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Topic: *gasp* I actually had a positive communication experience during Mercury retrograde!
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RegardesPlatero
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posted November 26, 2011 05:53 PM
  
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anongrl10
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posted November 26, 2011 05:56 PM
To "catch" body language you have to be observant. Earth signs have good emphasis on the senses but to me being observant is also a bit intuitive. But everything starts with paying attention with the eyes. IP: Logged |
*Prince~Darien*
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posted November 26, 2011 06:20 PM
body language; i would think the moon or any of the other outer planets would be the one's to express something beneath the surface.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xBtmcRoIOEQ their relations to your chart also help! IP: Logged |
*Prince~Darien*
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posted November 26, 2011 06:24 PM
as for the mercury retro; i've had some pretty great experiences, too! i've ended up going to places i swore i'd never step foot in again and it's been something i've worked on since the memories of the place would resonate with me still; i purposely try to put myself in those same places to re-create a positive experience and have that be the lasting memory..i've not only ended up chatting with one, or two or even three people from yeeeeeeeears ago, but it just doesn't end! it has all proven to be very, very, very good! even took the time to see some people i butted heads with before and ended up chatting with them, seeing them in new light.. they were very courteous and respectful and amiable, i think is the word that i want to say. glad to know that it's going all around!  IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted November 26, 2011 07:32 PM
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BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 26, 2011 07:57 PM
Yeah, Mercury retrograde doesn't mean that every single interaction people have with one another during that time, will be negative or confusing.IP: Logged |
*Prince~Darien*
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posted November 27, 2011 05:13 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
--I like your idea of giving places and people a second chance. I couldn't do that with a few people in my life (dangerous people who literally might harm me), but with others, such as the people with whom I am struggling, I now have new hope (after talking with someone and reading these posts here) that perhaps I can see these people in a different way and that I can learn to read them a little better. Maybe Mercury Retrograde, for all of the problems attributed to it, can be what you make of it in some cases. Maybe it can actually be beautiful sometimes. I feel so thankful to people here for being helpful. I actually had prayed about this situation again, for clarity, and I really feel like I have more of it right now; I feel so grateful for this too. I am going to try to be more trusting in the positive, even if it seems foreign to me at first. So, thanks again so much everyone!
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RegardesPlatero
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posted November 27, 2011 06:08 PM
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RegardesPlatero
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posted December 01, 2011 04:45 AM
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RegardesPlatero
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posted December 02, 2011 05:57 AM
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posted December 02, 2011 06:04 AM
Aww sorry to hear you hit a low, Regardes. But we need to have those to better appreciate the highs, no? Sounds like you had a great past few days so I now don't know what you were talking about when you said on some other thread that you're socially doomed! As if that's even possible for a Libra with Sun in the 11th.  IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 02, 2011 06:12 AM
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mir
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posted December 02, 2011 07:30 AM
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I recently told both that they could friend me (on FB) if they wished and felt comfortable, and they haven't, even though they've friended everyone else in our mutual circle, so to me this says that it was a mistake to do this and I just feel really dumb and humiliated.
Hi Regardes, Just something that went through my mind for a moment;
You told them that if THEY wished and if THEY felt comfortable with the idea of adding you to their face-book they would be allowed to do that (a bit theatrical said).
But what about YOU? Are YOU waiting for them?
Just to say that some people could interpretate your words like that; as if it's only up to them to decide, as if you don't give a damn (so to speak) whether they're your friend there or not.
IF that's on their mind (which could be very well the case) they won't be stimulated to add you that easy. I hope I don't miss some important facts If it matters I have a Virgo-merc. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 02, 2011 07:38 AM
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RegardesPlatero
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posted December 02, 2011 09:53 AM
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posted December 02, 2011 09:53 AM
You know.. life is like this (in my experience); in a relationship, connection or whatever... there's usually one that leads... or let's specifically say; initiates the connection, by, for example their big enthusiasm to connect.
For a Virgo-mercury it could be not that easy if there's no practical need to mentally connect. So just based on 'human goodwill' I can imagine they're a bit careful and suspicious especially if they feel that reservedness or carefulness from the other party. It's like they hear; “I don't NEED to connect”.
And well if both are too much alike (the sense I get in your case) and 'sit on the fence' (due to their nature) there's nothing coming out of it. No big deal, it's simply how human nature works.
If both instinctively fear the same, or absolutely don't want to be a burden, well, then it's easily felt to BE a burden.
And well, how then can they be aware of YOUR way of saying; 'I like you and trust you enough to allow you access to the real me'? I would even say; they need that kind of pushiness to mentally connect when there's no practical need for it. IP: Logged |
mir
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posted December 02, 2011 09:56 AM
Ow thank you, I read it now  IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 02, 2011 09:57 AM
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posted December 02, 2011 12:41 PM
Ok I get it. You're clear to them about your liking and they KNOW it. But that doesn't take away the overall reservedness between the two of you which you're both sensing and with that ofcourse a lack of initiating.
Well yea.. an awkward case but to overcome it something NEEDS to be done and the effect will always be; more clearness! And that's great if every fiber of your body screams for it.. so I strongly suggest that you take the first step here and add them to your facebook. Please don't let your body suffer any longer from this insecurity, that could be very devastating on the long run and that's not what we want!And NO you're NOT too pushy with that! IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 02, 2011 06:53 PM
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RegardesPlatero
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RegardesPlatero
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posted December 03, 2011 05:57 AM
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RegardesPlatero
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posted December 03, 2011 07:23 AM
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posted December 03, 2011 07:25 AM
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I want to believe in VM and believe that VM's kind in-person actions are genuine, and that the recent message was sincere, but I am afraid to do that because I don't want to be wrong and plus still no friend request or even a mention that VM would be OK with that; either one of those would have been fine with me.
Don't forget; you didn't ASK him to add you.. you just said; IF YOU wish/IF YOU feel comfortable with it...
That's not really an invitation for a *VM* especially if there's a certain reservedness between both parties.
Not all human interactions are the same so better not compare it with him adding others that easily.
Ok, take your time... a 'thank-you or sign of appreciation etc.' is nice to get and something to enjoy but it doesn't encourage (me) to send another 'thank-you' back .. most of the time it would take away the enjoyment of getting it.
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RegardesPlatero
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posted December 03, 2011 07:49 AM
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