posted December 18, 2011 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
]I am engaged to an Aqua. I was raised by two Aqua women. My dad and brother are Aqua. The whole need to be different thing is a little skewed. I have seen it as a need to be around something different and they themselves do not need to BE that. I am maybe comfy with this since I have a Moon/Uranus opposition and NEED to be my own person and alwys need my space.
I have never had an Aqua disappear on me ( I on the other hand have done the disappearing). I know them, I was raised by them.
Disappearing acts are BS and they occur in all signs
Here are signs in men I had them happen with:

Libra
Capricorn
Aries
Pisces
Gemini

Never an Aqua. And I will never accuse those other signs of disappearing because it's not about their signs alone, it's about whether they want a commitment or not or if they are playing the field. The whole 'Aquas are so free that that want their space always' thing goes only so far. At some point they want to come home so what do they want? What do they want?

It's good to remember that Aqua is still a FIXED sign and that it's co-ruler is Saturn. I know it's forgotten often but I think it's worthy of remembrance because Aquas can be very opinionated, and despite this whole thing of unpredictability, they can be very set in their ways.

Here is one thing I know about Aqua men which I have seen as consistent:
They like complex women, and by complex I include difficult (and intelligent, of course, though that kind of goes without say). They do not always like the rules of what other men like. If you are easy-going and sweet then it's not necessarily Aquarian male bait. These men like women who are complicated and not easy to figure out. They need someone who can engage them every step of the way and who will want her independence and you can't fake it either. You have to be that way - who you are and unafraid.

They get a very very bad rep for being cold and they can be. But you can make an Aqua man cry when you tell him he is like a robot , if you point out his insensitivity. If he knows you are thoughtful and if he respects your mind he will listen when you tell him that he is being a really annoying, overly logical robot lol. They reallly aren't insensitive they just hide it. If you take a crack and reveal the real thing, you will see it. And they want to be loved desperately.

Of course this is pretty much the sane ones. If you have a person who is batshit on your hands it's got less to do with sun sign and more to do with them being batshit.

Aquas are my people. I love them, but it's more like I am always surrounded by them somehow and cannot escape. If you know how to fight and argue skillfully you can be highly emotional with an aqua, and they won't run off because you've earned a level of respect. On top of that, they can admire unabashed displays of emotion because it's completely different to them, and they love it. As long as you bash them over the head from time to time and remind them that the interesting emotion they are watching belongs to a human being, you should be fine lol. Remind them they are the same and are human. They often need reminding.

Yes, they are infuriating lol

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posted December 18, 2011 02:11 PM            

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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
I'm still learning the Way Of The Aqua (The Zen Edition) ...it's a lifelong process

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posted December 18, 2011 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
That's pretty much like saying: "I like cheddar. The only thing I hate about it is that cheesy flavor!"

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HAHA!

Nah, not their need to be different but their constant flamboyance ABOUT their originality. My Aqua sun friend loved Adele and then she became popular, and he wouldn't converse about her anymore or give her due credit because she's now well known (rightfully so.)

posted December 19, 2011 04:09 AM            

AWWWWWW, so sweet! and friendly. Makes my saggie sun and libra venus and mars swoon.

posted January 09, 2012 04:12 PM            

Just had a phone call from my other aqua male friend and he makes me soooooo happy! I always end our conversations with a smile on my face. I really think sag and aqua "get" each other on some level. And this is not even the Aqua that I had a love interest in but friendship is super important to me and it feels so good.

Anyway, wanted to share some happy vibes with you.

posted January 18, 2012 10:03 AM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Wow, turned out this aqua man (original post) had a gf all along! I had done a tarot on persoal readings and had got the card indicating deception and secrecy , not sure what it meant at the time. WOW, this guy had mars in saggie which perhaps indicated instability but I had no clue he had a girlfriend.

Sparkling

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posted January 18, 2012 10:08 AM            

Then I asked one of my assistants in our office as she is from Madrid too if she knew this guy as he had lived in Madrid and she is his roomate! She said that he had a greek gf but tended to flirt with new women he found attractive. It shows you cannot trust someone , and getting to know someone, no matter how many dates is so important. I was also amazed at the tarot card, spot on. Just sad right now, to have a reaffirmation of lies and secrets, or ommission of truth.

posted January 18, 2012 10:40 AM            

Please, ask him directly the next time you see him. In fact, try to see him ASAP and clear this out. For YOUR peace of mind.

posted January 18, 2012 03:00 PM            

I find myself doing the same thing, but if things get a little TOO sexual, I tell them straight up I have a boyfriend (or I mention it in passing).

posted January 18, 2012 04:06 PM            

thanks for the advice, I know what you mean about gossip, not always to think or hear second hand. When I see him next will ask how his holidays were and did he enjoy it. See what he says. I should never have mistaken his flirting for anything but.