posted December 06, 2011 06:54 PM            

I know that synastry is like a puzzle with many different pieces... but there are pieces that seem more important and stand out more than others.

Could you pick maybe 3 things (aspects or planets in houses etc) that were particularly important in your interaction with that person?
Also - explain *why* you think these particular aspects stood out for you!

PS. I'm curious to see whether there is a pattern with people picking Sun/Moon/AC/DC stuff (which would be the traditional astro-story)... or whether there might be other aspects you found *more* significant... the ones that were very close in orb... or the ones involving planets that rule particular angles.. or planets ruling the Nodes.. and so on.

posted December 06, 2011 07:12 PM            

Our NN's were in opposite houses (6th and 12th) so we helped each other along our paths and learned from each other. NN house placement is very important for long-term, IMO.

Double whammy Sun-Saturn for longevity....also, Saturn is my ruling planet so it's important to me in a relationship.

Mercury in Sagittarius is my chart ruler and his having Mercury in Aries and Moon in Gemini appealed to that.

posted December 06, 2011 07:28 PM            

Sun/pluto DW--very transformative for both

Many NN connections-namely his NN contacted almost all of my personal planets

Sun/saturn DW--felt very fated, karmic

Moon/Mercury DW-very telepathic, didn't have to speak, could read body language etc.

Venus/Mars DW and juno conjunct pluto--amazingly beautiful sex, like none other

Venus conjunction Chiron-not sure what to make of this one. I have read this is a true love aspect but have also read that chiron relationships can "blow up" unexpectedly...

posted December 07, 2011 12:40 AM            

Synastry Aspects, 1 degree:
my Sun square his ASC
my Mars conjunct his Saturn
my Pluto trine his Mercury
my ASC opposite his Uranus
my ASC conjunct his Vertex

Composite aspects 0 degrees:
Sun conjunct Mars
Moon square Neptune
Vertex conjunct DSC

Composite aspects 1 degree:
Venus trine Chiron

I think the Vertex/ASC and Moon/Mars aspects are the most defining of the relationship (my Moon also squares his Mars but by 3 degrees, so its a DW). Those are even evident in the Composite. Can't stay away from each other (even when he has "cut" me out of his life, he still can't stop contacting me...) and always getting butthurt at each other, too. MC/IC is also a bit binding. Idk.

posted December 07, 2011 04:25 AM            

It was a Romeo and Juliet type of love, the break up almost destroyed me. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ma5aGBUgegg

Platonic friend
Pluto opposite Sun
Ac conjunct MC
Sun-Saturn DW
his IC ruler conjunct my IC
Jupiter conjunct Venus

posted December 07, 2011 05:33 AM            

Second is that their personal planets are conj my Jupiter which is the apex of my T-square.

Also, I know A LOT of people think 1st/7th house synastry is important but for me it's almost consistently been 4th/10th axis. They are much more sensitive. Why? I don't know. Maybe because said tsquare apex and singleton is one one side while the peregrine sun is on another and they are really receptive? I dunno, it all ties in. I think my chart in general likes Saturn since it is a recurring pattern. Mine is in Cancer, rules the sun/moon mp and it's also where my South Node is. People conj my MC are usually opposing those points. I'm feeling it regardless. Cancer/Capricorn = Moon/Saturn = almost archetypal energy as well.

posted December 07, 2011 08:37 AM            

I was just thinking about my Uranus conjunct his Pluto/IC so obviously felt... but there's a lot more connected with that!
In fact; all the strong conjunctions/aspects are related.. pfft, I think I'm getting confused now.

So let's start;

My NN square his NN exact, (- they even share the *antiscian connection* since they're in Scorp and Aqua both at 14'**)

The NN-rulers are my Uranus and his Pluto which are exactly conjunct on his IC.
(very important as the NN's are already in an exact square, even antiscians)

So, to stay for now with the *basic core* which is definitely *our picture* and also the aspect I got in mind when reading the first post...

