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Topic: Aspects that make you want everything to happen SUPER Fast
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 10:43 PM
What aspects or placements you know of that make someone really impatient? Can Sun in the 1st do this? Or mars conjunct NN? Or you like this and what placements you think make you this way?
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 11:53 PM
LOL I am SO IMPATIENT. When I want something done i WANT IT NOW. I need to see the results! This is why i dont ask my Pisces sister for anything I ask for a simple request like "Hey youre in the kitchen im swamped here, please get me a glass of water please?" this is what she will do: take her sweet little time, and then when i get annoyed and get it myself she will go "oh no! stop let me do it! you asked me to!" yeah i asked 6 minutes ago!? This was my # problem in therapy, I expected results, all of this delayed any progress for a long time. Its something I am trying to work on, it is working.. especially towards relationships I want to work, i often find the reason why friendships dont work also adding other contributions but most of it is my impatience with people, I do not have patience for people. I get very irritated by slow folks, slow movers ugh they get me the most. The way I see it is, "Its fine if you want to take 10 minutes to get to the god damn door, but I know where I am going I know how im getting there, so get out of my way and let go god dammit!" + I have a lot mental energy and physical energy Im always on the go, always moving.. My patience tolerance is awful, I hate waiting in line, I rarely wait in line for things, the longest you'll see me in line is legit 2 minutes. This is why I don't do well with senior citizens they move way too slow (waiting more than 1 minute in line at the ATM? forget it! I will walk right out and come back when no one is around) makes me rage I dont mean to be rude but agh! Im a very fast walker too, people need to beg me to slow down, they think im the problem i think "Why are you moving so slow? So much to do so much to do lets go do it" I was waiting in line once and got very p/o at this person in front of me who was taking centuries to order a freaking coffee and bagel? I said "how long does it take to order a coffee and bagel? you just ask "coffee and bagel and pay and leave!" This is what some customers do "uhhhh hmmmm what do I want.. gee so much to choose from.. hmm brb let me text my friends and ask what I should get! because i clearly just join lines for the fun of it not knowing what I want so I will delay 10 people behind me. hmm i still dont know what i want let me ask the people behind the counter what is good to try.." big eyeroll! This is why when I go and order things I don't make convo with the servers, i go get my stuff and run out the door because I do not have time to chat! Do not have time to waste on very slow people, there is so much to do and get done, i cannot understand slow movers. This is another reason why I work alone, i cannot work in groups people are too freaking slow for my liking, im never interested in talking, lets just get the work done and go on with our lives. One thing in humanity that p*sses me off = slowness! Lets get moving, walk fast, get there fast, and get things done and go home. Thats how I operate. Don't get anyone that wants to talk to me while Im trying to get to a destination i resent them for getting my way /rant sorry But I have Saturn conjunct Asc in aquarius, Sun conjunct Mercury in aquarius , Venus and moon IN pisces all of these in house 1. My train of thought in a general daily basis is "I know what I need/want get the f out of my way, dont have time for this or that just gotta get what I need to get done, move out of my way" kind of thing. I esp get annoyed with people that can't answer simple questions they do "uhhhhh... hmmmmmmmmmm" what the f is so hard about saying "yes" or "no" if I ask "what is the project for today?" "hmm............ wait let me look" what the f do you need to look for you JUST made the plan did you not? Yup, I've got no patience for people which is SOMETHING I AM REALLY working on so don't hate me Amelia LOL. IP: Logged |
*Prince~Darien* Knowflake Posts: 221 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 11:56 PM
aries, aries, aries........mars all up in da buildang! ♂ IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 29, 2011 11:59 PM
I'm really patient, BUT I do want things to happen quickly in the sense that I'm not one to stand around waiting for sth to happen, I go after it and pursue it. I've got sun conjunct mars and an aries rising, which makes me non passive I guess.IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:00 AM
Oh Amelia this is another thing I dont have patience for, when someone clearly sees you are busy with stuff and they come to you with "Hm guess what?" or "I have something I want to say." You reply with "what is it? what would you like to say?" they take their sweet time and finally end it with "...nevermind its ok." What the f?! So you mean to tell me you wasted 6 minutes of my life when I could have finished this paper right? or, "Actually its ok you're probably not even interested.." excuse me? Well i obviously wouldn't ask you what you needed to say if I wasn't interested, Are there just people out there that get off of wasting people's time or something? Tell me Im not alone.IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: LOL I am SO IMPATIENT. When I want something done i WANT IT NOW. I need to see the results! This is why i dont ask my Pisces sister for anything I ask for a simple request like "Hey youre in the kitchen im swamped here, please get me a glass of water please?" this is what she will do: take her sweet little time, and then when i get annoyed and get it myself she will go "oh no! stop let me do it! you asked me to!" yeah i asked 6 minutes ago!? This was my # problem in therapy, I expected results, all of this delayed any progress for a long time. Its something I am trying to work on, it is working.. especially towards relationships I want to work, i often find the reason why friendships dont work also adding other contributions but most of it is my impatience with people, I do not have patience for people. I get very irritated by slow folks, slow movers ugh they get me the most. The way I see it is, "Its fine if you want to take 10 minutes to get to the god damn door, but I know where I am going I know how im getting there, so get out of my way and let go god dammit!" + I have a lot mental energy and physical energy Im always on the go, always moving.. My patience tolerance is awful, I hate waiting in line, I rarely wait in