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*Prince~Darien*
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posted November 26, 2011 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for *Prince~Darien*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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lessons that YOU learned after having been in a relationship or dated one; sun in LEO.
--post your ascendant

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anongrl10
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posted November 26, 2011 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let them lead. They love it and they may even share...

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posted November 26, 2011 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Be up front with Leos. Even if they disagree with you they will appreciate your honesty.

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posted November 26, 2011 11:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't ever try to pit them against someone in a jealousy competition.

Don't ever say "you're ONE OF MY BEST...anythings". They have to be the BEST, above all the rest, appreciated, and it has to be real. Don't think you can flatter them with general stuff. They want to be KNOWN so you have to find something special about them. Don't ever question their integrity. Don't be vulgar.

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posted November 26, 2011 11:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't **** them off. You'll have a bad day and a bad week and possibly a bad month.

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posted November 26, 2011 11:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Always be complimentary about how they look but never over-flatter them. The "do I look good in this" question is like threading a Vietcong mine field.

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posted November 26, 2011 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't let them get over dramatic. Say "I am not impressed with your overly dramatic show of emotions, knock it off." Maybe state something such as the fact that you know it is just some act or tell them to bring their drama to the stage.

Tell them to CHILL OUT. Go try your nonsense temper tantrum with someone else, it won't get me to budge.

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*Prince~Darien*
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posted November 26, 2011 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for *Prince~Darien*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by stillatlarge:
Don't ever try to pit them against someone in a jealousy competition.

Don't ever say "you're ONE OF MY BEST...anythings". They have to be the BEST, above all the rest, appreciated, and it has to be real. Don't think you can flatter them with general stuff. They want to be KNOWN so you have to find something special about them. Don't ever question their integrity. Don't be vulgar.


i loved this! lol
have we met?

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posted November 26, 2011 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by carl:
Don't let them get over dramatic. Say "I am not impressed with your overly dramatic show of emotions, knock it off." Maybe state something such as the fact that you know it is just some act or tell them to bring their drama to the stage.

Tell them to CHILL OUT. Go try your nonsense temper tantrum with someone else, it won't get me to budge.

ASC - Cap


I second this. I find Leos to be like 12-year-olds and once they realize their shallow manipulations won't work on you, they start being real.

Also, don't play games with them. They like playing them and yes I know it's a double standard, but once you start trying to trump THEIR game they will see you as a frenemy and make it worse.

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posted November 26, 2011 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Simply,adore us !

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posted November 26, 2011 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here are my deal breakers..

1. Dont doubt my loyalty
2. Dont make accusations
3. Dont mess with the pride..
4. Dont be-little me
5. Dont cast judgement on me
6. Dont make me feel threathened

Not in any specif order, if one of these happens I will roarrr with a vengeance and trust me it wont be pretty..

The thing that bothers me the most is when people make assumptions that they know how I am, when in reality they have no clue about who I really am..
Im really really tired of it, Its to the point I cant take it anymore, and I am really snapping at anyone that wants to cast these judgments...
Where's the proof???? Show me????????
I swear if one more person, blames me for something.. Im really going to wig out.

1. Do show me appreciation/affection
2. Do get to know my inner self.. What you see is not what you get.
3. Know my moods.. Accept them.. Ill get over it, just give me time.
4. Be there for me when I need someone.
5. Show me how you feel... I need to see it.

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*Prince~Darien*
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posted November 26, 2011 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for *Prince~Darien*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
..ng at anyone that wants to cast these judgments...
Where's the proof???? Show me????????

the proof!?.... THE PROOF!!!!??????????


YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE PROOF!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Lioness
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posted November 26, 2011 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thats because there is none..

Accusations and opinions never do..

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*Prince~Darien*
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posted November 26, 2011 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for *Prince~Darien*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Thats because there is none..

Accusations and opinions never do..


*note to self: keep the receipt.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2FnunslP1E

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Lioness
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posted November 26, 2011 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah seeee she doesnt Do crack... Crack is whack!
She only free-bases!

totally different.. totally...

LOL......

See how honest she was...


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mintgirl123
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posted November 26, 2011 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do

-show affection
-have a backbone
-have opinions lol
-look good and well presented

Don't
-Embarrass them in front of people
-Bash their ego too hard


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libraschoice77
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posted November 26, 2011 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DO give them lots of love and let them know frequently how wonderful they are.

DO be able to do exciting new things, and want to show them off and be proud of them.

DO have confidence in yourself and in your appearance.

DON'T ever embarrass them in front of people, intentional or not...

DON'T ever question or doubt their love for you, or their sincerity.

DON'T ever accuse them of being stingy.


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posted November 26, 2011 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireWire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:

5. Show me how you feel... I need to see it.


Elaborate, please? 'See' it...as in...? An emotional response, a gesture? I feel, in my experience, you all sometimes do things to see how people will respond. Withhold information, until a crucial moment. Not to make one feel pain, but to see that the person can feel for you at all.

Additionally, what does it mean when you go into hiding, with no explanation and or communication?

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posted November 26, 2011 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FireWire:
Elaborate, please? 'See' it...as in...? An emotional response, a gesture? I feel, in my experience, you all sometimes do things to see how people will respond. Withhold information, until a crucial moment. Not to make one feel pain, but to see that the person can feel for you at all.

