posted November 25, 2011 06:39 PM
I need some advice how to talk to my Aquarius friend. Yesterday for Thanksgiving I had my girlfriend over and she bought her bf and kids. From my understanding her bf is leaving for 2 weeks on business and he wanted to spend time with her so she invited him over.Well when they got there everything was fine or so I thought. While I'm cooking he comes over to me and says angrily that his gf was "ignoring him" because she's texting someone. He said he had a bad temper and he would just leave. So I'm sitting here uncomfortable because she's my friend and he's ****** off at her and not telling her because he said she would get mad at him.
I was talking to him and he was just getting angrier and angrier. And I'm trying to calm him down. He asks how does she feel about him and she's told me she's crazy about him and loves him. And he says she doesn't show it.
Well she had been drinking and I guess a lot because I later find out that she thought I messed with him because I was talking to him quietly. The only reason why I was talking to him quietly is because he was cursing and I didn't want the kids or her to hear it.
Now I'm totally at a loss because number one I don't like her bf like that remotely. Number two my feelings are really hurt because if she thinks I can actually do something like that to her what does she really think of me. I've been honest with her, but apparently she's judging me as a bad person because of what I've shared with her.
I don't even know how to approach her because a friend told me this she didn't. In fact she wanted to actually hit me yesterday. All because her bf and her were fighting. They both put me in an uncomfortable situation and when I tried to get them to talk so as to leave me out of it I get looked at as a home wrecker.
How do I even talk to her? I don't think she'll even believe me. I'm just ****** and mad because I didn't do anything wrong.
Oh yeah dob for her is 02/05/74.