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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 01:27 PM
Mercury Sextile Pluto in CompositeYour relationship with your romantic partner will clarify and resolve past relationship issues which have limited you in the past, leaving you with a greater understanding of yourself and your partner. If your romantic partner’s Mercury is sextile your Pluto, you have been given an opportunity to assist him/her to release and transcend unconscious forces which have negatively shaped your partner’s life and loving relationships. A shared interest in esoteric studies and the development of psychic perceptions will play a significant role in your experience together. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 01:28 PM
Mercury Sextile Uranus in CompositeYou have an intellectual and inspirational harmony with your romantic partner that is innovative, interesting, and open-minded. Unusual and unexpected connections attract opportunities to you as a couple. If your romantic partner’s Mercury is sextile your Uranus, you will find him/her intellectually stimulating in his/her originality and nonconformity. The two of you together are a catalyst for change. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 01:28 PM
Saturn Opposition Uranus in CompositeYour partner’s purpose is to do whatever it takes to free you from the restrictive bonds of your traditional concepts and expectations of relationships, giving you an opportunity to clearly see through empty rules to their essence. Your goal is not to impose order and control, but to be in a position to redefine your ways while remaining true to yourself. This is not an easy aspect for either of you. Give it patience in the face of tensions over your insecurities. If your romantic partner’s Saturn is in opposition to your Uranus, you desire for excitement and spontaneity tend to trigger his/her reliance on the comfort of old concepts of duty, obligation. and the need for structured routine. Your partner uses these ideas to cope with the material necessities of living. You sense a greater potential in him/her. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 01:29 PM
Uranus Conjunct Pluto in CompositeYour romantic relationship has more than one level of interaction between you and your romantic partner. This can be a turbulent atmosphere where both partners experience transformation through inspiration and inner vision as well as a spontaneous sexuality. You will make profound changes in your life amidst emotional turmoil and unexpected upheavals on this karmic thrill ride. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 01:30 PM
Saturn Opposition Pluto in CompositeYou seek to walk down a productive path, filled with practical ambitions, serious goals, and a willingness to do whatever steps it takes to build a secure future for yourself and your romantic partner. Your romantic partner sees equal commitment but expresses it in ways which challenge your concepts and traditional rules urging you to penetrate to the essence of love and uncover the hidden truth beneath material trappings. This aspect is about transcending karma. If your romantic partner’s Saturn is in opposition to your Pluto, you will have moments when you fear everything that ever attracted you to your partner or him/her to you is lost forever. What you have lost is a surface reflection of what you thought you had. Look again to see the deeper truth that binds you together until you work through the special meaning and lasting value of your union. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:16 PM
Anybody else like to help me?It's really hard competing against those who start ten to twenty threads at once!! IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:22 PM
Just a suggestion: make sure your synastry and your composite interpretations are separate. The composite is your relationship (as one entity). The synastry is your individual charts and how they overlay with each other. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:31 PM
Thank you. Do I need to have separate threads? IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Thank you. Do I need to have separate threads?
Well, not really, if you don't want to. But when you research the interpretations, make sure to note if they refer to the composite or the synastry charts. For instance, you have Sun-Mars conjunction in the composite but NOT in the synastry chart. IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
It's really hard competing against those who start ten to twenty threads at once!!
Whom are you competing against? 
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by anongrl10: Well, not really, if you don't want to. But when you research the interpretations, make sure to note if they refer to the composite or the synastry charts. For instance, you have Sun-Mars conjunction in the composite but NOT in the synastry chart.
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Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Well noted! 
I'm so jealous of your Venus/Mars double whammy. I've never had a relationship like that. Then again, I have Gemini Venus/Pisces Mars. I couldn't imagine dating a Pisces Venus/Gemini Mars... such an aloof pairing! Maybe the reason I haven't dated one is that we can't find each other! LOL IP: Logged |
Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:47 PM
WOAH WOAH. Hang on... I'm wrong. I thought someone said in another thread that you and your wife had a double Venus/Mars double whammy? Unless I'm blind... I don't see that. Still jealous of your marriage!  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 05:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Purrr: WOAH WOAH. Hang on... I'm wrong. I thought someone said in another thread that you and your wife had a double Venus/Mars double whammy? Unless I'm blind... I don't see that. Still jealous of your marriage! 
You see. That's the issue when I don't even know how to verify what anyone says because I'm still learning. I take everything at face value. There is nothing to be jealous about!  I'm clueless. IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 05:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: You see. That's the issue when I don't even know how to verify what anyone says because I'm still learning. I take everything at face value. There is nothing to be jealous about!  I'm clueless.
OK, how can I help you read the charts? Are you able to recognize the symbols for each planet? Do you see for instance the Mars-Venus opposition in your synastry chart?
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 05:49 PM
I'm pressing on! Composite Ascendant in Taurus.
