posted December 18, 2011 01:33 PM            

I can't read through all the judgmental spitfire to see if anyone's remarked as to your synastry?

Moon conjunct Moon, Venus conjunct Jupiter.

Those are the two biggies I see that would create a sense of complete understanding and comfort between you two; as well as your Venus conjunct his Jupiter means he definitely likes your style - it's expansive for him, he learns from you - in all areas of love, money, trust.

And, if I'm recalling correctly, the Venus Jupiter conj is in the 3rd house? Communication, learning, and warm feelings for sure - not necessarily a love connection though - unless you like your love in a brotherly-sisterly way.

posted December 18, 2011 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Pansexual?!

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posted December 18, 2011 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Wild Places:
You sure are catching a lot of flack.

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I noticed the exact same thing. I see that happen often. Some very forthright, honest and sincere posts turn into a warfare of judgement that I don't really understand.

I find things to be very relative on here most of the time. Then there are other moments where people hold this standard of objectivity (morally or otherwise) that I find appalling. And all it really takes is one person to openly express their judgment and the next thing you know, those who might have kept their judgment to themselves make their opinions very public. They are just opinions, so we should just try and get a long with one another. Its great to have a space and forum like this, and we should encourage honest communication and inquiry!

posted December 18, 2011 01:59 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
I think that includes dogs and cats and anything that is breathing?

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posted December 18, 2011 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
I think that includes dogs and cats and anything that is breathing?

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LOL yes. As he so quaintly put it: "So long as I like them, I don't care for their sex or whatever else."

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Originally posted by Wild Places:
...Moon conjunct Moon, Venus conjunct Jupiter.

Those are the two biggies I see that would create a sense of complete understanding and comfort between you two...

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- unless you like your love in a brotherly-sisterly way.

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posted December 18, 2011 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Leonine8:
I'd guess the moons were a good connection, and the Uranus messed it up.

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posted December 18, 2011 07:35 PM            

I know honesty is important to you but if we were to be honest and say something to a person about what we really think of them... no harm there because we are just being honest but at the same time we end up being disrespectful and/or selfish. Its like freedom of speech, its good but that doesn't mean you should start calling people names like the n word, in the name of freedom.

posted December 18, 2011 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by moonpie:
Im sorry but I agree with Mintgirl. Those were my exact thoughts. Your friend sounds like a really great person.

I know honesty is important to you but if we were to be honest and say something to a person about what we really think of them... no harm there because we are just being honest but at the same time we end up being disrespectful and/or selfish. Its like freedom of speech, its good but that doesn't mean you should start calling people names like the n word, in the name of freedom.

Anyway I hope you see where we are coming from.

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No need to apologize! Yes, I can see where you're coming from. C:

I like this, this...feedback. I'm going to remember this. Say cheeese!

posted December 18, 2011 11:30 PM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
It is not the same thing! D:

Chatting on the phone would be so much more personal. On the phone we'd hear each other's voices and tones and stuff. Online, he's just text on a screen.

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posted December 18, 2011 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by FireWire:
I noticed the exact same thing. I see that happen often. Some very forthright, honest and sincere posts turn into a warfare of judgement that I don't really understand.

I find things to be very relative on here most of the time. Then there are other moments where people hold this standard of objectivity (morally or otherwise) that I find appalling. And all it really takes is one person to openly express their judgment and the next thing you know, those who might have kept their judgment to themselves make their opinions very public. They are just opinions, so we should just try and get a long with one another. Its great to have a space and forum like this, and we should encourage honest communication and inquiry!

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News flash we are all judgmental, accept it or find residence off of planet earth

posted December 19, 2011 02:00 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Thats bullshark.
Its the same thing. Lmao..

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Well...I dunno, I can understand what you guys say and where you're coming from, but this is something I simply don't agree on. If it was the phone, I'd have more of his focus. It really would be more personal.

On AIM, he could be doing anything and everything else! Like, at one point he was playing an online game while talking to me. If anything, our conversation was second priority. Same went for me.

posted December 19, 2011 06:54 AM            

Also theres. the saturn thing - his saturn trining your venus (was it?). That'sa nice secure feeling. Is he older?

To summerise then, you feel like you finally met your male "protector"/father/brother figure that you can be yourself with. Hard not to want tot explore this further considering the outer planet influence.

I don't see much sexual attraction there though. More like, sibling familiarity - but very intimate.

posted December 19, 2011 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
IMO it's the moons conjunct neptune AND uranus... overall. There is no Mars conections from you, so no real desire attraction; it's emotional and a strong fascination due to 1.the outer planets (Uranus ann Neptune)touching your moons. And 2. see, because his moon is the same as your, and also has that close conjunction with these outer planets, there's a kindred spirit thing going on - you might feel that, for once you have met someone who can "get" you. Get you too, on a deep child level.

Also theres. the saturn thing - his saturn trining your venus (was it?). That'sa nice secure feeling. Is he older?

To summerise then, you feel like you finally met your male "protector"/father/brother figure that you can be yourself with. Hard not to want tot explore this further considering the outer planet influence.

I don't see much sexual attraction there though. More like, sibling familiarity - but very intimate.

Just my thoughts

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