Yea.. his Pluto on his IC is a big inner challenge regarding his 'home- and family-life' and then *I* came... my Uranus was turning his (inner) world upside-down and sort of broke with his whole absurdly strict family-tradition in which he's expected to follow THE RULES.
(my aqua-NN is even conjunct my aqua-Mars)
But the point is; he simply wasn't/isn't able to follow their strict rules (to become truly accepted) after this not very smooth life he'd lead. Not only he couldn't see that clearly but also his parents were blind for their own unrealistic expectations which he couldn't meet.
Ofcourse *I* wasn't accepted by them (like all other g-f's) and that was very normal to him (their rules!) but I'm sure deep down inside of him there's this big anger which I even felt once very strongly throughout the immer impassive air regarding parents (mainly MOM).

To make a long story short; when it was over between us I wrote a true URANUS-letter to his mom
The effect?
I even didn't expect that myself but it turned out GREAT! More attention to him etc.

Aspects connected with our NN's and rulers of nodes (but more felt on an energetic/emotional level);

- His NN conjunct my Moon (which trine his Sun)
- Ruler his SN (venus) conjunct my Mars (= conj. my NN)
- Ruler my SN (Sun) conjunct his ascendant (= square his Uranus)
..
(all within 2* orb)

posted December 08, 2011 05:55 AM            

I was actually just about to start a thread to query this ...

We have quite a bit of IC, 4th house, 8th house, Saturn, Pluto, and Ascendant activity.

I should add, this feels like my most loving, transcendal, and important relationship to date, and I've had a few!

Here are some of the aspects I have been speaking of:

His Venus and Jupiter conj. my IC
His Asc. conj. my MC
My Moon conj. his IC
My Venus sext. his IC

His Sun, Merc, and Moon in my 4th house
His Uranus conj. my Libra stellium (Asc, Mars, Saturn, and Pluto) in his 4th house
My Sun, conj. his Sun, Moon, and Merc, in his 8th house

Probably the most traditional aspect we have is Venus conj. Venus in Capricorn, but it's a wide orb (8).

My Pluto aspects all his planets from Moon to Uranus, including Asc.
As does my Saturn.

It's all been confusing me a bit, because the things people normally look for in synastry don't appear to be applying here, yet I have never been so moved out of myself by anyone.

posted December 08, 2011 06:41 AM            

But, honestly, I have yet to meet someone who rocks my world for a long time. Most people I get together with,I get excited about and then its over. Usually I just drool over what could-have been.

But I guess it couldn't hurt.

My 7th house ruler is Venus. Venus sits in my 8th (together with Pluto and Saturn).

My 8th house ruler is Pluto. Pluto sits in the 8th(together with Venus and Saturn).

My 5th house ruler is the Sun. The sun is in the 9th house((yogether with Neptune, Jupiter and Uranus).

To be honest, I don't take the 5th house seriously as , to me, it just seems to be all about fun and games. Nothing too definitive.

Starting with 7th house:

My venus , Saturn and Pluto-which seem to be definive for both 8th and 7th- formed a conjuction with an ex's Jupiter. This was the longest relationship I had.

Despite the obvious lack of Scorpio in his chart. He had many "scorpio-like" aspects; His Pluto, Saturn and Mars were in his 1st house.

posted December 08, 2011 12:40 PM            

I'm going to try my best.

My Venus in Aquarius in her 7th House. Her Venus in Virgo in my 7th House.

My Mars in Capricorn in her 7th House. Her Mars in Leo in my 6th House.

Two Moons in Gemini and Conjunct each other.

My Sun in her 6th House. Her Sun in my 6th House.

My North Node in Cancer Conjunct her Ascendant in Cancer

Her North Node in Aries Conjunct my Jupiter in Aries in 2nd House (which is the key to my existence).

Two Neptunes Conjunct and both Scorpios

Both Plutos and Uranus Conjunct and all four are Virgos.

Sun Trine Mercury
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Jupiter Conjunct Uranus
Mercury Conjunct Uranus
Venus Conjunct Pluto
Jupiter Conjunct Pluto
Venus Opposite Mars
Mercury Trine Pluto
Mars Trine Jupiter
Mars Trine Pluto

posted December 08, 2011 12:52 PM            

Davison chart:
Venus trine Mars
Venus conjunct Neptune