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Topic: Just wanted to say I think Virgo guys are perfect for Cancers
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 29, 2011 09:43 PM
  
<3I have no virgo in my chart, and don't really like the other earth signs that much lol. But virgos and cancers are so similar that it's really quite magical when they're in a couple. IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:57 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
<3I have no virgo in my chart, and don't really like the other earth signs that much lol. But virgos and cancers are so similar that it's really quite magical when they're in a couple.
You're in love?   IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 29, 2011 10:06 PM
Cancer brings out a softer side in virgo and virgo helps cancer drop down to earth alil lol.IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted November 29, 2011 10:09 PM
LOL I thought you liked Libras and Aries?? Its cool though, now that I have learned husband is a virgo in sidereal and aqua friend is really a cap in sidereal and my ex though is still a scorpio...I have come to the conclusion that I like all signs romantically LOL it really just depends on their chart and how it interacts with mine and if they are interesting or not PERIOD. Is the virgo guy you are referring to the same as the last one that your mom didn't approve of? IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted November 29, 2011 10:11 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Cancer brings out a softer side in virgo and virgo helps cancer drop down to earth alil lol.
True true I met this super freaking cute cancer at the airport about two weeks ago and he was soooo light and easy to talk to and didn't give him my phone number but I would have if I was single and looking for a husband. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 01:34 AM
Yes it is  . It's the same virgo guy I couldn't date because my family would disown me because he has bad friends and stuff and wants to be a rapper. Well, he looked very hurt every time we would run into each other because I ignore him, so I ended up telling him why I was really avoiding him on facebook. And he said he understood. And we had a convo on FB chat and we had such nice chemistry....throwing jokes back n forth . In person he is so shy around me.
But he wasn't online. But even in person we have chemistry. It's a shame. So now we both agreed to just avoid each other because it would only hurt more to be friends with someone u wanted to go out with. The other night we were both on FB at 2 am and he goes "buenas noches" on FB chat which means "good night" in spanish and just signs off. Aw. Tear. Lol. I love when guys get really nervous and shy in person with that glimmery sparkle in their eyes because it means they really like you, you know? And virgo guys are so shy and sweet but sexy as hell too I said before I like Aries and Virgo guys the most. I do like libras but only as friends. I've only ever crushed on one libra guy all my life lol. I think that virgo and cancer gel so well because they both understand where the other is coming from because they're so similar, but they also have all these differences to keep it lively and interesting. Like they're both shy andget nervous easily, they're both givers and nurturers, they're both dedicated friends, they're both romantic and sentimental and like talking about their feelings, they're both worriers. And their differences complement each other ---except for the criticism thing. But I can see they just do it out of concern and I love having someone concerned about me, so it doesn't bother me. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 01:36 AM
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ElizabethO
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posted November 30, 2011 01:43 AM
I miss the Virgo that I would be dating if the Cancer and I weren't linked up... We had sparks.  Alas, he's a bit of a workaholic, and this gal needs romance! Or at least someone I can cuddle with without worrying if he needs to leave for some errand. The other Virgo was my first boyfriend... most miserable relationship I've ever been in and even five years later he's still very bitter towards me because I didn't end it right. I basically just ignored him for weeks and when he'd contact me I'd be very rude just to get him to go away... What can I say... youth... ------------------
Cancer Sun/Libra Moon/Libra
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 01:51 AM
Ooo...about the virgo who's bitter. Did you ever really like him?IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted November 30, 2011 01:55 AM
I did. As friends, and then he had a crush on me and everyone pushed for us to be in a relationship. I was so excited about the chance of being in a relationship for the first time that I didn't really think about whether or not we should be in one... We lasted barely a year. But this was in high school, my junior year. You'd think he'd get over it, but last week I was back in our home town and wanted to eat dinner with friends... I couldn't be at the dinner that he was at... So my friends had to eat with him... then get coffee with me later! So bitter, that guy.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 02:12 AM
Well, not gonna lie...That's pretty messed up. He liked you and you pretended to like him, you know? I would be bitter too. You should understand where he's coming from IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 02:27 AM
Composite Moon Square Venus - so true.When you are together, you feel waves of love and attraction for one another that are impossible to ignore. Tremendous feelings of tenderness, and an urge to care for, comfort, protect, and nurture one another will always be present in your relationship. Some element from your past, possibly interference from your families or previous lovers, will have to be dealt with in some way before you can fully come together. However, the love feelings and heart in this relationship are so strong that those issues can be resolved. The desire for children and/or to create a home together will predominate.
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Compassion, love, friendship, kindness and caring summarize the essence of this configuration. There is a real sense of unity and coming together between you, even in the smallest moments of separation that do occur. Affection seems to be bursting at the seams. You really tend to make each other complete when you are together and you can blend your separate abilities to form a union of one.
In time you will find that you really do need each other, and the joy of taking care of each other will permeate your total being. There will also be a dependency on each other which will be very endearing as well. And although you may notice a lot of differences between you, you still seem to be with the “right” person. Find the commonality between you and don’t focus on your differences.
