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Topic: Wondering about these house placements?
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hannaramaa
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posted November 29, 2011 03:10 PM
  
I made a new chart based on the time my mother's water broke rather than the time of birth recorded (I was born cesarean anyway) What I'd most like to know about is the attitude, and characteristics of the Aries stellium in my 5th house, and my Mars and Jupiter in the 7th? It's as if my original chart was flipped upside down and backwards.  IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted November 29, 2011 04:31 PM
You probably know that the 7th House reflects what we project onto others. So Mars here can mean that you relate to go-getter types and that when you are with one, they fulfill the initiative-taking role so that you will be relieved of that. You find yourself putting in a lot of energy into your one-to-one relationships. Not that you really want to; it just happens that way. You also look for direct confrontation in a relationship in order to connect. Jupiter in the 7th can manifest as receiving generosity from your one-to-one relationships because you yourself have been generous in them. The 7th House is the house of reciprocity, after all. It can also mean marriage with a foreigner or a Sagittarian. Or multiple simultaneous partnerships, such as having to divide your energies (Mars there also) between a business partnership, a marriage partnership, and other legalized pairings. Not saying it will happen, but the energies there will facilitate that. Jupiter in the 7th shows that you have some high standards when it comes to your one-to-one relationships. For example, if you think someone isn't educated (Jupiter = Sagittarius) enough, you can't relate to them. Sorry, I don't know much about the 5th House. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 29, 2011 04:38 PM
BAM! You hit the nail on the head about Jupiter in the 7th and education. I'm dealing with that right now with a Cancer guy. He's not into me for a relationship, and I'm not that kind of girl but I still like to have a rapport at least, a footing of some sort and I can't even find that with him 'cause we're seriously on two different ends of the spectrum. I do think he's kind of dumb, if I'm being honest, but everybody has their strengths and weaknesses. Anyway my point in saying that is yes, you're beyond right.I also relate to the Mars opp. ASC. I suppose that would give someone the attitude of having a lot of "walls" and being defensive? I get called defensive a LOT, and it baffles me 'cause I think I'm reacting normally. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted November 29, 2011 04:44 PM
I think Mars in the 7th can mean that you perceive aggression in your one-to-one interactions, yes. Is it possible that Mars is in your 8th? I know someone who has Mars and Jupiter in the 7th but Jupiter is closer to the 8th house in his case, and the description of Mars I wrote up there are applicable to him. However, I don't see much of the Jupiter description in him except that he prefers girls outside of his ethnic group. In your case, intelligence/education may be especially important in your relationships not only because of Jupiter (higher education) but because Gemini (intellect) is on the DSC.
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He's not into me for a relationship, and I'm not that kind of girl but I still like to have a rapport at least, a footing of some sort and I can't even find that with him 'cause we're seriously on two different ends of the spectrum.
I know exactly what you're talking about. He knows he's dumb compared to you and the reason why he doesn't want a relationship is because he doesn't feel good enough about himself. What has he got to offer?Some people may say you're slumming and he probably knows this too.
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I get called defensive a LOT, and it baffles me 'cause I think I'm reacting normally.
Our Sun sign's energy is the one that is expressed and what others see. Our Moon sign is how we see ourselves inside. Sometimes it's unfortunate.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 29, 2011 06:52 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[B] [QUOTE]He's not into me for a relationship, and I'm not that kind of girl but I still like to have a rapport at least, a footing of some sort and I can't even find that with him 'cause we're seriously on two different ends of the spectrum.
I know exactly what you're talking about. He knows he's dumb compared to you and the reason why he doesn't want a relationship is because he doesn't feel good enough about himself. What has he got to offer?Some people may say you're slumming and he probably knows this too.[/quote] I don't know. He works in construction so I imagine he's got a decent job, he's saving up for a house at the moment and is only 24... I'm 22 and still dependent on my parents. My first impression was that he's a good guy but our natures are very different. Compared to him, *I* look like the Cancerian. However, this was part of our patchy conversation.... "I've never owned a car. I've always had a truck. I'd like an El Camero." and I said "Oh do you know so and so from high school? She had one, it was really popular. I think she'd probably sell it." and he just gave a goofy smile and shrugged. Okay....
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