posted November 25, 2011 04:44 AM            

What happens when you give a Scorpio stellium guy the cold shoulder?

I USE TO go out with this Scorpio guy.. We have the same circle of friends, so I run into him alot.. The last time I saw him,(we went out) he said the WRONG thing to me.. Messed with the leo pride and all...
I told him FU and dont EVER call me again!

Tonight he got dropped off at my friends house.. I totally ignored him.. He even tried to say Hi to me but I wasn't having it.. I didnt even look at him, and just walked past him like he wasnt even there...

He was even scared to sit next to me.. He said "she wont let me sit there" lol
He sat next to me, and kept looking over at me every few minutes... Still I never looked at him once...
He was asking my friend,why Im ignoring him... Seriously some guys just have no clue, when they screwed up... You would think, me telling him FU and dont ever call me, would be a hint.. But guess not!

Later when I said I was leaving.. my friends husband asked me if I would give him a ride home.. (set up or what.. I think so! )
I said yes (but only because my friends husband asked me)

So I say Im leaving and he comes running behind me... I keep walking.. He goes why are nt you talking to me... I didnt answer I just
got in the car....
He got in and I drove away... He said why are you looking at me with disgust???
I didnt answer him.. He said why are you giving me a ride then... I said cuz ---- asked me, he laughed and said OOO yeah ONLY cuz he asked you.. I said yeap! he said it again.. But in a cocky way like yeah right!

I got to his house.. He just stays sitting there, flipping staring at me!
I turn my head.. He said ok thanks for the ride... I said yeap...
He said you dont wanna come in? I said NOPE!
he said you surreeeeeee you dont want to come in..
I said YEAP POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!
He opens the car door, and says thanks for the ride.. Oh and thanks for everything else also!!

WTF??????? really????? I cant believe he said that!

Thats why you dont mess with the Leo pride..

ROARRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!

My roar is bigger than that lil stinger!!
Say the wrong thing to me... Il give you the cold shoulder.... Screw that! Im not the person, you can talk to like that, cuz I wont put up with it!

Take that Scorpiooooo!
(just him, not other scorpios.. lol)

So Scorpio's what do you do, when (if) you get a cold shoulder like that?????

posted November 25, 2011 04:57 AM            

Now, in some situations, it IS the right thing to do. I ignore perverts who hit on me/make inappropriate and unwanted advances towards me.

I also tend to stop talking to people altogether when they do not respond to me or when they are nice in person, but do not communicate with me. When someone gives *me* the cold shoulder, it's a signal to me to do the same and withdraw. I have reached a point with certain people in my life where I simply cannot deal with their disrespect, ingratitude, and insincerity anymore. Letting go of those people and forgetting about them is the only thing that I can do in that case. At this point, I feel relieved to be letting go and to stop caring; I am tired of feeling drained by trying to be kind to people and having them act like that. If someone really upsets me, I will give the silent treatment and will not have ANYTHING to do with the person. It takes a lot for me to reach that point, and it's sad when I do, but sometimes I do have to just give up on people who don't treat me right. I'm in that situation right now with two people in particular and at this point, all that I can do is give them the silent treatment, not be overly mean, and start trying to move on and forget them. That's what I have to do to heal.

On the other hand, though, if something is a misunderstanding, then it is worth it to at least hear the person out. In my case, I gave a Scorpio the cold shoulder once, as a teenage girl. (Said Scorpio was also the same age). I really should have gone to the Scorpio and explained why I was upset; I (unfairly) expected her to "just know". So, if you care about the person, but are just upset with him or her, it might be good to tell the person that you need some space to cool off or else just tell the person directly why you are upset. It is important to have pride and self-respect, but sometimes there comes a point when those things have to be on hold--not forgotten or thrown out altogether, just put on the back burner for a little bit--to have an open and honest discussion and to try to find ways of fixing the problem(s). It's important to stand up for yourself and command respect, but it's also important to know when to bend a little and try to meet the person halfway.

Other times, it is better to just cut ties and move on.

It really depends on the situation and the people involved.