Additionally, what does it mean when you go into hiding, with no explanation and or communication?


For me actions speak louder than words..
Its nice to hear I love you.. But its even nicer to see you love me...
If Im sick take care of me..
Cuz yeah Im a big baby when Im sick... lol

Show me how desirable I am... I dont need to be tolded I look good (hehehe) show me that you think I look good..
Like wow.. you look so good I just have to put my arms around u... Stuff like that...

If I go into hiding.. My feelings have been hurt.. Some how.. maybe not by you.. just somehow..

As for holding info.. Takes me along time to trust someone... I rarely tell anyone everything.. But if it feels right or like the time, when a person needs to know. Then I will..

Its true I do, do things to see how someone will respond.. What they do or how they handle it, is very telling..
Its there first reaction w/o thinking..

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posted November 26, 2011 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireWire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:

If I go into hiding.. My feelings have been hurt.. Some how.. maybe not by you.. just somehow..

Its true I do, do things to see how someone will respond.. What they do or how they handle it, is very telling..
Its there first reaction w/o thinking..


Wow. But...if you go into hiding because someone hurt your feelings, then wouldn't you realize there are people who miss you and want to make you feel better? Why would you hide from them? In my experiences, Leo's do not like 'seeing' people they know can 'see through them,' especially when they are hurt or might be wounded--even if the wound is self-inflicted. They avoid you like the plague while at the same time wanting your comfort and assurance. But there is this line between "give me my space, but don't leave the pride land" with Leos that is very, very difficult to tread sometimes.

And saying things to see response...figures, lol. It only annoys me because I know that is why someone is doing it and depending on how I feel, I might just not respond at all emotional. Or, if it is really dramatic and effects me emotionally, I can't hide anything, especially if I care for you (Sag). Though honestly, I would prefer you just ask how I feel about it. In fact, if you just tell me as opposed to being..."crafty" I'll both be honest and vulnerable, and love and respect you for your vulnerability. And then, we can go rumble in the jungle...bwahaha! ;-)


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posted November 26, 2011 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I understand what your saying.. But you have to remember Leo's have strong pride and a huge ego...
Its what makes us Leo.. Its so dug into your psyche that you dont want any one to see your weakness...
Its very hard to show your vulnerabilities.

At all times, your showing your strength and your playfulness..
Then to let someone see you emotional break down. Its embarrassing..

What if they see me as weak? What if they see how sensitive and vulnerable I really am..

I need time to recover and build up my ego...

Building up my ego would be easier, than getting me to show my vulnerable side..

For me to show this side of me... It would take convincing, and a whole lot of trust... It may even be years...
Believe me I doing things to see if I can trust you...
(this also goes with the doing things to see how you would respond.. lol)


Your reaction is more info, then you telling me... Lets face it when asked what would you do if I did this---------.. You think and that may not actually be your first reaction..
I wanna see what you REALLY do... lol

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posted November 26, 2011 08:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireWire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:

For me to show this side of me... It would take convincing, and a whole lot of trust... It may even be years...
Believe me I doing things to see if I can trust you...
(this also goes with the doing things to see how you would respond.. lol)


Lol. Yeah, I get you now. Understandable. One thing about you people, is when you 'show you'--you are really showing you. There is a depth of sincerity unlike any other. That is when it is there. But when it is gone, it is gone with the wind. Though, you seem to suffer silently a lot (which goes back to my primary concern), even when you don't have to. Which is sad to me. Maybe because I am so protective.

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posted November 26, 2011 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My advice, is if you see a down leo... Work on boosting there ego before anything..
Pressure to open up wont really work.. It just has to come from me.. When I trust and when I am ready...

If a leo does confide in you... No matter what keep it to your self, and dont share it with anyone... In other words dont tell any one you saw that person as vulnerable.

I have the same BF since I was 15.. About 20 years ago, I confided in her and cried to her, she went and told everyone...
Even though we are still friends.. I luv her to death, I dont tell her anything...
She really knows very little about my feelings or my life...

She doesnt even know about the pisces guy... LOL...

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posted November 26, 2011 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ But lioness, that's not really a leo trait though?

Everyone who tells a secret, hopes the other person would keep it and hold the secret to themselves so tightly, you would think they've forgotten about what you told them in the first place.

No one wants that trust to be used against them.

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posted November 26, 2011 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ But lioness, that's not really a leo trait though?

Everyone who tells a secret, hopes the other person would keep it and hold the secret to themselves so tightly, you would think they've forgotten about what you told them in the first place.


True... what upset me, was it wasnt a "secret" she just told everyone I cried... lol
It hurt my ego... I was embarrassed and humiliated..
So much that even 20 years later, I havent forgotten it, and still wont confide in her..
I would do ANYTHING else for her... I just dont trust her with my feelings..

Which is what I mean about being Leo, and the ego and having a hard time opening up...

Of course other signs would be like that also.. But maybe more forgiving or later on be able to let go of it and trust again...

But I also have Pis Asc and Cancer venus too... lol
SO Im already flaky and secretive.. And disappears... And goes and hides in my shell when hurt.. Just my Leo wont let it go...
Dont damage the rep... LOL


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