posted December 11, 2011 05:29 PM            

Where to...start...lol

posted December 12, 2011 12:23 PM            

17 was the age I started experimenting. Did some foreplay stuff. My longest relationship in high school was 2 weeks.
18 and 19 I did some more foreplay moves.

I have only slept with one person. We got to know each other for two months. Before it went down, and I lost it. I was also living with him. That was my longest relationship 10 months.

In my early teens I attempted to take the bible literally...and thought people would go to hell if they had sex before marriage. By 17 I was like eff this sh!t...the bible is bs. (sorry if I offend anyone, I believe in a higher power just not the bible. I'm from a country where you can believe in whatever you want.)

I have had casual foreplay but not casual sex. The person really has to earn it to have all of me.

I'm not for or against casual sex, I've just never done it. Been close...but as soon as I tell a guy I'm interested...they go from treating me like a wonderful lady to a piece of sh!t. I just like to make sure we are on the same page, and make sure he is fine with condoms. (yes condoms are kinda lame...but if we aren't committed to each other heck yeah I'm using a condom. Who knows who else he is doing besides me.) But yeah it's like as soon as I let a guy know I'm into him and also just want sex...it's like all of a sudden they think they can talk to me and treat me like sh!t. And guess what, I change my mind and say forget about the whole thing.

My standards are higher now. I have not been settling. Been single and haven't had sex for more than a year now.

I would just use my hand...but then summer I remembered heyyy! I have that vibe that my ex bought me...which made it hard to get off at first...cause he was such a jerk. (when he bought it for me, he tried to use it on me turned it up all the way and he got ****** that it didn't get me off...but now its like in your face I can get off and it's not because of you BECAUSE YOU SUCK! AND I ROCK!) Instead of it bothering me to use it now, it will occur to me later where it came from and it's just like 'thanks sucka.' I think about other people and people I don't even know in real life and sometimes no one...and just thinking how good this feels. lol

Since it's hard to be all alone in my house nowa days I usually blast some metal music and shut my door.

So yeah that is my sex life currently. Getting off without the drama and the bs.

posted December 12, 2011 08:06 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Thank you!
Late blooming age is culturally defined,so I wouldn't put much stress into that.
So,would you say you easily switch from one opposite to another? Extreme,erractic?

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Honestly, I'm wondering why you're asking.From where I'm sitting it's reading like you trying to pry into someone else's sexual life, looking for dirt or something.

posted December 12, 2011 08:20 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I think I was very clear towards you.

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This isn't about you. You and what you think means absolutely nothing to me.

If you wanna know what they're like sexually, go up to them and just ask them. Don't come on a forum trying to dig for dirt on something so private behind their back.

posted December 12, 2011 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
You are an idiot.

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I'm not the @$$hole on here trying to get the dirt on someone's sexual past and habits on a forum.

And I noticed the way that when I told you to just ask them you completely ignored that. Which says everything about what kind of person you are. But I bet you'd cry Bloody Murder if someone went online trying to figure out your sexual habits and tendencies behind your back from your chart.

The fact that you don't want to ask them shows that you know doing so is inappropriate and wrong, but rather than respect that you don't know them well enough and this is none of your business and not your place, you try to invade their privacy by pumping astrologers online to try and find out something you have no business to know.

posted December 12, 2011 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
wow you guys. Calm down, there's no point in getting so worked up over the net lol.

Breathe~~

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Honestly this type of thing is a big deal because it's ultimately about ethics and what is right and wrong in general, as well as what's right and wrong in astrology. Like, I'm against supplying people with such personal info about someone that the person in question may not want them to have in the first place, especially when they might turn around and do who knows what with it.

And it's hilarious to me that they called me stupid when they can't even interpret something so basic on their own and had to come on here pumping strangers for info.

posted December 13, 2011 01:10 PM            

Yepyep I made the choice to reply to this and say what I said. I didn't have to but I decided to, cause I felt like it.

"So,would you say you easily switch from one opposite to another? Extreme,erractic?"
Well I don't think I would say that. Right now I just think I'm in a place where I'm compromising/problem solving. Guys suck right now + I still want to get laid = vomp!vomp!vomp!vomp!!!

posted December 13, 2011 07:23 PM            

traumatic experience as a child. also he says he was very shy and wasn't good with girls, although looking back he now knows some girls were into him during his teen years. he was a punk and skinny and very tall. but for the next 2 decades he went on believing he was an ugly duckling.

it doesn't mean it was boring though. it sounds like he went through lots of weird experiences, added by the fact he lived in marginal communities.

he has an open mind for very diverse things. i had never met a guy who didn't mind anything like this. all the guys before him was always thinking in categories, like "this is kinky, this is taboo-ish, this is acceptable, this i like" and so on. he has no concept of that. he doesn't have "oh i can't do that" type of reactions. very laid back. sexual activity is like a playground for him. his ex was a very hardcore masochist. he didn't have a problem with that and stayed with her for 7 years. he's quite flexible i guess. it doesn't mean he doesn't have likes and dislikes though.

posted December 13, 2011 07:31 PM            

I have this placement and let me start by saying it affects women differently than men.

another thing to consider is if it aspects the Ascendant and/or the Luminaries.

posted December 13, 2011 10:56 PM            

"it affects women differently than men."
---There's no context for this.