posted December 20, 2011 07:56 PM            

My mother's criterias for "leaving me the apartment" that we currently live in is to have me pay her MORE than the maintenance fees monthly. Her reasoning is that, over time, the excess amount I've paid her would go towards the cost of the actual current market price for the co-op. That is alot.

My scorpio bf has his own place and is doing pretty okay himself. I didn't dare ask him about moving in. I asked him INDIRECTLY though. I asked him "Can you live with someone else?" His answer was "I don't know".

After telling him my problem with my mother, and him being silent the whole time (probably analyzing everything) he hugged me and said "At least you have me."

I asked, "What do you mean?"

Him: "At least you have me..you can count on me, you know?"

Me: "Can I really count on you..?"

Him: "Ya, You can count on me like the way I count on you."

Me: "When was the last time you had to count on me for something?"

He thinks for a bit. "I don't remember.."

*silence*

Him: "But you know...I can count on you to do things for me..like..you're always helping me clean my place whenever you're over.."

Then another silence.

Him: *mutters under his breath* "I need you..."

Me: "what?"

And he would never repeat it again.

Sorry for the super long story. What do you guys think? Should I bring up and ask him directly about living together? I really don't want to and feel maybe it's too early for him. I, on the other hand, have no problem with that. But we've only been dating for 6 months.

What are your experiences living with a scorpio and what were the circumstances? Are they easy to live with or hard? (Probably needs ALOT of space?)

posted December 20, 2011 08:20 PM            

Oh! And omg! He's SO cute.

posted December 20, 2011 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Scorpio? Space? Lol
I would expect them to be really needy and like smothering. Space is more like virgo, sag or gemini.

Oh! And omg! He's SO cute.

<3 get married already! Lmfao jks.

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LOL mintgirl, you know our situation pretty well! hhahahaha. Marriage with him? I want to, deep down. However, he is really not ready for that. Dude doesn't even know what he wants to eat for dinner each day..comon..haha

posted December 20, 2011 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutonianGemini:
I'm not a Scorpio sun so take what I say as you will... I am Scorpio riser and pluto aspects my sun as well as my moon, for me living with people is extremely difficult and it all boils down to the needing space thing.

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posted December 20, 2011 08:27 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
He's pretty like 'little boy lost' around you. It's actually pretty fricking adorable.

And I'd probably not move in with him though. I think having space keeps the relationship sane haha.

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Good point..but I would like to mingle down to that one day. Of course, that will take some time.

Yes he's like a kid like that sometimes.

I got upset once about work and I said "I want to change my life cuz I'm very unhappy about everything."

His reaction was "You're unhappy?? about everything in your life?? Like what??" *Panic*

Him: "ok ok, lets talk about it, are you free Friday??? Saturday???"

posted December 20, 2011 08:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I guess it depends on his other placements, but I tend to agree with PlutonianGemini, Scorpio people need a LOT of space, and living with them can be difficult.

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Hmm ya, I could already sense that and knew that from the start when I obsessively researched about scorpios and his natal chart..lol..*guilty*

Sun conjunct Saturn in Scorpio 12th house along with his pluto.

Merc/Venus in Sag, ASC probably Sag, venus in 1st House.

Mars in Capricorn (exalted?) In the 2nd house. Moon in Aries.

posted December 20, 2011 08:31 PM            

My old roommate, we lived together 5 years ago, for a lease term of one year. She was a Sun, Mercury, Pluto Scorpio. Very secretive, she kept a lot to herself including her drug addictions to crystal meth and marijuana. I didn't find out until months into living with her about these skeletons. She went through my things, read my phone messages and if I left my computer on she'd snoop through that too. She ate most of my food, had a horrible temper, and was going through some form of depression at the time. She was an alcoholic and I had to drag her into our apartment many times after finding her passed out in the hallway of our apartment building. She was incredibly temperamental and emotional and slept around, we had a new weirdo in our apartment on a daily basis. I could go on...

posted December 20, 2011 08:33 PM            

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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Living with a Scorpio. Well, each one is different so I'll just share based on the only experience I've had living with one.

