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Topic: Having obsessive thoughts/dreams about others
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 905 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 06:54 PM
What aspects or placements would promote such behavior?IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy Knowflake Posts: 938 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 06:59 PM
Pluto for the obsessive thoughts.Neptune for the dream aspect. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 12, 2011 07:04 PM
Lol I've found that I can literally think about someone 24/7 when I'm really into them. Not like to the extent I bug their phones and like stalk them haha, but I can think about them alot!It's the virgo in me I'm sure. I have pluto in 8th house and sun sextile pluto (1 degree) I also have sun trine neptune (1 degree) lol so when I was in love, I used to dream about the guy alot. IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 75 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 07:08 PM
Erg, I'm having dreams about my current bf too, more frequent now than before.As for thinking about him, I think about him ALOT...it's scaring me a bit. Haha.. I have Neptune sextile Pluto Moon + Mars Square Neptune Mercury + Venus Conjunct Pluto Neptune Sextile Pluto Neptune Sextile Asc Sun Libra, Venus Scorpio, Scorpio ASC. IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 405 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 08:55 PM
this is me.very very obsessive thoughts, and with certain people dreams.. sun in capricorn sextile pluto in scorpio sun in capricorn conjunct neptune in capricorn mercury in sagittarius conjunct sun in capricorn & neptune in capricorn scorpio asc, pluto conjunct asc scorpio venus, venus conjunct asc pluto and scorpio traits will bring about the obsession..mercury-neptune-venus aspects would cause dreams about loved ones, i imagine. IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 75 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 09:24 PM
"I can smell you, even before I put the key in the hole and turn the door knob when coming home..and I would know you're there..Mondays + Tuesdays your smell still lingers around the house, it's almost as if you're still here, even though you're not. I love your smell." *Takes a couple of deep sniffs on the pillow where I slept on* First thing he does when he sees me in bed sleeping when he gets home is to take a loud sniff of me, then spoon and take more sniffs of me til he falls asleep. - How's that for being messed up and obsessive? Probably more messed up..
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 2074 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2011 09:27 PM
quote: Probably more messed up..
I think it's extra likable! Does he have something in Taurus or Scorp? IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 75 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 09:30 PM
My bf is a Scorp Sun, Saturn and Pluto.When he said that to me, I didn't know if I should feel weird about it or if I should feel super happy about it (I have venus in scorpio...I like all of that crazy obsessiveness) But deep down, I liked it Other people might've felt SUPER awkward about it though hahaha And sometimes he does the nose dive right into my neck...and just takes this HUGE sniff like he was trying to suck in every last gas particle of me that had my bodily smell. It's like having nose sex with my neck and some how that gets him off mentally. I can go on all day and talk about all the messed up things we would do but I really want you guys to like me and not think I'm a weirdo in a psycho relationship...LOL!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 905 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 09:46 PM
No. Starry please fill us me in on the messed up things you talk about. I'm really interested please, and don't leave anything out! That sounds exciting. I must date a Scorpio before I die, I would like to experience their intensity.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 12, 2011 09:51 PM
I've dated scorpy suns and moons before (2 were 1+ year relationships, another was like 3 months). I didn't like the paranoia, testing and mind games, nor the vindictive behaviour or tendency towards verbal and mental abuse (they blow up pretty easily and say hurtful stuff) Maybe very healthy scorpios would be alittle different though?They were also kinda broody. I like somebody more sparkly (lol) and upbeat, somebody more forthright and not secretive lol like sags, leos, aries or sth like that. IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 75 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 10:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: No. Starry please fill us me in on the messed up things you talk about. I'm really interested please, and don't leave anything out! That sounds exciting. I must date a Scorpio before I die, I would like to experience their intensity.
LOL!!!!! Damn you want that eh??? hahahahaa!! Well that's the good thing about being with a Scorp...bad thing is, he holds in his emotions and feelings. Sometimes he just doesn't know how to express himself (air void) whereas I go on tandrums and raise my voice when something irritates me..lol he gets surprised sometimes that I'm a small girl with a loud voice. He can be cold at times, and he can definitely be warm. Most of his feelings are expressed thru action...it might irritate you, just like it irritates me when he acts like he doesn't care or says he doesn't care. But when I get upset and confront him about it (HA! I love trouble) he takes it back. As for my obsession...I'm obsessed. I think about him 24/7 and it's plaguing my mind. I even DREAM about him frequently now (it's only been 6 months into the relationship) than before. At times I'm down when I think about him, and get mad for no reason thinking of scenarios where he'll betray me and deceive me. Then, at times, I think about him and us and I'm super giddy and happy. There's just absolutely NO lukewarm. Hot or Cold. (We have Venus Conj. Mars in Composite) IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 75 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 10:19 PM
Obsessive story #2:When we lay in bed at night I would just stare out the window (his bed is next to the window) and think...about alot of stuff. He would look at me and ask "What are you thinking?" I wouldn't reply cuz I can't answer him...cuz I'm thinkin probably about him or the relationship!! I'm also a Scorp ASC btw. 2 seconds later: "What are you thinking?" I shake my head as in "nothing" 1 minute later he WHISPERS in my ear "What are you thinking?" 2 seconds later whispers again in my ear "..What...are you...thinking...???" Talk about being persistent. I had to change the topic and talk about BS stuff like what we're eating for dinner tomorrow. Yes. I would ask what's for dinner tomorrow, cuz, you know, who cares about breakfast or lunch. LOL IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 12, 2011 10:22 PM
LOL HAHAOMG he's such a girl! I giggled. You know how guys always get annoyed when girls ask them what they're thinking about, cos most of the time, they're actually not thinking? Haha IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 75 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 10:26 PM
Ya I think it's his moon trine venus.He also likes Gossip Girl and Sex and the City. I should probably stop exposing him or else I'll def. get the scorpion lash. LOL But yes, he loves to probe me about what I'm thinking cuz I love to think, about everything. But sometimes I keep it to myself...I don't wanna show all my cards at once!!??!?! I'm guarded cuz I don't wanna have to be the sucker and he has the upper hand. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 12, 2011 10:29 PM
Ooh I have moon conjunct venus. I heard moon soft aspect venus (plus conjunctions) makes a guy 'in touch with their feminine side' LOL in a good way of course.IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 75 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 10:33 PM
He watched "The Notebook" 3 times before we got together, and 2 times when we were together and he said he would never get tired of that movie.Everytime Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams does the scene where it was raining and they told each other that the relationship was "never over, still isn't over" and kissed, he would go "ughhh! so sweet.." and lets out a sigh of relief. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 12, 2011 10:47 PM
HAHAHHAHAAI don't know whether to go aw or shiver lol. It's cute though lol Bet he's very romantic! Bet he could probably make a pretty good ladies man if he decided to one day venture that way lol. I found the notebook alittle cheesy, but it was still pretty sweet. IP: Logged |