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Topic: Someone *loyal to a fault*???
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 794 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 28, 2011 08:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by malicefey: Venus in Scorpio, when we are in love with you 
So... what you really mean is... since you are slow as molasses to commit... it gives you the excuse in the meantime to hump everything in sight... like a female dog in heat (I think it begins with a B leter)... until you eventually do commit... and then when inconvenient... then fall out of love so that the gigantic f@*k fest can resume... is that so?  IP: Logged |
malicefey Knowflake Posts: 251 From: NY Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 28, 2011 09:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: So... what you really mean is... since you are slow as molasses to commit... it gives you the excuse in the meantime to hump everything in sight... like a female dog in heat (I think it begins with a B leter)... until you eventually do commit... and then when inconvenient... then fall out of love so that the gigantic f@*k fest can resume... is that so? 
Uh, I am definitely not slow as molasses to commit. I can commit to a guy so as long as I can get the same in return and that the love is there, or atleast being able to sense that I can stay together long with someone. Either you exist or you don't with me, and I don't bother my time with those who don't exist. ------------------ Sun Libra Moon Libra Mars Libra Mercury Scorpio Venus Scorpio Asc Scorpio IP: Logged |
snooks Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Ireland Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 28, 2011 09:56 AM
Venus in taurus men are extremely disloyal, my ex has this and cheated on me reason we split up. He has sun Pis, Sag moon, Leo rising and mars in taurus. IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight Knowflake Posts: 81 From: NY Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 28, 2011 10:05 AM
All the Venus in Taurus hate  I've got Venus in Taurus in the 5th house and I've never cheated on anyone. (I've also barely ever been in a relationship, but I attribute that to my Moon square Uranus/Uranus conj ASC ) And I don't go sleeping around, either; my sex life is less interesting than a cloistered nun's.  IP: Logged |
snooks Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Ireland Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 28, 2011 10:38 AM
Im loyal to a fault too, I have scorp asc, taur moon and and venus opp pluto, id never ever cheat well certainly not to this point in my life but seriously dont think this quality will ever change its part of my character for sure. Im not a taur venus hater but its interesting how theres alot of experiences with them cheating, I thought it would attribute as being very loyal in relationships......... IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 794 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 28, 2011 01:39 PM
Adapted from "Happy Feet II" to the tune of the "E Lucevan Le Stelle" aria from "Tosca" by Puccini.After all is done We all really deserve better Nothing makes sense in this world It's all a big pile of crazy Even kings are fools And queens are unfaithful Where is the honor? When a solemn promise Is just a pretty lie? I'm just an ordinary guy But my mommy taught me I don't need to look the part To have a big loyal heart And I don't need to be handsome To be faithfully awesome My heroine, my mommy. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 420 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 28, 2011 01:56 PM
The most stupidly loyal person I ever met: Sagittarius with Taurus Moon (trine Saturn), Venus in Capricorn (trine Mars) and Aquarius rising (Leo descending). Neptune in the 11th.STUPIDLY loyal to his friends!!!! Can't see them for what they are - users and lowlives who do the most pointless childish things ever. For blind love/loyalty, I'd say look to Neptune. If in the 11th, you will love your friends no matter what. Maybe in the 5th, they would be stupidly loyal and sacrifice all for a lover? I can't stand it when the man in my life puts anyone else (except family...I'm a Capricorn, so I respect that) ahead of me, or sides with them instead of me. It makes me want to abuse those other people or ship them off to Siberia just so I can merge with my lover uninterrupted. That's Venus in Scorpio for ya. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 794 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 28, 2011 02:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: I can't stand it when the man in my life puts anyone else (except family...I'm a Capricorn, so I respect that) ahead of me, or sides with them instead of me. It makes me want to abuse those other people or ship them off to Siberia just so I can merge with my lover uninterrupted. That's Venus in Scorpio for ya.
High fives to that. And even then, you ought to come first ahead of anyone else in this world. I showed my birth family my middle finger when it came to my wife, and her birth family as well. To me, no one.. nobody.. is ahead of my wife. I'll defend her honor and her opinion with my life. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 420 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 28, 2011 02:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: High fives to that. And even then, you ought to come first ahead of anyone else in this world.I showed my birth family my middle finger when it came to my wife. To me, no one.. nobody.. is ahead of my wife. I'll defend her honor and her opinion with my life.
O_o I envy her, just for that. But being a Leo, she probably expected no less. Just goes to show, we really do attract our own realities. Believe you're a queen and you attract those who will conform to that. You can be a supermodel but be self-critical and you will end up attracting only jerks. Be a closet commitmentphobe and you will find yourself questioning why you fall for guys who are unavailable in some way.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 794 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 28, 2011 02:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [QUOTE] Just goes to show, we really do attract our own realities. Believe you're a queen and you attract those who will conform to that.You can be a supermodel but be self-critical and you will end up attracting only jerks.
And I believe you are right on all fronts.