My old roommate, we lived together 5 years ago, for a lease term of one year. She was a Sun, Mercury, Pluto Scorpio. Very secretive, she kept a lot to herself including her drug addictions to crystal meth and marijuana. I didn't find out until months into living with her about these skeletons. She went through my things, read my phone messages and if I left my computer on she'd snoop through that too. She ate most of my food, had a horrible temper, and was going through some form of depression at the time. She was an alcoholic and I had to drag her into our apartment many times after finding her passed out in the hallway of our apartment building. She was incredibly temperamental and emotional and slept around, we had a new weirdo in our apartment on a daily basis. I could go on...

Traumatizing experience to say the least. I tend to attract Scorpio's into my life because I've got potent 8th house energy. She was one of the unfortunate Scorpio cases. They aren't all bad as roommates, she allowed me to keep our printer when she moved out. How sweet.

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Lol wow...that's some crazy experience.

As of right now I Only go over and spend 4 days / 3 nights a week with him. Enough?

posted December 20, 2011 08:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I guess that ex room mate of yours was the definition of an "unevolved" Scorpio. How.. sad? I hope things are better for her now, though.

On another note, Starry, with his planets in the 12th he definitely needs some - errr, a lot of - time alone.
Plus he probably enjoys his freedom (Sag & Aries) and I think living with someone *may* feel like he's tied down, even if he has deep feelings for you.
But on the other hand, who knows? Maybe he won't be bothered that much and may enjoy it.

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I have my Sun in 12th house too. I wish I wasn't such a libra along with a bunch of scorpio.

His moon tightly conjuncts my jupiter..so atleast I'm fun??? I duno. Hard to change scorpios, if ever.

Yes, he is scared of being "tied down". I even told him that. I said "Perhaps you are more afraid of being tied down than I am. You are afraid to lose your freedom."

Bam. He didn't say a word.

On the other hand, I'm already staying over 3 nights a week. That is A LOT already for him to be so "close" with someone. He has never had anyone like this before.

I'd clean his place, because I want to. And he really always appreciates that cuz he knows he's messy but likes to be more clean and organized (Ha, men..)

I sometimes cook for him, but not as much as he cooks for me.

At home with him he does his own thing, I do my own thing. He wants to surf on his PC, fine, we don't need to talk, I'm doing my own thing where I'm reading, or trolling LL...

posted December 20, 2011 08:49 PM            

Moon conjunct Jupiter is a very good aspect to have, his feelings are "exapanded" by your presence, I'm pretty sure you make him feel really good.

And you both share a 12th house Sun, which probably makes it easy to relate to each other, even if the energies aren't expressed in exactly the same way.

posted December 20, 2011 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ Joan woah how long did you survive there for?

She sounds.
Interesting.

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posted December 20, 2011 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
Lol wow...that's some crazy experience.

As of right now I Only go over and spend 4 days / 3 nights a week with him. Enough?

He once asked me to stay the 4th night with him too, but I said I couldn't cuz I had to go tend to family business.

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posted December 20, 2011 09:09 PM            

However, with this guy... Yeah, I think you'd better wait on the moving in part- ESPECIALLY if he hasn't offered.

posted December 20, 2011 09:15 PM            

His:

sun conjunct my venus/merc
sun conjunct my pluto (yikes)
venus conjunct my uranus (jeez)
venus conjunct my saturn (ughh a bit more than 4 deg orb)
sun square my mars (yikes)
moon conjunct my jupiter (VERY tight)

My:

Juno sextile his venus
Sun opposite his moon (yikes)
Sun square his mars (yikes!)
Moon trines his NN
Mars trines his Chiron

All of these are tight (~4 orb and less)

posted December 20, 2011 09:19 PM            

you know. The sun square mars is really gonna play out if you guys move in together. Mars squares are usually kinda hard to deal with (unless it's to venus which gives it more a sexual attraction) but sun square mars will make you guys wanna choke each other sometimes haha.

posted December 21, 2011 10:14 AM            

I know it was about boundaries too. I have no problem letting him do his own thing at home cuz I got my own thing to do too and we appreciate the "space" we give each other to do such things.