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Topic: Friend with BiPolar....someone that knows transits Help!
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 827 From: dumont, CO Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 06:31 PM
My friend has bipolar which he has suffered from his whole life and he says since September he has been feeling worst than ever in his entire life and I feel really bad for him. The meds make him feel numb so he doesn't want to take those and he is apathetic, with strong feelings of depersonalization and nothing makes him happy. I met him April 2011 and he wasn't nearly as bad as now. I am wondering if there is a transit happening making everything much worst and if there is can you please tell me when this horrible transit will end so I can tell him and he can at least have some hope that can keep him going. His birth date is February 3rd 1987. Time of birth 5:49am. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 350 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 30, 2011 07:41 PM
His Moon is at 19 degrees Aries. In September, transiting Saturn was in opposition aspect to his Moon, which is depressing.Transiting Mercury in Sagittarius trined his Moon around Thanksgiving before going into retrograde motion. His Moon is not used to dealing with this energy turned inward......especially so because of what happened a few days before trans Mercury went into retrograde: there was a Sagittarius stellium in the sky between Mercury, Venus, and the NN. Mercury will go back to direct around December 13, so your friend will be ready for some happy holidays. Until then, he has dependable friends (Saturn and Uranus in the 11th) to lean on. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte Knowflake Posts: 265 From: las vegas, nevada, USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted November 30, 2011 07:42 PM
heh, does he really have a chemical disorder or does he just suffer from depression and hes been forced to take meds his whole life? sometimes meds can make you feel worse especially when your at a low like that. his moon is in aries conjunct mars, and his sun is in the 1st house, i would think that that influence would pull him out of his depression, maybe if he was sober it would help a lot more. but it is in his 3rd house making his mind ruled by his emotions.. maybe his rising mellows that out and his aqua sun though. sometimes also, cap rising can give lack of confidence and insecurities buuut like i said i would think his moon conjunct mars in aries would help him out with that. the main transit i can see right now is pluto is very closely conjunct his natal neptune, venus is also approching this conjunction while all those are sextile his natal pluto in the 9th house which rules the higher mind and when afflicted can cause moodiness and depression.. so major transformational shifts inside him. when pluto conjuncts neptune it brings disillusions, Pluto can “kill” your dreams, faith, and fantasies. so considering that its happening in the 12th house thats where its affects are going to be felt.. so since its just a slow moving transit its deffinately going to be trying. maybe hes realizing some truths about himself and his medications and stuff. i would encourage getting off the meds and having him have a clear head for once for a good month or so and see how he handles it becuase i would consider it sort of dangerous to be in a low state of mind on those things. and also i really think that some transcendental counseling will be very helpful. making him remember that he does have a meaning in life and what his virtues and awesome traits are will be helpful, and to know that hes loved and not alone in what hes going through. buuut, i hope that he makes it through the transit and finds his clarity! becuase i think thats what pluto is really trying to do in his case IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte Knowflake Posts: 265 From: las vegas, nevada, USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted November 30, 2011 07:54 PM
ALSO i just noticed that neptune is closely conjunct his natal merc too.. which can make him all the more hazy and confused, mentally lazy and passive. but it can also bring about strong spiritual inclinations, and intuition.it might be confusing at first but its suppose to connect us to the intangible soo maybe a good spiritual talk and clearing his confusion will be very benificial right now. well, since neptune and pluto are such slow moving planets its effects are going to be felt for quit some time and they are starting to become more direct aspect wise which might be the reason hes feeling so bad. theyr rough at first but theres always the good towards the end as well, and some rebirths and new meanings. hmm and mercury is going to be directly conjunct his natal saturn too.. Mercury conjunct Saturn Your ability to concentrate and focus is enhanced now. You could experience an increased need for solitude in order to think or work. Travel for business purposes is possible. Thinking in realistic and practical terms, and the need for tangible results for your efforts, are indicated. You might receive serious news or practical advice, or engage in an important conversation. This can mark the start of a new project that involves communications, such as writing, speaking, reporting, and so forth. Whether you have been organized in your work, or if the systems you have been using are effective, comes up for inspection. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 827 From: dumont, CO Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 08:59 PM
Thank you guys soooooo much........He really appreciated this feedback and said it sounds exactly like what he is going through!It is extremely relieving to know that the aspect he has been having the most trouble with is ending soon, Dec. 13th. Thank you so much for your support, you guys are awesome! May the universe repay your kindness . It meant a lot to him. Amelia IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 827 From: dumont, CO Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 30, 2011 09:02 PM
Behold,About your comment about his moon and mars in aries helping him pull out of his depression I want to add that in vedic his moon, mars and NN are in pisces which explains better I feel his bipolar condition. IP: Logged | |