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lindisfarne
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posted December 09, 2011 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lindisfarne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find I am heavily attracted to weird people. In some cases dangerous people. I sometimes risk my own safety.. just to understand some people. It's an extreme pursuit of knowledge for me I value that over my well being at times.

I like people who are not apart of the "norm" in their way of living. Some of these people can be violent, erratic and downright unstable but they fascinate me I love to learn all kinds of things about them. is this more of a Neptune influence of Uranus? I especially love to be around people with huge issues. I like to study them, sometimes even want to "save" them LOL. I don't actually want to be their friend I just want to learn.

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posted December 09, 2011 09:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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is this more of a Neptune influence of Uranus?

Uranus.

Neptune is about merging with all, not just the eccentrics.

But more than anything, it sounds like sheer boredom.

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posted December 09, 2011 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wanting to save them is a neptune pisces thing.....wanting to study them because you find them odd and interesting is a uranus thing. So I think yes you have a lot of Uranus and neptune and this would explain what you are saying.

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posted December 09, 2011 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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That may be funky asteroids. Have you ever seen what was conjunct your personal planets. That may be Nessus or Deja conjunct something.

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posted December 09, 2011 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lindisfarne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Lindasfame
That may be funky asteroids. Have you ever seen what was conjunct your personal planets. That may be Nessus or Deja conjunct something.



if I could remember I have Nessus in Scorpio 7 degrees
and Dejanira in scorpio


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posted December 09, 2011 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If your attracted to wierd and dangerous people then girl where in the same boat lol. I always thaought that was my sun/pluto/nessus and venus and jupiter squaring neptune. But I can see why it could be a strong uranus definately. I've got uranus conj mercury and mars in scorpio in the 7th. I could see how a 7th h uranus could attract "others" who are weird/different. I think dangerous is more of a pluto or nessus thing tho.

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posted December 09, 2011 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lindisfarne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by scrappydog:
If your attracted to wierd and dangerous people then girl where in the same boat lol. I always thaought that was my sun/pluto/nessus and venus and jupiter squaring neptune. But I can see why it could be a strong uranus definately. I've got uranus conj mercury and mars in scorpio in the 7th. I could see how a 7th h uranus could attract "others" who are weird/different. I think dangerous is more of a pluto or nessus thing tho.

When you say sun/pluto/nessus and venus do you mean all these planets and asteroids making aspects?

for eg. I have nessus in scorpio, im certain it squares my sun.

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posted December 09, 2011 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Man your 12th house is full! That will make you have one foot in the next dimension. As such, you will NOT be your run of the mill person. I will look, tomorrow, but I bet this is your answer.

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posted December 09, 2011 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so if a man has sun conjunct a woman's uranus. it means that his attracted to her strangness?

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posted December 10, 2011 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by scrappydog:
If your attracted to wierd and dangerous people then girl where in the same boat lol. I always thaought that was my sun/pluto/nessus and venus and jupiter squaring neptune. But I can see why it could be a strong uranus definately. I've got uranus conj mercury and mars in scorpio in the 7th. I could see how a 7th h uranus could attract "others" who are weird/different. I think dangerous is more of a pluto or nessus thing tho.

Hi ScrappyDog, I have also read that nessus is the area where to look for regarding attracted to dangerous people. What will you say about sun/moon midpoint conjunct nessus in natal chart? Does this mean the person consciously seeks out dangerous ppl?

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posted December 10, 2011 07:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
I find I am heavily attracted to weird people. In some cases dangerous people. I sometimes risk my own safety.. just to understand some people. It's an extreme pursuit of knowledge for me I value that over my well being at times.

I like people who are not apart of the "norm" in their way of living. Some of these people can be violent, erratic and downright unstable but they fascinate me I love to learn all kinds of things about them. is this more of a Neptune influence of Uranus? I especially love to be around people with huge issues. I like to study them, sometimes even want to "save" them LOL. I don't actually want to be their friend I just want to learn.


Uranus would give an attraction to weirdos.

Neptune would make you attracted to people who are either Piscean in nature in a benevolent, harmless way...or untrustworthy liars.

I have Neptune in the 11th house - yay, me! *sarcasm*

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posted December 10, 2011 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Hi ScrappyDog, I have also read that nessus is the area where to look for regarding attracted to dangerous people. What will you say about sun/moon midpoint conjunct nessus in natal chart? Does this mean the person consciously seeks out dangerous ppl?


Sorry, I'm not scrappydog obviously but hope that's ok..

Conjunctions to your Sun/Moon midpoint will have you projecting that energy. So you might give off a dangerous vibe. (Hard to believe this is true though, you sound nice.) On the upside, you probably won't be attracting Nessus-like characters.