My wife is my one true friend in this world. If I have to travel through the depths of hell, I wouldn't want anyone else with me. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 933 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 28, 2011 04:55 PM
quote: Someone who turns down the hot chick who throws themselves at him bc he's happy with his gf. Someone who is really trustworthy and non deceitful?? Someone who sticks through their s/o/partner through the hard times??
Isn't that everyone? If you're with someone you love/respect, you don't feel the need to sleep with other people. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 420 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 28, 2011 05:05 PM
EDIT: nvm, off topicIP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1196 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 28, 2011 07:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by amowls**: Isn't that everyone? If you're with someone you love/respect, you don't feel the need to sleep with other people.
Unfortunately alot of people cheat not cos they don't love their partner, it's cos of lack of empathy, insecurity, impulsiveness and selfishness.
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Taineberry Knowflake Posts: 368 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 03:19 PM
People with Venus/Saturn aspects may be loyal beyond rhyme and reason.IP: Logged |
1-scorp Knowflake Posts: 92 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 03:29 PM
From personal experience, I wouldn't put venus in Taurus in there. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1196 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 29, 2011 03:30 PM
Woah! The venus in tauruses I've met are loyal so this is quite a surprise.IP: Logged |
1-scorp Knowflake Posts: 92 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 03:36 PM
This one wasn't. I divorced him.  IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight Knowflake Posts: 81 From: NY Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 03:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Taineberry: People with Venus/Saturn aspects may be loyal beyond rhyme and reason.
Hmm... I've got Venus in Taurus opposite Saturn in Scorpio. Maybe that explains why I'm not with the lot of other Taurus Venuses. IP: Logged |
bellesoul Knowflake Posts: 431 From: london Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 03:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Venus in Scorpio will expect your complete loyalty and all of your heart and soul. Take any of it away a smidgen and their double standards kick in. Only loyal as long as you are. Again, conditional loyalty.
I experienced disloyalty and i was still loyal and still am. My loyalty is def not 'conditional.' IP: Logged |
Malena Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 05:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by amowls**: Isn't that everyone? If you're with someone you love/respect, you don't feel the need to sleep with other people.
Yeah really. I don't see how that's "loyal to a fault"... that's just loyal. To me, "loyal to a fault" is staying with a partner who abuses you, abuses your kids, steals from you, etc. etc. For better and worse, I would actually nominate Virgo as capable of extreme loyalty. While there are cheaters in every sign and Virgo is no exception, I have met a lot of Virgos who hold themselves to the same high standards as they hold others. This can include moral/ethical standards. I also find Virgos to be incredibly loyal in non-romantic situation, as friends or family members. I've found Leos/Leo placements can be quite loyal too. At their best, they take a lot of pride in the person/relationship they've invested in and it's a real blow for that to be damaged by infidelity. Moreover, I find that with Leos you know where you stand with them. If you've ****** them off or done something to endanger their loyalty, they will let you know, lol. Again, Leo placements don't make a person immune to cheating (hello Bill Clinton) but my experience with them has been that they tend to put their cards on the table. IP: Logged |
Malena Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 05:47 PM
herp, double post.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 420 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 29, 2011 06:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by bellesoul: I experienced disloyalty and i was still loyal and still am. My loyalty is def not 'conditional.'
Good to know, thanks. IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 731 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 29, 2011 06:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: Scrappy and Mint - Do you guys mean Sun in Scorpio or any placement in Scorpio? In my experience Scorpio Mars men are very reliable.. There are no conditions other than 'honesty'. If they love you and trust you and they made the decision to *be* with you - they don't cheat. At least the ones I know! They are very controlled so they can say *no* to sex - even if a supermodel propositioned them. Also, because Scorpio is a water sign.. emotion means a lot to them - so they wouldn't trade a person they have a strong emotional connection with (their wife or partner) with just any girl.
I have had other ladies strongly coming onto me when I have been with my(then)girlfriends,sometimes in their faces with it..! but I don't take it any further. My Mars in Scorpio is loyal, but loyalty is a rare commodity given in return... IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 2028 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 29, 2011 06:08 PM
quote: I think the Mars sign alone wont tell too much about a person being faithful or not. I know someone with Mars in Scorpio and he's certain that a man can not be faithful in a relationship...
Ok! I'll add more things to the list.. I think you are right actually  --- Obviously astrology alone will not tell you X will definitely be faithful for as long as you both shalt live.
But, imo - out of alllllllll the possible sign combinations out there in the world - the men who are least likely to cheat, once they make the decision to be in a committed relationship (and who also have a desire to be in a long-term rel.)… have the following combo: A SOCIAL Sun Sign – whether it is Leo/Virgo/Libra or Scorpio.. Coupled with - A Scorpio Mars.. (fixed & social) OR A Leo Mars.. (fixed & social) OR Second Best: A Libra Mars or Virgo Mars - ONLY if in aspect to Saturn or Pluto (trines/sextiles/conjunctions) Coupled with - NO Venus/Mars squares.. NO Moon/Mars squares.. NO Moon/Venus/Mars TO Saturn/Neptune/Uranus or Pluto – squares.. NO Mars opposite Pluto! IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 2028 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 29, 2011 06:08 PM
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