Although this is an extremely favorable aspect, you may find that meddling, interfering people (parents, past lovers, etc.) will have to be dealt with before the bonds spoken about above can fully be realized. There will also be a growing desire to have children and to build a strong home front together. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted November 30, 2011 02:30 AM
I didn't pretend to like him. At the time, I thought I did. It wasn't as if I said, "Hey, let's date even though I don't like you." I mistook intrigue and excitement for love. And I did like him as a person. We were good friends before we dated.IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted November 30, 2011 02:34 AM
And might I add, it's been five years and he's dated three other girls, two of which were my best friends. He lives with his current gf who I'm friends with as well. She actually tries to get him to speak to me, but he refuses. Telling my friends that I'm not allowed to eat at the same dinner table as him and our common friends is ridiculous and petty over a high school relationship. He dated my best friend three months later and was with her for nearly two years, and I was happy for them. He's being petty no matter how you try to explain his side. Five years.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 02:38 AM
I've done that kind of thing before to get back at someone who was trying to use me. He was trying to be a player, so I pretended to like him, then told him I never actually liked him to deflate his ego that he thought he could play with girls as if they were objects.I did feel intrigue and excitement about the apparent passion he seemed to have for me (which I didn't feel was genuine but wasn't completely sure). So I understand what you mean. It did feel like I liked him. But, he disgusted me physically. Like I would never have wanted to kiss him or anything but I still felt that I liked him. He was also pretty much my first boyfriend, so I can understand where you're coming from ^^ At the same time though I felt all the symptoms of a crush...being nervous and giddy around him, not being able to sleep at night cuz I knew I was going to have special moments with him the next day..etc etc. But I still knew deep inside that I didn't actually like him. But I wanted to so much, that I convinced myself that I did. I knew in my heart it was wrong what I was doing. And i completely take the blame for it. (Even though i dont regret because i think i taught him a lesson...that just because a girl seems innocent doesnt mean she really is and won't beat him at his own game). I think you probably knew in your heart that u didnt like him either. So, in the end I think he does have a right to be bitter. Haha. Sorry:/ Not trying to be mean. So I'm sorry if that's a bit harsh to say. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 02:41 AM
YEah I agree. I think it's okay to be bitter. Whatever, you can't help how you feel, you know? But it's another thing to be unforgiving and to try to cause people hurt to try to get back at them. I hate revenge. That's a terrible way to live. Holding on to grudges and plotting out ways to make people feel bad over them. Heh. I feel ya. Sounds very immature and kinda evil O_o
I hadn't gotten that part that he actually ForBID you from eating with ur own friendsIP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted November 30, 2011 02:45 AM
Not harsh at all. I know what I did is wrong. Still doesn't justify him being a jerk five years later, that's all. We were 16-17 and we're turning 24 soon... Just seems like he can't learn to just move on from what was just another high school relationship. He certainly moved on really quickly after I "broke his heart". I think he's just a bitter guy, though. He's Virgo Sun, Aqua Moon, Virgo Mercury, Cancer Venus, Aries Mars. Not the best energy to work with.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 02:48 AM
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 02:55 AM
Hmm so what was it like with the other Virgo? Can u relate to anything I said about Virgos?IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted November 30, 2011 03:06 AM
Well, besides the ex-high school drama, a Virgo I dated in college was DYNOMITE. Lots of fun sexual tensions, and he was great in bed. Very sweet but very frisky. He's actually 4 days younger than the ex.When we first met, it was in November at my Scorpio friends MASSIVE 21st birthday. It was insane. A whole house was used and the cops came three times, two with a paddywagon. He saved me that night by running off with me in the alley. We actually just stayed friends at the time, then somehow at sometime we ended up just... making out LOL. We always had fun and talked about interesting things. He'd play songs to me, but make fun of me in the lyrics. There was a lot of witty banter. He was always making fun of me for something, but for some reason it didn't really bother me. He always calls me a ***** and I call him an ******* . It's all in good fun. I forget what time he was born, but it was early in the morning, which makes him an Aries Moon, which is opposite of my Moon. I always thought everything he did was cute including the fact that he really loved doing laundry  . I remember one time he got upset because the security guard at his dorm went through his basket of clothes and he messed up his perfectly folded shirts. He was a bit of a momma's boy. Awww, I miss him. We're just friends again, though. Life brought us on different trails, and we always catch up on Facebook or whatever. Even though we're not lovers, it's really nice to have him around because he was a genuine friend. EDIT: I forgot to mention that his Moon was in my 7th house. Just adds to the comfort we felt with each other. I always felt comfy with him. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 30, 2011 11:31 AM
Lol because someone messed up his folded shirts! Lol that is sooo virgo, dude!IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted December 01, 2011 02:47 PM
not me for suresun/mars/venus in cancer i cant stand virgo IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 01, 2011 02:56 PM
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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
And might I add, it's been five years and he's dated three other girls, two of which were my best friends. He lives with his current gf who I'm friends with as well. She actually tries to get him to speak to me, but he refuses. Telling my friends that I'm not allowed to eat at the same dinner table as him and our common friends is ridiculous and petty over a high school relationship. He dated my best friend three months later and was with her for nearly two years, and I was happy for them. He's being petty no matter how you try to explain his side. Five years.
Yeah he needs to forgive..its good to get rid of baggage and that can only be done through forgiving and unconditional love......wow he is vindictive! IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 01, 2011 02:59 PM
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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
Not harsh at all. I know what I did is wrong. Still doesn't justify him being a jerk five years later, that's all. We were 16-17 and we're turning 24 soon... Just seems like he can't learn to just move on from what was just another high school relationship. He certainly moved on really quickly after I "broke his heart". I think he's just a bitter guy, though. He's Virgo Sun, Aqua Moon, Virgo Mercury, Cancer Venus, Aries Mars. Not the best energy to work with.
It must be the combo of cancer venus with aries in mars. Aries gets mad and gets over it quickly but cancer doesn't let go so is like cancer is holding on to the anger of mars in aries is my wild guess lol. IP: Logged |
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