posted November 28, 2011 07:11 PM            

And please, no bashing about how all guys/certain girls want sex only.

=) We can have a more astrological discussion.

List your ASC/Sun/Moon/Mars/Venus and your sexuality on a meter of 1-10,

10 being the highest - thinking every second, scraping against zipper every 5 minutes, wanting it everyday, etc....(you get the point)

I would appreciate if some guys can shed some light on this subject

Or girls that have noticed certain trends about guys/their sexuality + natal aspects

posted November 28, 2011 07:16 PM            

Buuuut, as much as I indulge myself/my partner, I really like it to be a more private matter. Don't hold my hand in public, don't touch me with friends around. Don't pester for it either. :c

I think you could list that under Leo Mars and Virgo Rising. C:

posted November 28, 2011 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
...kissing doesn't turn me on, touching doesn't turn me on either...

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Do you think about it when it happens? 'Cause one time I thought about it and things became awkward. "What are you doing? People find this hot?"

posted November 28, 2011 07:42 PM            

Virgo mars
Eros conjunct pluto in 8th house scorp
Aries rising
sun conjunct mars
sun sextile pluto by 1 degree
Libra moon and venus
Kaali and lust conjunct IC both by a degree lol

posted November 28, 2011 07:46 PM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Do you think about it when it happens? 'Cause one time I thought about it and things became awkward. "What are you doing? People find this hot?"

Or when you think about kissing, it's kinda stupid. Lips pressed against lips. Loooool. Makes me laugh.

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Not really lol I just think "oh.... we could be doing something else........." LOL! I think its really cause I've been so sexually repressed for years and hated being touched so I'm making baby steps to being ok with it etc like touching for me isn't associated with feel good vibrations... like most people would get very turned on by touching but for me it feels as intimate as standing next to the wall... not to insult my boyfriend but before se was meaningless for me... it mainly had a lot to do with my circumstances regarding sexuality growin up so I'm making small baby steps... to enjoy it which is what is happening... I went from dissociating to feeling ok about it, went from being a dead fish when kissing to now initiating the kiss.... Hehe I get what you mean though

posted November 28, 2011 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Not really lol I just think "oh.... we could be doing something else........." LOL! I think its really cause I've been so sexually repressed for years and hated being touched so I'm making baby steps to being ok with it etc like touching for me isn't associated with feel good vibrations... like most people would get very turned on by touching but for me it feels as intimate as standing next to the wall... not to insult my boyfriend but before se was meaningless for me... it mainly had a lot to do with my circumstances regarding sexuality growin up so I'm making small baby steps... to enjoy it which is what is happening... I went from dissociating to feeling ok about it, went from being a dead fish when kissing to now initiating the kiss.... Hehe I get what you mean though

do you have any air in your chart?

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LMAO "we could be doing something else"
"as intimate as standing next to a wall"
"dead fish"

posted November 28, 2011 07:55 PM            

I don't always find that true.

Like scorpios and how they love sex and need sex...but what about sun conj saturn in scorp? Wouldn't that just trump and repress everything?

posted November 28, 2011 08:01 PM            

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Originally posted by malicefey:
Theres always stereotypes out there about how xxx sign LOVES sex!!!

I don't always find that true.

Like scorpios and how they love sex and need sex...but what about sun conj saturn in scorp? Wouldn't that just trump and repress everything?

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posted November 28, 2011 08:22 PM            

I'm incredibly sexual, I'd even say voracious. I get turned on very easily but I'm sly and very secretive about my sexuality. I'll reveal a bit for the purpose of this post. I've got Mercury in the 8th and sex and anything taboo are my favorite research and discussion topics.

I have Mars in Aries which means I've got raw passions and I'm uninhibited in relation to my sexual style. I overwhelm with my passion and I can be aggressive and a bit obsessive when it comes to sex. I've got Venus in Leo which adds fire to that Martian flame. Having Venus and Mars in fire means I lean more towards physical expressions of love. In addition I have Pluto (Scorpio) in the 8th which makes me very concerned about all thing related to sexuality and 8th house matters. I've got potent sexual energy that when on the prowl can become obsessive even compulsive. However, I'm very controlled with my sexual expression, I use major discrimination in choosing potential mates.

I'd rate my sexuality honestly at a 10. I've got a pretty strong libido. Everything is laced with sexual undertones, it's hard to escape. I draw in sexual situations all the time, which is the unfortunate consequence of having potent sexual energy. It's been hard to control and it took me YEARS to learn how to manage my intensely sexual primal urges, instead of suppressing them or turning into a nymphomaniac. At this stage in my life I'm very connected to my primal urges and can keep them intact.

posted November 28, 2011 08:27 PM            

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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Well....I can only speak for myself and as noted aspects and placements are relative to individual experiences.

