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Topic: Balancing different energies in relationships.
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Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 14, 2011 09:11 PM
  
So I have been thinking about me and the fishman.. I think the biggest problem between us,is balancing all the different energies we have going on with each other..
To much of everything.. The energy switches from one to another in a heartbeat... I never know what energy is going to be today... Here is what is going on
We talk a little, then we talk more...We talk in our own little private world (neptune) Then it becomes obsessive, we have to keep talking more and longer..(pluto)
But at the same time its just so much fun (uranus) its exciting..
Then we get caught up in the excitement and then it goes to the extreme (jupiter) but where its crossing boundaries.
Then one of us, gets a grip and says hey.. this is going to far.. We both agree.. So we say we will take it a step back.. and then we do (saturn)...
We wont talk for a few days.. we separate (uranus)
Then we feel ignored, and play stupid games to get the other one to come back (pluto) but the other person NEVER falls for it, and takes off even more.. (control.. pluto) Then jealousy starts, then we get mad at each other...
We distance our self even more... Than "something" happens we talk again.. We go into fantasy world, then the cycle starts all over... This has been going on for 2 years... OMG.. I think its all the different energies that we are not balancing...
But I dont know how to balance all that..
How can you place all the combined energies when you have way to much of each energy going on....
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Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 2120
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 14, 2011 09:16 PM
Astrology can deal with specifics. If yu have communication problems, you know to look at house 3. You have commitment problems? Look at house 7.I can see how balancing energies can become a problem when you add in a composite chart to the synastry in play. Self awareness is the key to recognising the energy malfunction within the relationship, correcting as you go along. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 3873
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 14, 2011 11:16 PM
Well communication is not an issue... Somewhat but not really.. I think the real issue or at least a big main issue (well ONE of them..) Is going from make believe to reality... When to talk we are on a desert island, but then we hang up and reality steps in.. and The island fades away....
But we keep going back to it... Over and over again...
Its like we cant bring the fantasy part into real world.. Neither person exists in the real world, so we meet in fantasy world... But when reality does set in... Its like a shock to the system, and the "bad" comes out... sighhhhh But he did just call call me... We talked for an hour and 1/2. IP: Logged |
Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 2120
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 15, 2011 12:11 AM
From you using the word 'we' I can only guess that your problem is with the composite chart you have. Neptune is the key repeated theme. Have a look there or even post it up. Hard to work it out when you have no birth times for either.IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 3873
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2011 12:17 AM
Here is the composite... As you can see alot going on with the outers.. The synastry also has a lot going on with the outers.. Lots of DW
In synastry his moon conjunct my Neptune
My neptune sq his sun
His Neptune cnjucnt my MC and trines my Sun,Moon,Merc.. Yeah Neptune def has us my the tail...
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Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 2120
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 15, 2011 12:29 AM
The main point is the opposition to Pluto from 1st ruler Venus. Neptune is only a trine away, but still in orb. Do you feel the Pluto opposition between you or is more Neptunian?IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 3873
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2011 12:38 AM
Its swings back and fourth.. When its Neptune its great... But then we get carried away with it (jupiter) but it becomes an obsession.. Then when Neptune goes "away" Pluto is in full force... The good and the bad.. IP: Logged |
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