posted November 28, 2011 07:30 AM            

Well the eclipse has passed and oh my goodnes. The last eclipse in the summer totally fractured family relationships, bought a clarity to hidden resentment, secrets, lies etc. Since the summer, nothing has been the same and I have spent the past 6 months dealing with the aftermath of that for myself.

So, during the 2 days before the November eclipse, my beloved grandpa died at 94 (he lived a good life, but was far away in Australia and my mum refused to fly out to be with her father in his dying days). She also did not inform me or my sister when he passed away, I found out from facebook! She had told all of australia before her own children.

This bought up feelings of things ending, its a shock when you realise your family line is dissapearing and life is too short but people insist on causing pain, negativity.

The second thing that happended on that same day is I contacted my ex as he knew my family and knows me deeply. He and I haven't spoken for a few months but he replied instantly to my message so was there for me when I needed him so I appreciated that.

Now more than ever,I feel that is best to have an honest relationship with yourself and others. There is no use pretending.