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*I use the whole sign system*

Personal Planets:
Sun, Mercury: Libra
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Capricorn

posted November 25, 2011 05:08 AM            

If he thinks about it, he will KNOW why Im ****** off... He could have apologzied.. Or even said hey if I upset u... my bad.. didnt mean to... I would have been cool.. But he wants to play it off, like nothing and Im not giving him that satisfaction..

posted November 25, 2011 05:25 AM            

I guess my Aries Moon would find it very tempting to ask what's happening and would think also it is bit of chasing, if I liked you.

I would like more honest approach. If something bothered let me know and we can sort it really.

posted November 25, 2011 06:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Thanks for the input.. He totally disrespected me.. He said something very cold to me..
Which is why I DONT want anything to do with him..

If he thinks about it, he will KNOW why Im ****** off... He could have apologzied.. Or even said hey if I upset u... my bad.. didnt mean to... I would have been cool.. But he wants to play it off, like nothing and Im not giving him that satisfaction..

Im not going to let someone say mean things to me.. and be like nothing... Im going to stand up for myself.. but at the same time, Im not going to stand there and argue about it either...

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Good for you. This would be a case in which I think you're doing the right thing in asking to be respected. If he knows what he did, and it sounds like he does, and obviously he does seem to know that he did something to upset you, then he really should apologize.

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*I use the whole sign system*

Personal Planets:
Sun, Mercury: Libra
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Capricorn

posted November 25, 2011 07:43 AM            

I felt angry like this towards a Virgo guy I know. Except I forgave him because:

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some guys just have no clue, when they screwed up

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As you said... he had no clue...

But I'm getting tired of the friction between us! I'm sensing a similar vibe here with you and this guy. Virgo & I have Moon/Mars conj.

posted November 25, 2011 02:00 PM            

LOL....

I use to go out with this guy about 2 summers ago... But I run into him often because we have the same circle of friends... Every once in a while we would go out together. But for the most part we just kept it cordial around other people...
Last night I sure didnt keep it cordial.. lol...
Everyone knew I was pizzed.. lol......

posted November 25, 2011 02:43 PM            

What I got was a bunch of texts and calls as late as 1am...until I finally picked up his call..to which he sounded like a sadddd little scorpio. But it's okay we're over it now

posted November 25, 2011 03:56 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
Well I think as people mature/grow up they have less of these types of issues. I mean, in my late teens/very early 20s I had these types of occurances, and I do not think it was indictive of the sign of the person, more the age.

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Nope it never ends... LOL
Im 39... He's 40..

My 60 yr old boss is fighting with his wife, cuz she found a girls number on his phone.. She didnt talk to him for over a month.. lol

posted November 25, 2011 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Nope it never ends... LOL
Im 39... He's 40..

My 60 yr old boss is fighting with his wife, cuz she found a girls number on his phone.. She didnt talk to him for over a month.. lol

He told me about it, he said shes an old friend of 20 years, he calls her once a year to say happy birthday..

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posted November 25, 2011 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Purrr:
You may think you're giving them the cold shoulder, but alas... they are following you... somehow.

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posted December 03, 2011 03:38 AM            

He said ok then forget it!

posted December 03, 2011 09:50 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Lioness,

Good for you! These egotistical jackasses don't understand the concept of decorum. No means No. Not maybe. Not I get to insult you. It means No. And don't let that door slam you in the arse!

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posted December 03, 2011 10:04 AM            

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted December 03, 2011 01:02 PM            

Im just wondering what his next step will be..

I REALLY didnt think he would call me again.. Him calling me was a surprise...

posted December 03, 2011 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
LOL wow....he's hurting. Silly boys.

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Hurting...or plotting your doom...or both....

Hell hath no fury like a Scorpio scorned...

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*I use the whole sign system*

Personal Planets:
Sun, Mercury: Libra
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Capricorn

posted December 04, 2011 07:11 AM            

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Originally posted by bethcarliseh:
*sigh* Knowledge of Astrology wasn't meant for everyone.

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If you're referring to me, I was joking.

I realize that the internet sometimes makes it hard to tell tone, but I would have thought that would have been clear. My apologies if it wasn't.

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*I use the whole sign system*

Personal Planets:
Sun, Mercury: Libra
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Capricorn

posted December 05, 2011 05:06 AM            

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Originally posted by bethcarliseh:
*sigh* Knowledge of Astrology wasn't meant for everyone.

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Why are you making comments like this?
Not sure what you mean or who you are talking to... I must say, the way your post comes across is as an insulting manner.