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Topic: Will My Dad ever find Love again?
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ElizabethO
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 22, 2011 08:49 PM
  
My parents got married after 9 years of courtship, then separated (not yet divorced because they can't agree on anything) after 20 years of marriage. I'm glad that they went their separate ways, but ever since he became a bachelor again, I've been so worried about him! For the past six years, he's been living out of his car and sleeping at the casino hotel (they give him free rooms all the time because him and his friends go there a lot), or staying at our home when my mom is gone. He just got an apartment for himself because he finally got tired of living rent-free but without a place to call his own. I feel better, but I'm still so heartbroken about the situation.I really want him to get remarried and have a nice, sweet wifey to take care of him at home. He's 61 years old and his health isn't the best. Whenever I leave home and he's back to just hanging out with friends and no family... it makes me so sad.  What if something happens to him? Who will go to the hospital to comfort him? What if he has a heart attack in his apartment all alone and no one is there to take care of him. I almost feel like I'm trapped between wanting my own life and feeling guilty about leaving my father behind. From looking at his chart, do you guys think he'll find another love soon? He is currently "seeing" his ex-gf from medical school in the Philippines. She really likes (loves?) my father still, and her husband passed away from cancer a few years ago. They chat on FB a lot. He even keeps his laptop next to him at dinner waiting on her responses and writing back to her. I don't know her birthday, so I can't post her chart or their synastry yet. I'll ask my Dad later... It's cute that he likes her and gives her attention (gifts from the US, photos of my brother and I, and she's his mother's doctor now)... but he isn't going back to retire there for another... four years? Who knows what can happen until then...  IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
Knowflake Posts: 259
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 22, 2011 09:09 PM
Here are his CURRENT transits, if they'll help.  IP: Logged |
Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 2156
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 22, 2011 10:08 PM
The best time for him to meet someone, or go further with the one he has is when the SUN is transiting late Cancer. Few months either side too. 1st ruler is SUN, while 7th ruler is URANUS. That's self (1st house) meeting partner (7th house) The best time to meet someone is when URANUS is in more exact aspect to natal SUN. This event came about 2-3 years ago when URANUS was semi-sextile SUN. The next aspect which happens is in 5 years or so when transit URANUS is CONJUNCT natal SUN - the best aspect that's possible. As transit URANUS is almost conjunct natal SUN, I can only see positive results on the dating scene, whether this be options of partners in numbers or choice of partner in terms of qualities. What I'm saying here is that he should be thinking about dating the best partners in the shop window, in terms of material worth, which many seem to view dating as. He should get a really good partner if this one doesn't work out. On the negative side, when transit SATURN is in exact aspect to natal URANUS, he may find troubles with his current partner, so they may split up. This theme continues in about 2-3 years, so I don't rate his chances of keeping his current one to be good at all. Best time for current partner or new person is when SUN transits Cancer and the signs either side. IP: Logged |
popcorn
Knowflake Posts: 2553
From: Sweden, gothenburg
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted December 23, 2011 05:50 AM
Are you really sure he not met anyone already?
Transit chiron and neptun conj his house 5 ruler jupiter in his house 7. Also his house 5 ruler number 2 saturn in aspect to his Jupiter. Well its possible it could be something more seriously when transit pluto trine his house 5 ruler saturn 13 in virgo.Check out his PRogression and Solar Arc. Sun Venus connection
Sun AC
Venus mars
Venus AC
PR and SA and rulers from N house 5 and 7 are important IP: Logged | |
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