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
so if a man has sun conjunct a woman's uranus. it means that his attracted to her strangness?

It means he stimulates her freedom urge, just by being himself.

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posted December 10, 2011 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by curiouswoman:
[b]so if a man has sun conjunct a woman's uranus. it means that his attracted to her strangness?
It means he stimulates her freedom urge, just by being himself.

Also his Sun inspires her to be herself (Uranus).

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posted December 10, 2011 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xiiro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Uranus in the 7th and completely identify. They have to be weird for me to like them, even to the point of danger. Sh!t, I can even try for a normal dude and he often ends up a psycho. I'm a freaking magnet LOL. I think the wanting to relate to "broken" people is your Chiron in the 7th.

I have Chiron in the 1st and it's similar.

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posted December 10, 2011 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Malena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, there's a difference between "I like to wear socks on my head" weird and "I'm going to knife you in your sleep" weird.

I think if you are attracted to dangerous people, that indicates a self-destructive urge more than a simple attraction to weirdos.

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posted December 10, 2011 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's both. Your Neptune & Uranus are exactly conjunct, they are one, you can't separate them.

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I especially love to be around people with huge issues. I like to study them, sometimes even want to "save" them LOL.

Classic Venus in Pisces.

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posted December 10, 2011 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you consider an inter-racial/inter-cultural relationship odd? There are certainly many Caucasian men with Asain or Amer-Asian women. There aren't many Asian men with Caucasian women or Black women. Well, those are my attractions.

I Have Uranus Conjunct Pluto and Neptune sextile Pluto.

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posted December 10, 2011 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lindisfarne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Do you consider an inter-racial/inter-cultural relationship odd? There are certainly many Caucasian men with Asain or Amer-Asian women. There aren't many Asian men with Caucasian women or Black women. Well, those are my attractions.

I Have Uranus Conjunct Pluto and Neptune sextile Pluto.


Well I've only been in interracial relationships. I'm half Black half white (German)
I've mainly been with white guys, been with one Asian, and I have a feverish attraction to middle eastern. I don't find men my race interesting enough to date, I've been with one for like a week tops. They bore me. I need newness, new experience/culture, complete newness. I'm an interracial love kind of gal. Right now the person I'm seeing is Russian. I also have Neptune Sextile Pluto. Wonder if that's any significance? I've always always been attracted to the opposite of what's expected of me especially. Like with my
mother it's a strict "You can only date/marry black men!" but that's never boded well for me, always did the opposite not to "rebel" (even though i get a kick of doing my own thing that eventually sets her off) it's just naturally I like what's new/different from expectations.

The last guy I dated had his Rising and Venus and Pluto squaring my sun rising and mercury. Very intense guy, an Aquarius sun like me, he had maaaajor issues. It was very attractive to me I must admit. Aside from his intelligence and whatnot he had really potent issues stemmed from childhood, it really turned me on LMAO... I know you can't fix people but it's all I wanted to do. Plus he was a little abusive in some little way mostly emotional, very possessive - another trait I love to be honest

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posted December 10, 2011 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Also his Sun inspires her to be herself (Uranus).

I thought it was the sun that is stimulated by uranus. wait i am confused.

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posted December 10, 2011 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lindisfarne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amowls**:
It's both. Your Neptune & Uranus are exactly conjunct, they are one, you can't separate them.

Classic Venus in Pisces.


Wanting to save people is a Venus in Pisces trait?
Does it mean anything if I also attract weird/sometimes off the rails people?

I'm very attracted to homeless men. I love their look (LOL) the unkempt facial hair. Huge turn on, most of my friends think I'm insane for this but I can't help what/who I'm attracted to. The only time in my life I've given money to someone was a homeless person I found to be attractive

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posted December 10, 2011 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lindisfarne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by lilithpluto:
[b] Hi ScrappyDog, I have also read that nessus is the area where to look for regarding attracted to dangerous people. What will you say about sun/moon midpoint conjunct nessus in natal chart? Does this mean the person consciously seeks out dangerous ppl?


Sorry, I'm not scrappydog obviously but hope that's ok..

Conjunctions to your Sun/Moon midpoint will have you projecting that energy. So you might give off a dangerous vibe. (Hard to believe this is true though, you sound nice.) On the upside, you probably won't be attracting Nessus-like characters.

[/B][/QUOTE]

What does it mean to attract Nessus-like people?

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posted December 10, 2011 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
[ ]Well I've only been in interracial relationships. I'm half Black half white (German).

Honestly, for your whole post, that's all I focused on lol. . Wow. . That's the type I dig. hahaha.

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