posted December 06, 2011 11:29 AM            

If so, what are your sun/moon afflictions and how does it effect your relationships?

I have Moon square Neptune...I'm a huge up and down with my emotions, and I realize this more now as I got into astrology. I feel that theres always some kind of "restlessness"/chasing a dream aspect in me when it comes to relationships..it has to be perfect but I'm definitely not so willing to trust...truth hurts sometimes, but I rather have it that way. I'm not great with confronting issues..but I'm learning to do it more so now..especially problems in a relationship.

I also have Sun opposite Jupiter - I just do too much for the ones I love. Whether I can receive the same in return...well...that's the part where I would most likely be disappointed.

posted December 06, 2011 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:
I have the moon sextile Pluto and I notice this. I usually have to deal with jealousy with women, even with my own mother. To the point where I just don't tell her about anything good that's happening in my life. With other women I usually have to work really hard to befriend them.

Which is weird cause I thought the sextile was not a stressful aspect.

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posted December 06, 2011 12:32 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Hmm, it's not. Which house is your Moon in?
Any other aspects to it?

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My moon and Neptune are in a conjunction within 3° of eachother, both planets are in the ninth house. My moon also trines Mars.

posted December 06, 2011 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:

My moon and Neptune are in a conjunction within 3° of eachother, both planets are in the ninth house. My moon also trines Mars.

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Yeah, perhaps Neptune is messing things a bit due to high expectations.
Pluto and Mars add intensity to your Moon, so they affect the 'tone' of the relationships with women. Mars even in trine may make u come across a bit more 'edgy' than you are.
Do you have any siblings? Do you get along with them?

posted December 06, 2011 01:19 PM            

"Emotional perversity" - I have no choice but to interpret it as being unfaithful, or the potential to be unfaithful!

Moon Square Uranus

The square formed between the Moon and Uranus promises an ingenious imagination. It also produces emotional perversity and sudden inexplicable changes in moods. You become easily bored, throwing over one activity for something else more exciting. Frequent upsets and changes in circumstances, may be the order of your life. Your hair-trigger temper can fly whenever, even toward those close to you. This aspect denotes much emotional tension. As you mature, this aspect may mark you as an advanced thinker, but one likely to remain a law unto self. Tact is something you have to learn to fit more comfortable into society. Your uncompromising honesty and painfully truthful criticisms can make life difficult at times. how does "uncompromised honesty" and being "painfully truthful" mesh with unfaithfulness?

Sun square Jupiter

A square formed between the Sun and Jupiter shows that you are the kind of person who takes on more than is expected. You may lack moderation in much you do. In many ways, you're an extremist. You expect too much of yourself and sometimes you expect too much of others. Yet you always have the good intentions. Full of vitality, you know how to have a good time if you let yourself go. Even if your nature is sober, this aspect provides a certain verve and good spirit. There is a lot of the wheeler-dealer in this aspect, as an expansiveness marks your nature. The negative side of this aspect is that self-indulgence may cause physical problems. Food (especially rich foods), drink, and pleasure must be balanced by moderation with sufficient rest.

Just found some new stuff that makes slightly more sense.

Moon square Uranus subjects find it extremely hard to put down roots. This may come from an experience of early childhood trauma, or premature expulsion from the warm and comforting womb literally or metaphorically. The most obvious interpretation of this aspect is abandonment from the mother, so that the infant never feels it can count on being supported or comforted. Therefore these subjects develop a feirce independence from an early age. Into adult hood this can turn onto an inordinate need for freedom in relationships, what “normal” people call affection they experience as cloying or smothering. Alternatively they may very well have close loving relationships, but have a job which involves long hours away from home or much travel therefore giving them the space they need.

Moon square Uranus loves to shock, they may spend all their life rebelling against their mother or their mother country, rejecting their own culture by marrying someone of another race or moving to a country where they become the “alien”. Moon square Uranus needs constant change and is often nervy and electric, these bright sparks are exciting and generate a sizzling aura that is constantly on the verge of discovering something novel and unique. Innovation is their middle name, but their volatility can drive their nearest and dearest crazy. Their far-out ideas are often misunderstood and sometime this goes as far as them being branded with having a mental illness. Mostly however they are just simply way ahead of their time

the "on my own," "work long and hard" and screw my race and home country, move to America by myself thing makes perfect sense. I got myself a white girl (and really fantasized about marrying a black girl just to shock my parents).

posted December 06, 2011 01:24 PM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:

My moon and Neptune are in a conjunction within 3° of eachother, both planets are in the ninth house. My moon also trines Mars.

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Yeah, perhaps Neptune is messing things a bit due to high expectations.
Pluto and Mars add intensity to your Moon, so they affect the 'tone' of the relationships with women. Mars even in trine may make u come across a bit more 'edgy' than you are.
Do you have any siblings? Do you get along with them?

I get along really well with my brother but my sister and I are hit or miss. Sometimes things are good and other times we don't talk. But our relationship is complicated. My problem with her is she can be disrespectful, entitled and lacks empathy. I on the otherhand can be controlling over her. I try to get her to do things she doesn't want to.

Actually I've never felt any jealousy from my sister but then again she has a Capricorn moon in the 12th house and never discusses her feelings with anyone.

But when it comes to other women they are jealous and even my husband picks up on this.
My mom gets very jealous, of my marriage, if I buy a new couch, my weight, anything and everything. Her favorite phrase for me is a sarcastic "must be nice" so I don't bring up anything good to her.

I don't understand jealous. I hate that emotion. Being jealous of someone will not change an individuals current circumstances.

Its funny that you say I have high standards cause I do. But they have to do with being a good person. I respect doing the right thing because it is the right thing to do, not for other motives other than its the right thing in a persons heart. If a good act isn't coming from someones soul I don't give it the same weight.

posted December 06, 2011 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:
I have the moon sextile Pluto and I notice this. I usually have to deal with jealousy with women, even with my own mother. To the point where I just don't tell her about anything good that's happening in my life. With other women I usually have to work really hard to befriend them.

Which is weird cause I thought the sextile was not a stressful aspect.

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posted December 07, 2011 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
I have moon pluto conjunct in the 8th and this is usually how it manifests for me - as issues stemming from other women's jealousy of me.

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How do you handle it?

I usually try to build them up and play down whatever it is I think they are jealous of. I have this stupid need for people to like me.