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Topic: Attracting Dominant people in your life
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lindisfarne
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posted December 08, 2011 10:03 PM
  
Hmm, curious is there anything, like placements that could make an individual attract a lot of dominant people in their lives?IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 08, 2011 10:28 PM
I attract dominant people =( sometimes quite intense and controlling.I have an aries rising, libra moon + v+ m (moon conjunct venus by 2 degrees)
virgo sun and mars (sun conjunct mars)
Pluto in 8th house Scorp.
Sun sextile pluto 1 degree.
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lindisfarne
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posted December 08, 2011 10:40 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I attract dominant people =( sometimes quite intense and controlling.I have an aries rising, libra moon + v+ m (moon conjunct venus by 2 degrees)
virgo sun and mars (sun conjunct mars)
Pluto in 8th house Scorp.
Sun sextile pluto 1 degree.
Me too... in relationships?
I have Saturn square Pluto is that anything?
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mintgirl123
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posted December 08, 2011 10:44 PM
Just in general, like alot of guys that were into me were pretty full on, and the ones I was in relationships were all in their own ways intense and full on. Kinda ironic cos my desc is in libra! I want a balance! I want to find sb more laid back (but of course not flighty) I don't have my pluto aspecting my saturn. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 08, 2011 11:56 PM
OOo.. MEEE <<<<<<<---------------- Pluto in H7.... Dominate Dominate people... but I kinda like it.... Even though Ill fight it to the death  IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 09, 2011 02:14 AM
What's going on in your 7th house? Look to that. If you don't act out your 7th house energies, your partner will. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 09, 2011 02:20 AM
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What's going on in your 7th house? Look to that. If you don't act out your 7th house energies, your partner will.
It seems to go back and fourth from time to time.... So yes what you said makes sense..
Like I said I like it, but I will fight it to the death, cuz no one is gonna dominate me..
I think my pisces asc/cancer venus likes it but my Leo Stellium say oooo h e l l nahhh! not gonna happen... I have pluto and Uranus in H7... sux dont it! IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 09, 2011 02:21 AM
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What's going on in your 7th house? Look to that. If you don't act out your 7th house energies, your partner will.
Well I have Leo in my 7th house
how can i act it out? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 09, 2011 02:23 AM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Well I have Leo in my 7th house
how can i act it out?
Being fixed and having an ego.. So if your partner doesnt, than you will.. All so see what aspects your sun makes... That would also show how it acts out. IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 09, 2011 02:27 AM
Lioness, i've got Leo in the 7th, Mars and Saturn there too, so that's not alway fun. Usually it ends up being the other person acting out those qualities for me.You sound like you probably have tumultuous relationships, are a "strong" partner or have one...or just intense relationships too... Pluto and Uranus there have to be intense...it will come out through you or your partner or maybe be an pervading energy in your relationships. Cancer is actually on my DSC (Leo intercepted) and I think that's what I act out in a relationship usually...the nurturer. IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 09, 2011 02:29 AM
Lindis, do you see yourself as more of a Leo in relationships, whether romantic or otherwise?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 09, 2011 02:33 AM
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Lioness, i've got Leo in the 7th, Mars and Saturn there too, so that's not alway fun. Usually it ends up being the other person acting out those qualities for me.You sound like you probably have tumultuous relationships, are a "strong" partner or have one...or just intense relationships too... Pluto and Uranus there have to be intense...it will come out through you or your partner or maybe be an pervading energy in your relationships. Cancer is actually on my DSC (Leo intercepted) and I think that's what I act out in a relationship usually...the nurturer.
I have all 3 of those going on... LOL My Dsc is in Virgo.. I married a virgo who has
uranus conjunct asc
pluto conjunct sun.
(all in virgo) my pluto/uranus in libra so my 7th sure did fit my husband.. How it played out.. We gave each other freedom to be..
We both came and went as we wanted.. Not much jealousy going on.. It was intense at first.. but that fizzed down, later... But we did have the occasional fights about "telling the other what to do"
but it was NEVER you cant go here or there...
It was more house focused..
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lindisfarne
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posted December 09, 2011 02:34 AM
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Originally posted by T:
Lindis, do you see yourself as more of a Leo in relationships, whether romantic or otherwise?