You come across as a somewhat traditional and practical couple. You tend to be reliable, and others know they can count on you. Your "image" to others is neither flashy nor glamorous, but you do come across as a solid couple. You tend to think in terms of constancy and the long term. You don't appreciate sweeping changes, which can throw you off-center. Your relationship can too easily enter a rut, as the main focus is on security and stability. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 05:50 PM
This seems like the first challenging aspect! Composite Sun in the 6th House.
This is a challenging position for the Composite Sun, as it suggests a basic inequality in your relationship that could undermine it over time. One of you may be in a helping or teaching role, for example. Other possible scenarios are a large age gap between you, an affair in which one of you is married to someone else, a boss/employee set-up, and so forth. Whatever the case may be, one of you may feel that your needs are not met, or that you are sacrificing something in order to be together. One person's helpfulness may be welcomed at first, but resentments can build over time. The best way to handle this energy is to put your egos aside and avoid expecting too much from the partnership.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 05:51 PM
Composite Venus in the 7th House. With Venus in a prominent position in your composite chart, your affection for one another is likewise a principal theme in your relationship. Venus represents areas of life where you derive the most pleasure, and the seventh house represents the relationship itself. You are likely to do whatever you can to work on making this a harmonious partnership. Concern for equality in your partnership is a motivating force. You admire one another and easily forgive each other when things go wrong. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 05:52 PM
Composite Mars in the 6th House. You may have a lot of energy for completing tasks, routines, and work done together. On a personal level, this is a somewhat challenging position for Mars, as one or both of you may feel put upon by the other. You may feel that there is an imbalance of responsibilities, where one of you puts out more effort than the other. Your sex life may be sporadic or there could be a feeling that one of you makes more sacrifices than the other. One of you may end up feeling used or less than satisfied. In general, one may be more aggressive or demanding than the other. In order to make this position work, there needs to be a feeling of mutual devotion and your individual egos need to take a back seat, as inequality is a theme of this position. IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 05:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I'm pressing on!
Best to read this stuff when you are able to locate the aspects in your charts, Ian. Practice looking them up in the chart. Then you can focus on the interpretation. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 05:56 PM
Composite Moon in the Second House There is a need to make each other feel secure regarding money. Joint ownership needs your best cooperation. You can build a slow and steady increase of financial wealth together. Together your productivity can take you far in life. The gentle and soothing nature of your partnership brings enjoyable intimacy. The joy of being together inspires creativity. Sharing the wealth generously strengthens your commitment. A solid sense of internal security can keep you together. You can be stabilizing forces for one another. Sensuality and passion expressed for each other is easily awakened. Pleasing your partner is a heartfelt desire. The two of you appreciate being together when you are free from stress and worry. Your home is a safe haven from the outer world. You probably like natural beauty in the form of plants and forests. No matter where you reside your home needs to have a peaceful atmosphere. There is likely often the smell of spices, incense or other interesting aromas in the air. Possessiveness need not come between you. Let each other be free to express heartfelt needs. You may not always be able to completely comprehend each other's choices, but do your best to accept them. Your shared values can give you confidence in one another. Your willingness to work hard for what you want is a unifying factor. Let your intuition lead you to full cups of self-esteem. Accepting each other at face value does wonders for feeling close. Positive strokes never hurt either. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 06:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by anongrl10: Do you see for instance the Mars-Venus opposition in your synastry chart?
That much I am capable of. IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 3075 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 06:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: That much I am capable of.
Good! That's all. Keep on looking those up in the chart. It takes practice; that's all. Before you know it, you will discern them before anybody else does!  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 08:58 PM
Time to move on!Sun Trine Mercury in Synastry: This active, mental aspect between your charts suggests a positive flow of communication and activity between you. You love to chat with each other, and, most of the time, you understand what your partner means. Many communication problems in relationships stem from misunderstandings, and this aspect helps you to "get" what each other means, at least in an overall sense. In particular, Mercury very easily finishes Sun's sentences, because Mercury understands Sun's intentions. Sun admires Mercury's intelligence, and appreciates this understanding. This is a real friendship aspect. On its own, it doesn't have romantic overtones, but any romance will benefit from this stimulating and expressive energy. Mental rapport makes for stimulating conversations and ensures that there are many moments in your relationship when each of you feels supported by your partner. This is a problem-solving aspect. When the two of you put your minds together, you come up with positive solutions to problems. They are able to solve problems when they put their heads together. Respect for each other's intelligence. Good understanding between the two persons and intellectual interests in common, the same type of curiosity.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 08:59 PM
Venus Conjunct Uranus in SynastryThis is one indication of a powerful, sudden, and electric attraction. It is often indicative of a situation where one feels "love at first sight". If you get together, a sexual relationship may begin quickly, before you truly get to know each other. A mutual sharing of unusual interests is indicated. The attraction to and fascination with each other may be erratic or variable; or it may subside as suddenly as it started. It is vital that each gives the other freedom in order for this relationship to work. Attempts to give this relationship too much structure can drive a wedge between the two. It is likely that the Venus person will eventually crave more constancy from the Uranus person than he or she is willing to give. Union or love will be very strong, not at all intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality.
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