posted December 12, 2011 10:10 PM            

wtf?!
I have never seen a man cry in my life (except on tv)
can someone give me insight here? any aspects? placements would make him so insecure?

This is the first time I've seen a man cry in front of me. I was at my guys place, and he began to cry softly. Made me sooooo uncomfortable but I did all I could. Omg I'm still shaken up writing about. This is what happened:
Everything was going fine, we just finished watching a movie and I guess somewhere in the movie it made him switch. We were watching ides of march
spoiler alert
there was a scene where one character committed suicide because she believed Ryan goslings character would come open with her affair with the governor/abortion[/B]
then he asked why women leave their partners, why some women cant just stay with one man why they had to go and cheat on them. I told him not everyone was like that, but he continued. I became absent-minded (have a habit of going into my head sometimes) and that's when he started with the crying. He asked "Would you ever leave me? Be honest" I said "where is this coming from?" he asked "I'm just curious." the he starts crying and did the same thing he did last month begging me not to leave him how devastated he would be if I left him for someone else, saying he hopes I'm as serious about him as he is for me, he starts going on about his mom just leaving him like that, begging and begging and crying it shocked me, didn't know what to do except reassure him.

Not to sound shallow but i really don't know why he thinks so low of himself? He is extremely attractive, so giving, witty, intelligent, smart, has a good career etc. He doesn't even believe he's good looking wtf!? I'm not used to this he normally acts overly masculine you know, a mans man.

Any advice, the more we get involved the more of this I see in him. Crying???? (I'm not saying it's wrong I'm just shocked!) here's our chart combined. Please any advice I don't like to see this side of him makes me uncomfortable a little... not used to it.

posted December 12, 2011 10:13 PM            

They're usually kinda insecure, it's a mix of having an inferiority complex and being overdramatic.

Sometimes it's their moods, but most of the time it's just them being cancer lol!

posted December 12, 2011 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
I'm not used to this he normally acts overly masculine you know, a mans man.

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posted December 12, 2011 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
LOL I experienced this with my ex who was a cancer sun and had gemini placements.

They're usually kinda insecure, it's a mix of having an inferiority complex and being overdramatic.

Sometimes it's their moods, but most of the time it's just them being cancer lol!

Edit: Ok I read your post again. His mum left him? Yeah it's stemming from this. Insecurities bc of what happened with his mum. He is scared to be abandoned and let down.

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Has he ever cried on you?Hate when people cry :/

posted December 12, 2011 10:43 PM            

Think cancer men just cry alot. That's how they are. But then again, they would only cry if they were comfortable enough to let their guard down.

posted December 12, 2011 11:39 PM            

He has mommy issues too from his mom dieing of cancer, and he wasn't around his mom as much as he liked cause she had depression and didn't know how to deal with his depression, bi-polar and adhd.

posted December 12, 2011 11:53 PM            

Anywho, I'm just as moody as any other Cancer woman, but I don't cry in public. Libra Moon/Rising won't let me do that. Gotta keep a straight face, you know? At home, though, I'll ball and ***** all I want because it's my home - I'll do what I want. I usually lock myself in my room for days and don't speak to anyone.

posted December 12, 2011 11:59 PM            

I was just about to ask if Mars in the 12th signifies mental issues, even though it's not Mercury.

Do you feel comfortable crying in front of people? And what do you want them to do?

No, never. My best friend of ten years has never seen me cry, and my Scorpio best best friend of six has only seen me cry once.

posted December 13, 2011 12:57 AM            

The funny thing is he was born one day before me and the only thing that rally seperates both of us chart wise is the fact that I have slightly more "earth" then him and he has slightly more "water" then me.

I'm more of a Earth/Air/Fire mix he is more of a Water/Air mix.

In effect he is more emotional then me and I'm more of a "get things done" person.

The thing that had me was I found out that there was family problems with his younger brother. Both my libra bud and I decided if we can cheer him up a bit.

I wasn't expecting to see him cry in front of us and for that long. If it was me I whould have been uspet, but at the same time trying to figure out whats the best thing to do next.

I whouldn't drop everything and cry.

Heck, You know that look that children give on christmas day, I swear I have never seen a grown man still give that look, LoL.

I whould check out his "water" sign contacts espically his moon if its in a water sign and then check out the moon aspects.

if it wasn't for my added capircorn aspects. I'd most likely be the same as him.

posted December 13, 2011 05:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
hannaramaa! that's awesome, I put make up on and blast music too. Mushroomhead to be exact. YEAGH! lol

I also have an
Aries Sun
Scorpio Moon Sextiles Saturn
Taurus Mercury

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OK and see what's SO interesting is vedically, I have an Aries moon. My Gemini rising would be Taurus rising, and if I have Taurus rising it makes my DSC - Scorpio! So in a round about way we have the same planets.