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Topic: Blamed but innocent.. Re-occuring theme
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Lioness
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posted November 23, 2011 11:36 PM
  
I have noticed I always seem to get blamed for things I havent done... But to me honest, it looks like I did... But just these weird circumstantial things happen. It that takes something completely innocent and it ends up looking baddd... Very bad on my part.. But its just the way it looks, but its not the case.. Here I will give an example.. Back when I was married.. I was working nights.. Before I went to work I washed my jacket.. A company issued jacket..
I didnt want to waste a load so I threw in a few other things in the washer...
Before I left for work, I just went to the dryer and grabbed my jacket...
I didnt need my jacket until later in the evening...
When I put it on, I couldnt really move my arm, I kept pulling but my arm wouldnt move.. I look at the jacket to see whats going on...
I notice my undies stuck to the velcro of the jacket... lol
So I put the undies in my pocket.. Then I started thinking, wow what if they fall out in front of a customer..
So I went to my car, and put the undies in the center console... The next day, my husband takes my car to the store... He looks in the center console, and well my undies are still there!!!!! He comes baring in the house, yelling.. WTF!!!! blah blah...
I try explaining.. but Im laughing so hard, because I just cant believe this is happening.. So what is this my Uranus in H7? Things like this cause me alot of problems.. It looks one way, but in reality its not... I have HAD relationships end because of things like this...
But explaining it doesnt work... So whats a girl suppose to do??????? There was another time,when my husband found a bag of at least 30 condoms in my car...
But I swear.. They werent mine!
I didnt even know they were there...
Believe it or not, there IS an explanation..
Its just one of those freaky things that happens to me...
And no I wasnt holding them for a friend... geezz... He didnt talk to me for like forever.. IP: Logged |
winter
Knowflake Posts: 182
From: Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2011 12:54 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
So whats a girl suppose to do???????
Go Commando!! that'll solve the undies problem. Hilarious post....thanks for the laugh  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 24, 2011 11:58 AM
I admit these things are funny.. But Im so tired of these weird things happening.. It looks really bad on my part.. But Im innocent I tell ya... Im innocent! IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 24, 2011 07:59 PM
LOL! Only you Lioness... Only you!... Happy Thanksgiving! IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted November 24, 2011 08:32 PM
I have similar things happen to me all the time. Or people are very suspicious of me (normally because of someone 'warning them' about me). I try to be upfront about things, but people are always ready to accuse me of some of the most outlandish things.They carry on, accuse me of things (openly or silently), blame me for things with very little to no proof. Eventually, I move on, walk away...etc, then they realize nothing was true and coming running with "wait, I didn't realize...I should have known. I'm sorry. I should have--". Meh, by that point even though I might still be hurt/offended, I look at it as their lesson and move on. It is a terrible feeling actually. I can laugh about it now, but in the moment it sucks because...obviously, it sucks because it does (lol)! IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 1938
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 24, 2011 08:59 PM
LOLLLLI think it's Mars/Neptune!
Always happens to me as well. I know you have the square.. I have the conj!  IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted November 24, 2011 09:35 PM
Betty Boop, can you elaborate on the conjunction and how it fits into this tragic tale (lol)! I have the conjunction also! Every single time I look at this chart there is something new! When does it end! UPDATE: Very interesting that I 'intuitively' stay away from both drugs and alcohol. I have no interest in them, not even socially. Granted, I don't judge others. I always tell people (rather bluntly) that I think I'd easily become 'addicted.' Low and behold, I read that apparently this placement (conjunction) has that tendency! NO BUENO! IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted November 24, 2011 10:11 PM
I've had that happen, too, more than once. I don't know if it's because I'm already self-conscious due to social anxiety, or what it is. I used to deal with it well, for the most part; now, I get angry. (not that it happens that often, but when it does...) IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 25, 2011 01:16 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
LOLLLLI think it's Mars/Neptune!
Always happens to me as well. I know you have the square.. I have the conj!
Really? you think so? Hummm I was thinking Uranus because of the weird and all of a sudden, and it messes with my relationships with other people.. I had another incident.. These things just seem to always happen, and it makes me look really bad...
I always have to explain it, but then it comes out wrong... And no one ever believes me...
Maybe its both... IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 25, 2011 03:09 AM
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Originally posted by FireWire:
I have similar things happen to me all the time. Or people are very suspicious of me (normally because of someone 'warning them' about me). I try to be upfront about things, but people are always ready to accuse me of some of the most outlandish things.They carry on, accuse me of things (openly or silently), blame me for things with very little to no proof. Eventually, I move on, walk away...etc, then they realize nothing was true and coming running with "wait, I didn't realize...I should have known. I'm sorry. I should have--". Meh, by that point even though I might still be hurt/offended, I look at it as their lesson and move on. It is a terrible feeling actually. I can laugh about it now, but in the moment it sucks because...obviously, it sucks because it does (lol)!
I get that alot too, but there's never that point where they realize they were wrong. They always think they're right about me. It used to bother the crap out of me until I just went, the right people for me to be around, will be smart enough to know what's true and what isn't. I kind of look at it as a way of the wheat getting separated from the chaff. The decent people stick around; the stupid ones who aren't worth having in my life anyway, fall away. IP: Logged |
dysfunctionalmystic
Moderator Posts: 828
From: England
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 25, 2011 07:36 AM
Eris prominent?Capricorn will often be a scapegoat as will Chiron and Saturn IP: Logged |
FireWire
Newflake Posts: 23
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 25, 2011 08:25 AM
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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
It used to bother the crap out of me until I just went, the right people for me to be around, will be smart enough to know what's true and what isn't. I kind of look at it as a way of the wheat getting separated from the chaff. The decent people stick around; the stupid ones who aren't worth having in my life anyway, fall away.
Right on! This is EXACTLY how I feel these days. One has to be able to use their own judgement! I always take it as a sign these people weren't meant to be. And you know what, turns out 95% (maybe more) of the time--that is correct! IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted November 25, 2011 07:57 PM
Anger is my natural response now, because I've just had it. I've been in a bad way, and more than one thing happened (betrayals), when people knew I was in a bad way, and rather than hold on to my better nature and be able to let it go, something has stuck around (negatively), thanks to the timing - and a lot of loss this year. I'm tired of dealing with weirdness from others (and in some cases, have noticed that I will reflect the behaviour people decided i was capable of before, and seemed to expect of me - when it comes to having a bad attitude), and I'm especially tired of the weirdness from at least one person that I thought was my friend. I have other good people in my life, but when I'm left scratching my head over what changed - I've just had it. I'm not in the mood for it, and now people know that I'm not in the mood for it, and what to expect from me if they decide to push, or mess with my head. I prefer dealing with things gracefully, but I have to really try nowadays, to do so. You know I'm in a bad way, and proceed to kick me when I'm down, then shame on you. (Nobody in this thread, obviously.) IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted November 25, 2011 07:59 PM
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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
Eris prominent?Capricorn will often be a scapegoat as will Chiron and Saturn
I have Chiron conjunct my Mercury/Sun, and Saturn squaring three planets. Saturn also squares my Eris. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 25, 2011 08:02 PM
Yeap.... Im with you anyone that can see me clearly can just stay away from me..... I hate when people "think" they know me and really have no clue!!!!!!!!!!! I cant stand assumptions about me!
People just keep assuming I am one way.. When its no where near the truth.. Its just their opinion.. I have this Pisces ASC!!! Hey maybe its the SE thats conjunct my neptune??????
Anyone that cant see through the fog, is gonna have to stay out of my life...
Its a new beginning  IP: Logged |
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