line for things, the longest you'll see me in line is legit 2 minutes. This is why I don't do well with senior citizens they move way too slow (waiting more than 1 minute in line at the ATM? forget it! I will walk right out and come back when no one is around) makes me rage I dont mean to be rude but agh! Im a very fast walker too, people need to beg me to slow down, they think im the problem i think "Why are you moving so slow? So much to do so much to do lets go do it" I was waiting in line once and got very p/o at this person in front of me who was taking centuries to order a freaking coffee and bagel? I said "how long does it take to order a coffee and bagel? you just ask "coffee and bagel and pay and leave!" This is what some customers do "uhhhh hmmmm what do I want.. gee so much to choose from.. hmm brb let me text my friends and ask what I should get! because i clearly just join lines for the fun of it not knowing what I want so I will delay 10 people behind me. hmm i still dont know what i want let me ask the people behind the counter what is good to try.." big eyeroll! This is why when I go and order things I don't make convo with the servers, i go get my stuff and run out the door because I do not have time to chat! Do not have time to waste on very slow people, there is so much to do and get done, i cannot understand slow movers. This is another reason why I work alone, i cannot work in groups people are too freaking slow for my liking, im never interested in talking, lets just get the work done and go on with our lives. One thing in humanity that p*sses me off = slowness! Lets get moving, walk fast, get there fast, and get things done and go home. Thats how I operate. Don't get anyone that wants to talk to me while Im trying to get to a destination i resent them for getting my way /rant sorry But I have Saturn conjunct Asc in aquarius, Sun conjunct Mercury in aquarius , Venus and moon IN pisces all of these in house 1. My train of thought in a general daily basis is "I know what I need/want get the f out of my way, dont have time for this or that just gotta get what I need to get done, move out of my way" kind of thing. I esp get annoyed with people that can't answer simple questions they do "uhhhhh... hmmmmmmmmmm" what the f is so hard about saying "yes" or "no" if I ask "what is the project for today?" "hmm............ wait let me look" what the f do you need to look for you JUST made the plan did you not? Yup, I've got no patience for people which is SOMETHING I AM REALLY working on so don't hate me Amelia LOL.
I Posted this bc I am trying to understand my aqua friend.......I dont hate you! I laughed my ass off reading your description. My friend really feels exactly like you do. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:19 AM
What are his/her's placements?IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: What are his/her's placements?
He has sun in the first Mars conjunct NN Mars trine uranus Mars trine saturn ascendent square mars http://theastrologyplace.blogspot.com/2011/03/mars-trine-uranus.html http://www.astrozoom.com/astrologer/astrology/ascendant-square-mars/ I am thinking that in his case is a combination of all of these. Do you have mars trine Uranus?? IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: He has sun in the first Mars conjunct NN Mars trine uranus Mars trine saturn ascendent square mars http://theastrologyplace.blogspot.com/2011/03/mars-trine-uranus.html http://www.astrozoom.com/astrologer/astrology/ascendant-square-mars/ I am thinking that in his case is a combination of all of these. Do you have mars trine Uranus??
Mars in Cancer opposes my Uranus and Neptune both in Cappy Does he only have Aqua sun? IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:36 AM
well in sidereal his sun sign is cap with mercury and Jupiter in Aquarius but in tropical he is an aqua with mercury in aqua.IP: Logged |
ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 471 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:38 AM
Everything that is the opposite of my chart. I can wait foreveeerrr. I'm so patient that I forget that I'm even waiting for something...IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:41 AM
Lindisfarne,I am starting to think that is mars/uranus aspects bc hubby has mars conjunct uranus and he is also impatient with people. You, my friend and hubby all say things like I hate people and think most of humanity is stupid LOL and are easily irritated and impatient about little things that most people just learn to deal with but for you three it really ticks you off. Anyways you, my friend and hubby I like a lot so I am not hating at all just want to make it clear...just trying to understand. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by ElizabethO: Everything that is the opposite of my chart. I can wait foreveeerrr. I'm so patient that I forget that I'm even waiting for something...
Please elaborate and give examples...it would be appreciated. I am not understanding well.
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ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 471 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:48 AM
Well, I have Pisces Mars. I'm pretty passive about waiting for others to get back to me. I can't control or influence what others decide to do. They know I'm waiting, that's enough. Same with my own projects. I know when I've hit the limit and have done all the I can do. Sometimes you have to let life take its course.I also have Libra Moon. I try to not be too pushy even though I do not like being told what to do. Again, people will do what they will do. In conclusion, I guess one could assess that a Virgo Mars would like to see tangible rather quickly - almost to the point of micromanagment, and that an Aries Moon may be more pushy for emotional results? I don't have much experience with either. Just a theory. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 12:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by ElizabethO: Well, I have Pisces Mars. I'm pretty passive about waiting for others to get back to me. I can't control or influence what others decide to do. They know I'm waiting, that's enough. Same with my own projects. I know when I've hit the limit and have done all the I can do. Sometimes you have to let life take its course.I also have Libra Moon. I try to not be too pushy even though I do not like being told what to do. Again, people will do what they will do. In conclusion, I guess one could assess that a Virgo Mars would like to see tangible rather quickly - almost to the point of micromanagment, and that an Aries Moon may be more pushy for emotional results? I don't have much experience with either. Just a theory.