I'm incredibly sexual, I'd even say voracious. I get turned on very easily but I'm sly and very secretive about my sexuality. I'll reveal a bit for the purpose of this post. I've got Mercury in the 8th and sex and anything taboo are my favorite research and discussion topics.

I have Mars in Aries which means I've got raw passions and I'm uninhibited in relation to my sexual style. I overwhelm with my passion and I can be aggressive and a bit obsessive when it comes to sex. I've got Venus in Leo which adds fire to that Martian flame. Having Venus and Mars in fire means I lean more towards physical expressions of love. In addition I have Pluto (Scorpio) in the 8th which makes me very concerned about all thing related to sexuality and 8th house matters. I've got potent sexual energy that when on the prowl can become obsessive even compulsive. However, I'm very controlled with my sexual expression, I use major discrimination in choosing potential mates.

I'd rate my sexuality honestly at a 10. I've got a pretty strong libido. Everything is laced with sexual undertones, it's hard to escape. I draw in sexual situations all the time, which is the unfortunate consequence of having potent sexual energy. It's been hard to control and it took me YEARS to learn how to manage my intensely sexual primal urges, instead of suppressing them or turning into a nymphomaniac. At this stage in my life I'm very connected to my primal urges and can keep them intact.

Aquarius Rising
Libra Sun
Aries Moon
Venus Leo
Mars Aries
Pluto in the 8th

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Wow a 10!
Thanks for giving some good insight I do see that your venus and mars go hand-in-hand.

posted November 28, 2011 08:30 PM            

Is there a case where the more serious the relationship becomes, the more unlikely you are gonna have so much sex with that person?

Or is it, the more "detached" to the person you are, the easier it is for you to have sex with them?

posted November 28, 2011 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by malicefey:
For those of you who rated yourself pretty high on the libido chart, would you say you are only willing to show the high libido to those you actually love or you can show it to anyone you like?

Is there a case where the more serious the relationship becomes, the more unlikely you are gonna have so much sex with that person?

Or is it, the more "detached" to the person you are, the easier it is for you to have sex with them?

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No problem . I can show my strong libido to anyone but I choose to show it exclusively to those I'm deeply attracted to. It's a lot of heat and passion to waste on someone I'm barely interested in.

For me the more serious the relationship gets the more the need grows to express that intense desire and depth of feeling physically. If it goes the other way in the sense that my partner wants to slow down, I'd feel a lack in our physical connection. I want our sexual relationship to thrive and evolve as we grow and transform in our relationship together.

posted November 28, 2011 08:55 PM            

I don't do casual sex, but in relationships, I will do it after a while. Just won't fully give myself away (I guess I keep a tiny part of me to myself). If I think about it, I really only completely 'gave myself (in a sense)' to that one guy.
I mean I can experiment and let loose, but with the other guys a part of me was untouchable? I guess I need genuine love to completely let down my guard. I want to connect in every single level, and this need does intensify as time goes by.

I have eros conjunct pluto in 8th house scorp. I want to merge, and have it be more than a physical act.

posted November 28, 2011 09:02 PM            

If I'm with a guy I actually *like* then it can go to: 7/10 with *him* individually.. but not in general.

But if I'm single - It's always about 2/10.

AC - Gem/Cancer cusp
Sun - Aries,
Moon - Capricorn,
Merc - Pisces,
Venus - Taurus..

And the only relevant placement:

posted November 28, 2011 09:19 PM            

I think it's Mars conjunct Neptune.

I can place anything before sex, not just love lol

posted November 28, 2011 09:49 PM            

i can admit that i can sometimes surprise myself when i'm undergoing a mars/venus transit/aspect, though.. it's very rare.

i've always been aware of sex or anything sensual to some extent so it's not really something that's on the forefront of my mind all the time because i feel that i'm pretty comfortable with it..

i've met some with uranus/mars that seem to have this off the wall sex drive.. lots of pluto can really turn up the heat, a LOT!

even when pluto is just making an aspect to something one wouldn't consider 'sexual' right away (like general mars/venus).. moon and sun do it for them, too.

i'm a little old-fashioned when it comes to that so loose-houndin' it isn't really my style and i bolt like a bat out of hell away from people who give me 'that' vibe.. :/

posted November 28, 2011 09:53 PM            

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i bolt like a bat out of hell away from people who give me 'that' vibe..

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posted November 28, 2011 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Me to! Nothing against them - but it creeps me out.
Can you post your Mars aspects?

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lol... oh, uh, gee

posted November 28, 2011 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by *Prince~Darien*:
lol... oh, uh, gee

so sudden?

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posted November 28, 2011 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
LOL Red - I like him to! I bet his Sun is trine our Moons

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Nope, not fer me! Well, widely for me anyways. c: