posted November 26, 2011 08:32 PM
so, 
thank you guys for participating and sharing in the threads today! there was a reason i started those..
reading everyone's posts has helped me so i hope that going over it a second time after maybe reading this, you'd get a deeper understanding of it and that it helps you, too!
when we think of Virgo, or Sagi, or any of the signs, i think we've all identified them as something in our charts, or something in space, but, personally, sometimes i have a hard time understanding what some may say in a thread because i don't get it and unless they go into details (which i respect; some are uncomfortable doing), i seldom understand what a third house moon means when they say they like to "talk a lot", follow?
so, instead of looking at your house as taurus, or as capricorn, how's about you try looking at it as your ex-boyfriend, carl, or steve, or your ex-girlfriend, patricia, ankala, whatever you want to call them!
does that help?
if you learned by dating a leo that had their sun in possibly your second house, does that help you better understand how to treat your money? how to show it love and affection and to not belittle it by spending it on frivolous things that do not resonate with what you truly value?
or if their sun lit up your eighth house and they were constantly having general sex on the brain at the expense of paying attention to other things, could you maybe have a similar attitude in regards to those things and the finances of other people?
following the eighth house theme; amongst many things, the eighth house rules shared resources; those resources go beyond money or sex it represents a bonding..
say for instance that the person got a bad cold from someone they were with once upon a time; could something else that they experienced with that person have also inadvertently rubbed off on the house itself and how the person handles it?
as we're taught and as we've learned, there is only one Sun.. in our chart's, it's the same one.. it just lights up differently at certain times depending on how you look at it.. so if you can see a person as just a beacon of light pinpointing certain things out to you, do you feel more comfortable meeting someone and respecting them as a certain house of yours rather than a person and moving forward with the relationship once you have an understanding of yourself more and that through your interaction with them, you both grow, as a result?
if the ascendant sign represents something individual about the self and the descendant represents what the self needs to feel complete, or balanced, then i would assume that every thing is just the same.
it's easier to pinpoint certain traits if you can assign a name to it and if you spent a good deal of time with the person you shared about, even more so because they're someone familiar to you.
the ascendant starts, where the descendant begins; we're still cyclical; so is our chart, our cups, our plates, our pupils, our tires, our bottles, our cans, our condoms, etc..
i'm not suggesting that you run into the arm's our your ex in a slow trance; my personal experience has shown that once there's been neutralization, then the two split as there's no attraction/repulsion to keep the two together.
so if you've learned the lesson and you did the work, why not fully reap it's rewards?
you dumped them or broke up with them or they with you, physically, but before all of that, you joined.. so that's what i was thinking about when i started those threads; join with the lessons that you worked hard for, grow into a fuller and more secure you, a more confident you, unite with parts of yourself that have been going on for far too long unnoticed and embrace yourself the same way you did once you let that person go! 
the moon's going to be making it's monthly union with pluto after it's new moon eclipse so why not take the time to really dump that extra baggage and love yourself!
love yourself, accept yourself; release the idea of who you think that self is for who you actually are and feel that you can be; you can better relate and love others who will love you in return.. and you can experience authentic and engage in more fulfilling relationships rather than just selling yourself short for frivolous affection, when you know that if so desired, you can experience, accept and express more!
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