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Topic: I miss him :( -----Mutual Venus-Pluto aspects------
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 01:23 AM
  
According to grupovenus.comVenus Mutually Aspects Pluto You will experience the heights and depths, love and hate, attraction and repulsion, agony and ecstasy in this relationship. A powerful, compelling fascination and irresistible sexual attraction draws the two of you together like magnets. You love each other with a depth of feeling that is surprising even to yourselves. The powerful charismatic power that you have over each other can be used to manipulate one another, and dominance, control, or jealousy easily become hot issues between you. Whether this is a brief passionate encounter or a lifelong attachment, you will change one another profoundly.
------------ The above is so true in my experience. Could anybody share their experience with mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry? I think it also depends on the specific synatry and composite though. Like we for example had the love stellium in the composite, and we had sun trine pluto, sun trine jupiter, moon conjunct jupiter, and moon trine venus and uranus in synastry. I feel that even if I never see or talk to him again, I will remember the moments we had for the rest of my life. And it is an understatement to say that he changed my life. After him I can't even look at a guy I crush on without thinking "This should be at the same intensity that it was with him or else it's not even worth it."
Now I know what a real relationship feels like. What a soul-quenching, truly strong connection feels like, the kind of relationship the writer of The Notebook was trying to tell us about. And now my standards for connecting with ppl wont ever be the same. I feel more whole after all this because I know that that strong connection I seek really is out there. That person who gives you so much love your self-esteem feels brand new like a shiny new car. The part about how our feelings are so deep they surprise even ourselves is so true, as is true every other little thing it says down to the charismatic power part and the control and manipulative games. The sexual pull between us as well. Even other people would notice the sexual tension between us. I just wanted to share the amazingness of this double whammy venus-pluto thing, and As you can see, the description says "Whether this is a brief passionate encounter or a lifelong attachment, you will change one another profoundly." So, I wanted to ask you guys this: How has the passion of pluto changed/transformed you in your relationships/friendships? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 01:37 AM
I'm talking to another libra guy right now (I told you I atrract libras lol, I guess it's my libra rising) but there is nothing going on in our composite except sun sextile jupiter i think. Our synastry is nice...stuff like moon trine neptune and saturn, sun trine jupiter, venus trine mars, and this: sun sextile and conjunct moon
Sun Mutually Aspects Moon
The two of you are drawn to each other like magnets, and you may find that you keep bumping into each other even if you are not trying to. If you are not married yet, then there is a good chance that you will in the future because the attractions between you are extremely powerful. You understand and appreciate each other to an exceedingly high degree, and you are likely to have felt an instant connection when you first met each other. I do feel that the attraction between us would mak it hard to be just friends because there is always a need to touch each other---sexual tension. LOL. But I dont find him a good comfy fit....our chemistry is really rather boring. Not a good fit. So i am sometimes attracted to him and sometimes not. So even though there's a lustful feeling there, i would never want to kiss him or look lovingly in his eyes. Lol. -.- Any experience with mutual sun-moon aspects also? IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 01:43 AM
This describes very well my relationship with my ex and my relationship with aqua friend. In composite I have a pluto/mars/jupiter/saturn/sun stellium with ex and my pluto conjuncts his venus in synastry and with friend I have stellium involving venus/pluto/lilith/chiron in composite.Pluto in relationships touches your soul and transforms. You are never the same afterwards and will never forget the person completely. They will always have a place in your heart. With ex my mom didnt like him and with friend we met when I was already in a relationship. It seems that pluto likes to get involve in relationships that are not socially acceptable for one reason or another is what I am starting to think PERHAPS... I do love pluto....to me that is what I seek in synastry and composite. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 01:57 AM
Yes thanks for the reply, very insightful. And it feels nice to see someone else feels my pluto pain. I have venus square pluto natally so I have it with everyone born in my year and one year above and below me. He has the same birthdate as my best friend from elementary school who stopped tlaking to me after I became insecure and accused her of talking behind my back. She was like "How could you say that, you're my best friend." We had never told each other this before...this was how intense it was between us, that we couldnt talk about it at all, and we were always so shy around each other we barely ever spoke to each other but would always be together everywhere we went just sitting in silence in total comfort. We would even hold hands when walking and stuff.I think i really got to feel the pluto energy when it came up in the composite, since i have venus square pluto with everyone in synastry. Sun-pluto in the composite is nice and deep, i'll admit that, but nothing beats venus-pluto in the composite. Especially venus TRINE pluto. Well, i'll tell u one thing that beats it, that's mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry with good synastry and a strong composite lol. But the only time i've felt something with venus square pluto in synastry sinc i have it with everyone is when i also had venus squar or trine pluto with them in composite. Venus square pluto in conposite is terrible---i dont recommend it at all---furious mind games and issue of control---you both make each other absolutely miserable esp bc u hav so much power over each othe yet u choose to use it to hurt each other. With venus trine pluto it is totally different---very healing and transformative love. Obsessive as well, and an obvious sexual attraction. It's almost like their love is therapeutic---talking to them or looking in their eyes feels like ur getting a massage lol. But, i've never felt anything like with this libra guy with mutual venus-pluto in synastry. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted December 17, 2011 02:10 AM
RunAround - If I could hijack your thread for a second just to say that I appreciate your personal style/the way you write (it's very honest and to the point) and I enjoy reading your posts.
