones on the main list. I just noticed that there are many very good astrologers on this site who use them.

I would use whichever feels right - in your case, the house 7 one. Just be careful not to read more to them when it comes to synastry. If the main planets don't work, there is no Isis/Osiris conjunction or whatever that trumps that. At least, that's my opinion.

bella_taurus, asteroid Christian is 192158, just put it in the box at astro.com.

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posted November 21, 2011 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bella_taurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannarama:
all you have to do is go to astro.com, click the extended chart selection and at the bottom there's a link to a page with the thousands of asteroids names on it. just click "C" and scroll looking for "Christian" or the closest form to it.

http://ssd.jpl.nasa.gov/sbdb.cgi?sstr=192158

Thats what I found

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posted November 21, 2011 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think it's ever ok to cheat with sb or on sb. Maira, I wish you would have thought about the wife's feelings. You were cheated on before, bet it wasn't fun was it? I would think most people would take the pain and use it productively instead of getting involved and being the other woman?

Guess it's a moral compass thing.

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posted November 21, 2011 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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There's a lot to be said about karma. In my particular case, I think I was spared the heartache due to the fact that I was cheated on constantly before. It was, however, the wife's karma at that time to get cheated on.
If I learned something all my life is that nothing is ever black and white. And that the whole point of this journey may be experiencing karma (good and bad) on the samsara wheel, until finally arriving to nirvana and then going back on the wheel again.

It's quite interesting how you talked about the fact that you didn't get hurt, and the other woman paying her karma? Wtf? Kinda messed up how you just thought about yourself?

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posted November 21, 2011 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thats what I found

Go to www.astro.com, make an account. Search for extended chart selections, then put in your data to create your chart. There's a little box at the bottom named 'asteroids' I think where you have to put the number I gave you.

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posted November 21, 2011 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannarama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I don't think it's ever ok to cheat with sb or on sb. Maira, I wish you would have thought about the wife's feelings. You were cheated on before, bet it wasn't fun was it? I would think most people would take the pain and use it productively instead of getting involved and being the other woman?

Guess it's a moral compass thing.


OMG! It's not enough she used her personal life (which is none of our business) on a public forum and now you're going to judge her for it? Do it privately behind your computer screen like your mother taught you!

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posted November 21, 2011 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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It's quite interesting how you talked about the fact that you didn't get hurt, and the other woman paying her karma? Wtf? Kinda messed up how you just thought about yourself?


It's a bit hard to explain and my Mercury in Pisces isn't helping. I didn't hurt the wife, I backed out when it could of hurt her. But it was her karma for her husband to hurt her at that time, which has happened a few months later.

Also, if you believe in karma, you have to also believe in reincarnation. The only thing that has stopped me from hurting back the woman that my husband left for was a fleeting thought that I may have done the same thing to her in another life.

I am not going to engage further in this conversation. I'm sincerely sorry if my views offended you.
As for my moral compass, I do have it. It's just not black and white as it used to be. And trust me, I have been there - I'm very Plutonian.

bella_taurus, do not interpret this as an encouragement, because it's not, lol. No one can decide if what one does is right or wrong, but the possibility of getting hurt is tremendous in this situation.

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