posted December 17, 2011 12:27 PM            

What is it about me that makes me so intense and demanding?

I was telling her about how our relationship has communication issues. This guy is not a communicator and definitely not a super socialized like me-I understand and accept that. But there's something called "communication" in a relationship that needs to be there or else it's not a relationship.

My sag friend said "you guys just have different ways of approaching things. Yes there needs to be communication but wow you are intense! Your not his mother don't make him feel like he has to report to you his every move!! He will feel controlled by u!"

I said its not about reporting, it's about letting the other person know so they can ease their minds and so they don't have to guess wtf you are trying to do or thinking about. And this is not controlling, giving you freedom means I will give u ur personal space, given that u tell me and not just run away (typical Scorpio -_-) and that I will give u freedom to make ur own decisions.

Am I too much here?

Is it because of my Scorpio ascendant/Venus/mercury/Pluto?? (I'm a libra sun moon mars)

And my bf is a Scorpio sun, but Loaded with sag (asc, Venus specifically) and moon in Aries and mars capricorn

I understand I'm an intense lover to some (scorpio Venus) or just intense and demanding (asc Scorpio) but is it too intense for scorpios?! Does intense person + another intense person work?

posted December 17, 2011 01:33 PM            

I don't have any Virgo placements..and I tend to over think or think too much, I agree with that!

And yes I already let my guy know we have to talk, he was accommodating and was more than willing so I will just have to compromise with him a bit.

My bf also has Sun Pluto Saturn in Scorpio, but to me it seems he isn't trying to be controlling although at times he would be a bit possessive and probing.

But I understand it's ok with me cuz I have my asc Venus Pluto and mercury in the same sign as him.

His sun and my Venus merc are conjunct pretty tight.

His Pluto is really tight on my asc.