I'm sorry if I kind of jumped the gun blaming you on the photo-thread. I was just annoyed on the spur of the moment because I'm very private as well.. and I would panic if the same thing happened to me. But I understand it wasn't intentional and kudos to you for apologizing!  IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 02:23 AM
I feel pluto aspects are more meaningful in composite since what you said about you sharing venus square pluto with a bunch of people your age or a year older and younger. I have never experienced venus/pluto trine yet in composite but that stellium with my ex involving sun/mars/jupiter/saturn/pluto combined with composite tsquare between venus/neptune/moon must be very powerful bc it has been over nine years and he still loves me and I would to if I wouldn't have gone through HELL and back to get over him. Now I care about him but I am not in love with him but the chemistry is still there, it will always be there I just can't go that route again after all I went through but willing to give it a shot next life time. Hopefully then we will be more mature and handle the powerful connection we have better. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 17, 2011 02:32 AM
never had venus pluto mutual. this means if i say for example have venus in taurus opp pluto in scorp that they have that too right? think the only one i dated from my age group had venus in libra/ pluto in scorpio, not conjunct. most people's pluto is on my ascendant. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 02:37 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
never had venus pluto mutual. this means if i say for example have venus in taurus opp pluto in scorp that they have that too right? think the only one i dated from my age group had venus in libra/ pluto in scorpio, not conjunct. most people's pluto is on my ascendant.
Sand, What she means is that YOUR venus conjuncts HER pluto and HER venus conjuncts YOUR pluto. That is a double whammy in synastry. Get it?  . IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted December 17, 2011 02:42 AM
sand - quote:
never had venus pluto mutual
Really? Never ever - ever?  Not even............................ someone you spoke to online, maybe? 
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Betty Boop
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posted December 17, 2011 02:48 AM
pssssssssssst Amelia...... Me & sand actually have this exact in syanstry! LoL
His Pluto is at 0 Sco opp my Ven at 0 Taurus.
My Pluto is at 6 Sco opp his Ven at 6 Tau
Sand – if you’re wondering what this means…
It means – You’re ALLLLLLLLLL mine!
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Betty Boop
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posted December 17, 2011 02:49 AM
I'm totally kidding IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 02:51 AM
Aww thank you Betty Boop. And it's totally okay !!!!
<3 I understand where you were coming from. Thanks for the compliment  Amelia....trust me this mutual venus-pluto thing was much more powerful than any composite venus trine pluto I have experienced. Or any composite sun pluto aspect for that matter. It'd be great if i could see your synastry with him...could you post ur birth info and then u can delete it if u want? I'm pretty curious lol. I did look up using a program how many birthdatesi had mutual venus pluto aspects with in synastry and there were only five. Only two of the birthdates i had the love stellium with in composite, so really only 2 of those i can really consider. Actually, it's funny, because i went on a camping trip over the summer, and in the group that webt with us from our university I met those two people with thise two birthdates I was just talking about. In one trip! I met both of them! The most compatible with me synastry-wise was te libra guy, and the other birthdate was a virgo girl. Thosewere pretty much the two people i stayed in touch with after the trip. But even though the virgo girl was hilarious and everything and we had strong chemistry we didnt attach too much...i think it's because our synastry wasnt that great besides the venus-pluto aspects. My synastry with the libra guy is pretty great, though. After him, i am a lover of sun trine jupiter and moon trine venus together in synastry. So much fun, and so easy to share love. <3 IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 02:55 AM
Lololol at Betty BoopSand, it can actually be any kind of aspect. It doesnt have to be the same type of aspect in the double whammy. Me and this guy have venus square pluto and venus sextile pluto in synastry. And it's not a double whammy but it's said that "venus mutually aspects pluto" IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 17, 2011 03:23 AM
quote:
Originally posted by amelia28:
Sand,What she means is that YOUR venus conjuncts HER pluto and HER venus conjuncts YOUR pluto. That is a double whammy in synastry. Get it? .
