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Topic: The *one thing* that will make them catch your EYE??
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1072 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 28, 2011 09:42 PM
I don't need a hot body or a sexy grin...Show me your knowledge in the arts/history/politics/philosophy/current events etc. Tell me your opinions, thoughts and beliefs and I'll take notice. Deep thinking guys are suchh a turn on lol! Virgo sun Libra moon, V, M What about you? IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 310 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 28, 2011 11:46 PM
I value intelligence because I have a Gemini MC (MC represents what we respect and aspire to be) but I have Venus conjunct Uranus, so a nonconformist will catch my eye (along with everyone else's, probably).The weirder they are, the more I like. I guess I feel less weird when standing next to a weirdo. IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 878 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 29, 2011 12:04 AM
While I love a brilliant genius of a man, that isn't the first thing that catches my eye. That is what will keep us going but what I first notice is a nice body and gorgeous eyes (sorry, I can't choose just one).A tall, wiry dude with broad shoulders and bright green eyes walks by and I won't be able to speak. Scruffy beard wearing a suit and I'll pass out... Venus and Adonis conjunct the DC...
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RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Ontario, Canada! Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 12:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: I don't need a hot body or a sexy grin...
I might. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 1974 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 29, 2011 12:35 AM
hmmm I think the very first thing that catches my eye - would be their own eyes lol I like interesting/deep eyes..Venus - Taurus trine Mars/Nept - Cap IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 112 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 12:51 AM
I like someone who walks in with confidence that isn't imposing; they're clearly positive people without being extreme.I have Pisces MC, and Venus making some kind of aspect to Jupiter (in relation to this thread) IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 1276 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 01:23 AM
Enthusiasm That sparkle in his eyes.
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anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 1769 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 05:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by downtomars:
A tall, wiry dude with broad shoulders and bright green eyes walks by and I won't be able to speak. Scruffy beard wearing a suit and I'll pass out...
that's pretty much echoing my mind as well.... i love them smart but what first catches my eye is their maleness... of course they then proceed to open their mouths and they ruin the whole thing....
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BelligerentPygmy Knowflake Posts: 735 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 05:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: I don't need a hot body or a sexy grin...Show me your knowledge in the arts/history/politics/philosophy/current events etc. Tell me your opinions, thoughts and beliefs and I'll take notice. Deep thinking guys are suchh a turn on lol! Virgo sun Libra moon, V, M What about you?
I'm sorry, but I need a hot body and face. And a good brain too. Basically I need compatibility and that 'pull' on all levels. I can't do that whole "I'm attracted to your brain but not your body" thing or vice-versa. If it's not all there then I'm just not interested, no matter how hard I might try to be.
My feelings on it are, if it's right, if they're the right person, you'll be physically attracted to them, strongly so - as well as very emotionally attracted and intellectually attracted to them, and that if you don't feel all those things for the person you're with, then you're with the wrong person. sun in leo moon in libra venus in virgo mars in cancer mercury opposition ascendant, conjunct dsc IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1072 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 29, 2011 06:01 AM
I dunno, I've dated quite a few 'hot looking' people, but it just doesn't last. Many times I start having thoughts in my head like 'wow you're boring me.' and these thoughts start getting more persistent lol... I guess I'm not the shallow type? A hot guy really can't seem to sustain my attention if it's not backed up with the qualities I like in a guy lol. Usually I get bored really quick, so I need more of a mental and emotional connection. Looks don't last. You are dating them to have fun, not to stare at their face 24/7.I have three main planets in libra, and two in virgo so I am selective, but since all of them are more mental, I want to have the mental connection above all. Cos somebody that keeps me interested that way keeps my attention. I am quite uranian (have it exactly conjunct my MC, an aquarius north node and psyche) so I need to be stimulated (though I'm never the cheating type) I am quite content with an average looking person. Frankly the guys I were really interested in weren't the best looking. They just had a great personality (and as cheesy as it sounds, that made them really appealing to me). And no, I did not compensate or 'settle.' I just liked them cos they were cool, funny and intelligent. I also have mercury conjunct desc, thus my need for a smart guy. IP: Logged |
Choc Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 29, 2011 06:17 AM
I don't know, it's usually something in their eyes, a kind of sadness/intensity.Although it's all a matter of chemistry to me. It's a bit like magic, I can't quite put my finger on it. It's not his looks or his intellect.. Not that I don't care about looks.. He could also be the smartest guy with the best personality ever. If I can't imagine him in an erotic scenario with me, It's not gonna happen. I am not one of those ladies that can fall in love with someone in the long run, just because of his character. I wish I could but I just can't. Some friends have told me in the past "give guy X a chance, get to know him better/hang out with him, you might like him later on/develop feelings for him yadda yadda". Impossible. Aries DSC/ Mars in Cancer in the 10th/ 5th H in Aqua/ Venus in Gem in late 8th H, opposed by Uranus IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 655 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 29, 2011 08:09 AM
To catch my eye or to be truly interested? Hm.. at the least I have to get that vibe of an anarchistic weirdo since any taste I get of conditioned thoughts/beliefs/opinions that totally miss the essence of being human is mainly causing in-one-ear-and-right-out-the-other here. If I'm too much involved hollow words can feel like getting punched in the stomach, which this already fragile body tries to avoid. Hm.. placements? I guess Aqua-Mars/NN 6th square Scorp-Moon 3rd.. not the need for that so called smart guy as I'm already smart myself with mercury right on the ascendant, but more the one that went through life like a hurricane or something (an anarchistic weirdo isn't born out of nowhere). Sun in the 12th (sext. uranus) also has its share. IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 680 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 08:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by downtomars: While I love a brilliant genius of a man, that isn't the first thing that catches my eye. That is what will keep us going but what I first notice is a nice body and gorgeous eyes (sorry, I can't choose just one).A tall, wiry dude with broad shoulders and bright green eyes walks by and I won't be able to speak. Scruffy beard wearing a suit and I'll pass out... Venus and Adonis conjunct the DC...
lool that is soo my type.. i'll add deep sexy voice IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze Knowflake Posts: 97 From: One World Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 29, 2011 09:15 AM
Eyes are what get me, ojos bella. I really notice them when they are looking at me, when our eyes meet thats when I notice them. There isn't necessarily a specific colour, although green is my favourite. Its that look that subtley says, I want you. Whether you're aware of it or not. I like eyes because they're the most honest part of people.Although as others have said, being attracted to the whole package is needed. ------------------ Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
1-scorp Knowflake Posts: 85 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 10:02 AM
"The weirder they are, the more I like. I guess I feel less weird when standing next to a weirdo."Another venus conjunct uranus here. I use to be into the deep thinking thing. Nah, kinda bores me now. Make me laugh, you got me. venus - scorpio 2nd house venus venus conjunct uranus mercury conjunct venus venus conjunct mars venus trine midheaven IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 890 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 29, 2011 10:54 AM
Yessss to anarchists. The minute I see a dude in black on black with tattoos, I go nuts. Vegan straight edge? Hell yeah even though they'll hate me because I wear leather and smoke cigarettes. But I like radical dudes. Idk. Especially if they don't shower often.I've got Venus square Uranus. IP: Logged |