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Topic: venus conjuct saturn (bad?)
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defeat
Knowflake Posts: 70
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 02:48 PM
  
i'm thinking of how their synastry charts would look like.
saturn restricts, so if you have your saturn in someone's 5th house for example, you're going to restrict that area, to a degree in the other person,but what annoys me is their venus is there...they're probably going to be thinking their doing you a favor, etc.. you know what i'm saying...
this could be really annoying...
it's one thing to restrict, but when you feel you're doing it out of love, arghhh
it's almost like the more they love you (venus) the more they restrict (saturn) no question, jsut a thought i'd thought i'd throw out there... i have this with someone....and was just thinking they'd do the same thing wiht everyone....just different areas maybe...ie. 9th house, etc. IP: Logged |
Starry~*
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: New York, USA
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 03:08 PM
I have venus conjunct saturn double whammy (though, pretty wide orbs...around 4-6 deg both ways) with my current boyfriend of 6 months. Bad? I wouldn't say it's bad...saturn is suppose to be glue to the relationship. It's what makes us wanna stay.I've read alot of places saying that saturn person restricts the venus person. When venus is affectionate, saturn can be cold. When venus demonstrates what seems to be like "independency" away from saturn, saturn will feel threatened. I wouldn't say saturn "restricts"..I like to put it as being more realistic and provides more stability by teaching through lessons to be more realistic, practical..etc. I think it's important though for the saturn person to learn not to be a negative nancy..and that he/she is really doing it with good intentions and not become a "wet blanket". It does hurt the sensitive venus sometimes...for example: When my boyfriend is being affectionate and tells me he loves me, my reaction to him was "You don't know what love is" and I just shot him down. It seems to me sometimes he's just being emotional when he says it and I guess I was being more realistic about the idea of love...that it's not all happy and sparkley. What I wanted to tell him is that love is hard work and takes time...and shouldn't be shallow. Another example: When I am affectionate, or showing him I care about him and go out of my way to take care of him while he was sick, his response to my care was "You don't need to come over. You will get sick." All I wanted in return was just appreciation and to show him that it wasn't about the risk of me getting sick, it was about me taking care of him in a time of need. Either way I still went but...ya. Right now, I do feel a bit sick...so..perhaps he was just looking out and I was too focused on just giving him my care. It hurts to be rejected! Wow I wrote a whole book. Sorry! IP: Logged |
Taineberry
Knowflake Posts: 383
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Registered: Jun 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 03:12 PM
Excellent examples Starry!  IP: Logged |
Starry~*
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: New York, USA
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 03:28 PM
I want to add, Saturn is also responsibility. Whether or not it is restricting, he/she will be there regardless.Who exactly do you have this with is it a SO?
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defeat
Knowflake Posts: 70
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posted December 12, 2011 04:21 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Starry~*:
I have venus conjunct saturn double whammy (though, pretty wide orbs...around 4-6 deg both ways) with my current boyfriend of 6 months.
that's not what i was trying to say
i'm ok with saturn,
but it's venuses part in the whole equastion that makes me ****** off at people that have this aspect (natally)
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Starry~*
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: New York, USA
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 04:34 PM
Just realized, my post ranting about me and my bf venus conjunct saturn, we don't have it natally but what I meant to say is my venus conjunct his saturn and his venus conjunct my saturn so it's a DW in synastry :P Sorry for the confusion!!!!IP: Logged |
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