ah thanks that is what i thought! quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I'm totally kidding
too bad u were kidding hehe! uh-oh!  
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sand
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posted December 17, 2011 03:34 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Lololol at Betty BoopSand, it can actually be any kind of aspect. It doesnt have to be the same type of aspect in the double whammy. Me and this guy have venus square pluto and venus sextile pluto in synastry. And it's not a double whammy but it's said that "venus mutually aspects pluto"
ahh so just 2 venus-plutonians.. kinda like if antonio banderas dated dr. phil!
http://skywriter.wordpress.com/2009/09/12/the-steamy-side-of-venus-pluto-aspects%E2%80%94a-photo-gallery/ IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 03:34 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
pssssssssssst Amelia...... Me & sand actually have this exact in syanstry! LoL
His Pluto is at 0 Sco opp my Ven at 0 Taurus.
My Pluto is at 6 Sco opp his Ven at 6 Tau
Sand – if you’re wondering what this means…
It means – You’re ALLLLLLLLLL mine!
LMAO!!!!!!! Good one!
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amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 03:47 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Aww thank you Betty Boop. And it's totally okay !!!!
<3 I understand where you were coming from. Thanks for the compliment Amelia....trust me this mutual venus-pluto thing was much more powerful than any composite venus trine pluto I have experienced. Or any composite sun pluto aspect for that matter. It'd be great if i could see your synastry with him...could you post ur birth info and then u can delete it if u want? I'm pretty curious lol. I did look up using a program how many birthdatesi had mutual venus pluto aspects with in synastry and there were only five. Only two of the birthdates i had the love stellium with in composite, so really only 2 of those i can really consider. Actually, it's funny, because i went on a camping trip over the summer, and in the group that webt with us from our university I met those two people with thise two birthdates I was just talking about. In one trip! I met both of them! The most compatible with me synastry-wise was te libra guy, and the other birthdate was a virgo girl. Thosewere pretty much the two people i stayed in touch with after the trip. But even though the virgo girl was hilarious and everything and we had strong chemistry we didnt attach too much...i think it's because our synastry wasnt that great besides the venus-pluto aspects. My synastry with the libra guy is pretty great, though. After him, i am a lover of sun trine jupiter and moon trine venus together in synastry. So much fun, and so easy to share love. <3
Have you experienced composite pluto conjunct mars or composite pluto conjuct venus??
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 03:55 AM
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Have you experienced composite pluto conjunct mars or composite pluto conjuct venus??
No never. Tell me about them! IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 03:57 AM
This is our synastry:
and this is our composite:
 What do you think?? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 04:02 AM
Well the thing is that synastry charts never do much for me. I have to be able to put in the birth data into a website so I can see the aspects an their descriptions. So if i could have the birth data that would be cool.You have sun conjunct jupiter and pluto in your composite is what I see for now. I have great synastry with someone an have those two aspects in the composite with them as well and it is magical. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 04:04 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
No never. Tell me about them!
That is what I am trying to say that is similar to what you are describing and is why I can relate. I have experienced both with different people.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 04:05 AM
Ooh yes composite venus conjunct pluto sounds powerful as heck. Wow. Yes, I can imagine that feeling the same as what I feel with this guy.IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 04:06 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Well the thing is that synastry charts never do much for me. I have to be able to put in the birth data into a website so I can see the aspects an their descriptions. So if i could have the birth data that would be cool.You have sun conjunct jupiter and pluto in your composite is what I see for now. I have great synastry with someone an have those two aspects in the composite with them as well and it is magical.
If you tell me the website you use I will go to it myself and then copy and paste you the aspects in here. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 17, 2011 04:48 AM
okgrupovenus.com
astrology3d.com compatibility for lovers report on both of them IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 17, 2011 05:01 AM
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