Good theory ! It makes sense you are patient..do you have any mars aspects? if so what are they? or is your mars unaspected? Thanks for sharing. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 6997 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 02:45 AM
i think i'm patient with the big things. taurus sun. but with the lil daily events not so much. aries merc in 6th. i hate it when people say tomorrow. i get that the people i'm ordering don't really have deadlines so one day may seem very similar to the next but i have deadlines. plus if an idea enters my mind, it usually fills with other ideas to make it happen or i think of moving and i'm packet the next day. the downside is i can act too fast. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 471 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 02:56 AM
My Pisces Mars is exactly conj NN. I guess I sort of let life be and let go of trying to control everything. I used to be a "planner" and thought I can control the events in my life. I quickly learned in adult life that things just happen. I also noticed that when I'm good to karma, karma is good to me. When I'm impatient, the universe always finds a way to make things drag on longer. When I trust the universe, I get pretty lucky.My Mars in Pisces is also square Venus in Gemini by about 3 degrees? I usually only use orbs of three degrees with aspects. Those two energies don't really seem to clash. I've found a way to make them compliment each other when it comes to creative writing... or getting myself out of sticky situations. Gemini Venus charms my way out, Pisces Mars swims far, far away... I digress. I know a lot of Virgos who have this nervous energy about them. Something about earth in motion (mutable)- they need physical results now. Same with Aries, but because they like to ignite new possibilities. They like things that are inheritably "combustible". They represent the spark of life. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 30, 2011 03:13 AM
^ woah your aspects are really similar to my cancer ex (same sun, venus, merc and mars and your NN also conjunct your mars like him)What moon do you have? And are you born in 87 or 88? IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy Knowflake Posts: 1145 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 05:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by *Prince~Darien*: aries, aries, aries........mars all up in da buildang! ♂
THIS. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4366 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 05:42 AM
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ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 471 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 11:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: ^ woah your aspects are really similar to my cancer ex (same sun, venus, merc and mars and your NN also conjunct your mars like him)What moon do you have? And are you born in 87 or 88?
I'm an '88 baby. I have Libra Moon.
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scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1054 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted November 30, 2011 02:24 PM
I am so like this, I even quite literally have a "need for speed" lol. I think its my fiery sag mars conj uranus in the 7th.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 30, 2011 02:31 PM
I tend to walk really fast too. I think it's one of the characteristic traits of an aries rising.IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 02:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: I get told that too. I can't help that I walk fast. I only walk slow if I'm admiring something or if there are too many people for me to advance quickly. I feel comfortable walking fast. Plus, hey, burns more calories ;-). Only other things that slow me down are dangerous conditions (like ice) and stilettos. I do make conversations with servers, though, because I just LOVE to talk to people. However, I keep moving while I'm talking because I don't want to hold people up. Plus, I know that they get "difficult" people, so I try to be nice and pleasant and friendly. I'd want people to be like that to me if I was serving. **** I do get impatient with hearing from people, though. If I feel confident and secure, I don't worry about it, but if I worry about what someone thinks of me, the silence is really anxiety-inducing so I get impatient because I want the anxiety relieved. Plus, I myself communicate VERY quickly. I type roughly 80 words per minute (rate adjusted for mistakes). I get back to people quickly. I read quickly. I speak quickly. I think quickly. I have Mercury in Libra, which is an air sign, and slow communicators (or people who aren't communicative) make me nervous because I always worry that they can't stand me or that I annoy them or drive them crazy. I'm TRYING to get better about it, and am actually hoping to have a good conversation with a Virgo Mercury about this today. I really want to get along better with this person, so I'm hoping that a nice talk will work things out and smooth things over. I have Mars in Capricorn (also have Neptune in Capricorn), 2nd house. I have NN in Aries.
Yo got the speak quickly read quickly right on point, im like this too, lots of planets in aries house IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 03:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by ElizabethO: My Pisces Mars is exactly conj NN. I guess I sort of let life be and let go of trying to control everything. I used to be a "planner" and thought I can control the events in my life. I quickly learned in adult life that things just happen. I also noticed that when I'm good to karma, karma is good to me. When I'm impatient, the universe always finds a way to make things drag on longer. When I trust the universe, I get pretty lucky.
Its funny I started this thread bc of a friend who has in sidereal mars in pisces and it conjuncts his NN in pisces and that description you gave sounds very similar to him. I will forward this paragraph to him. I sent him the following link the other day and he said it sounded just like him: http://raginguniverse.blogspot.com/2007/03/south-node-in-virgo-or-sixth-house.html. He is bipolar. Your description of how you learned to deal with your NN and SN will give him hope . He is 24 years old. How old were you when you started to handle your NN and SN better?? IP: Logged |