No usually I attract people with egos. Like my relationship right now. He has an ego.. likes to be dominant etc. Which I don't mind at all.... I tend to attract egotistical friends too which I love! @ Lioness, sun aspects.. hmm well here's my chart. I know I have Sun conjunct Mercury  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 09, 2011 02:39 AM
Your marriage partner may be a mercury type of person with a big ego... both trine Jupiter, so he may be a
Sag type
Virgo/Gem type
Leo type
all rolled into one... Does that make sense?? You have Chiron in your 7th.. I would think you want "him" (whoever he is) to heal or help your inner wounds some how.. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 09, 2011 02:39 AM
mostly attract dominant "Ego" type of guys, wanna tend/care for me etc, they like to be the kings. I too wish I could act that out but I never really do...... i become somewhat submissive around these types cause they intrigue me D:IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 09, 2011 02:41 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Your marriage partner may be a mercury type of person with a big ego... both trine Jupiter, so he may be a
Sag type
Virgo/Gem type
Leo type
all road into one... Does that make sense?? [B]You have Chiron in your 7th.. I would think you want "him" (whoever he is) to heal or help your inner wounds some how.. [/B]
Yup the bolded is true. But personally I have an issue with this. I dont like people fixing my own issues gah..Mercury as in, constantly chatty, always talking a basic Gemini? This is true! Since i attract em a lootttt. It does make sense thank you  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 09, 2011 02:46 AM
Well your 7th is like a description of your 1st marriage partner.
Does mean he would be a "leo" but he would have a strong sun, and have an ego... Have some Leo traits.. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 09, 2011 02:55 AM
I hate that I attract kinda intense guys, I have my moon, venus and mercury all conjuncting in 7th house libra, and juno is conjunct my desc by a degree. I DON'T know why I'm always attracting these guys! All the ones that are really immature and need mothering. God! It's like asking for a mature guy who has their sht together, who won't control me is like asking for the moon or something.
My aries asc tends to sometimes want to assert myself too so I really DO need somebody who able to like compromise. They're always so stubborn.
Even the guys that liked me were the types that were kinda full on and texted and called alot. What is up with my friggen chart??IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 09, 2011 02:55 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Well your 7th is like a description of your 1st marriage partner.
Does mean he would be a "leo" but he would have a strong sun, and have an ego... Have some Leo traits..
Well not saying im going to marry my boyfriend even though he's set on that happening lol....
his sun is in 5th house (leo) explains the leo-ness i guess, correct? IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 09, 2011 02:57 AM
Hmm infact that was one of the things that made me attracted to him, that insatiable loud and booming ego of his LOL. I wrote in one of my threads how cocky I thought he was walking around the place like he was GODS GIFT. I thought it was really hot at the same time he annoyed me to no enddd.Aquarius/Leo opp?! IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 09, 2011 02:58 AM
Leo energy is hot though lol, as long as they're not too arrogant, the confidence is pretty attractive.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 09, 2011 03:00 AM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Well not saying im going to marry my boyfriend even though he's set on that happening lol....
his sun is in 5th house (leo) explains the leo-ness i guess, correct?
Yeap I would say so.. His sun in H5 gives him and underlying Leo traits. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 09, 2011 03:01 AM
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Leo energy is hot though lol, as long as they're not too arrogant, the confidence is pretty attractive.
THATS RIGHT!!!!!!!! Tell it like it is!! LOL.. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 09, 2011 03:05 AM
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Leo energy is hot though lol, as long as they're not too arrogant, the confidence is pretty attractive.
It is. gosh it reaaaally is. I am so attracted to Leo types. They just get me going, I get very excited around them, most of all I enjoy THEM being in the spotlight, I'd gladly polish their shoes and kiss their feet. LOL can't describe it, Leo's are guh-rate. Sometimes I find the arrogance EXTRA charming, I just love it, i think it's entertaining, while everyone is being put off, i'm making some popcorn enjoying the show thinking they are brilliant, really. They naturally bring out this side of me i can't do alone. One of my good friends is a leo with leo descendant everytime she comes around = best time of my life, we are inseparable and people will flock, of course i have her to thank I know I am stroking your ego lioness, and I love every minute of it IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 09, 2011 03:11 AM
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It is. gosh it reaaaally is. I am so attracted to Leo types. They just get me going, I get very excited around them, most of all I enjoy THEM being in the spotlight, I'd gladly polish their shoes and kiss their feet. LOL can't describe it, Leo's are guh-rate. Sometimes I find the arrogance EXTRA charming, I just love it, i think it's entertaining, while everyone is being put off, i'm making some popcorn enjoying the show thinking they are brilliant, really. They naturally bring out this side of me i can't do alone. One of my good friends is a leo with leo descendant everytime she comes around = best time of my life, we are inseparable and people will flock, of course i have her to thankI know I am stroking your ego lioness, and I love every minute of it
LOL..... Ohhh stoppppp it... your embarrassing me.. Im getting soooo bashful here.. IDk what to say!
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