posted December 23, 2011 06:00 PM            

I have this "neighbor" (her son gave me her birth time, she left her drivers license here for some reason) looking @ her birth chart now I can see why she puts me off so awfully, and I can see why her and my mother get along PERFECTLY. This is her chart:

Here is my mothers

Here is mine

This woman has no sense of boundaries for others. Every week she will BANG on my condo door and seriously try to barge in. She won't even wait for a "who is this?" she acts as if its HER apartment! Its not! She bangs like its the freaking police and at very inappropriate times. I always ask myself "Who the f--- is trying to get inside this apartment" i walk and see and look who it is... I dont know what her problem is to be honest. And when you DO let her in she runs straight to my mothers room even when i clearly say "shes asleep" what does she say "Oh thats fine! im here!" she bangs and knocks and attempts to enter my mothers locked bedroom. I dont know what the f my mother sees in this person but they are very similar, very overly-aggressive, think they can do anything they want. Tonight, Im alone, peace and quiet and than i hear her banging and trying to get inside while the door is LOCKED. I say "Mother is not home." I walk away and she continues banging I obviously dont know what the f--- to do she bangs for 5 minutes and I eventually let her in, she says "I just need some tomatoes.." I know i should have done something but I was frozen I couldn't believe the audacity, she just barges into my freezer and takes 15 tomatoes! and then sees herself out. So i guess this is HER apartment and a mini-grocery store. And whenever my mom does let this person inside the house, its like she demands all eyes on her. I remember I had my earphones on, I was working on something and then she pulls my earphones off and starts yelling "Why did you not say hello to me?" what the **** LOL. I run whenever I see her in the elevator her presence makes the hair on my neck stand, no sense of boundaries thinks everything is about her, loud and aggressive. She calls between 12 Am -3 am demanding to speak to my mother! I tell her she's not here she will come banging 30 minutes later. Apparently she doesn't have "friends" so my mother is all she has. Isn't that surprising? Because my mother too doesn't have "friends" lmfao. Who calls someone's house at 3 am? This woman scares me - no sense of boundaries, most people understand her behavior isn't okay. She once screamed at me because I didn't hold the elevator for her! She was standing at the mail box and the elevator couldn't be held anymore so she came right over and yelled at me.

posted December 23, 2011 06:07 PM            

I mean leo asc likes attention and has the potential to feel entitled to things. The aries stellium just augments this and makes her somewhat pushy and unreasonable.

posted December 23, 2011 06:12 PM            

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So all you leo asc and aries sun or mercury or mars, do you understand what boundaries are? Do you think everything revolves around you?

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My brother is a Leo Rising, Aries Sun/Merc.

He is nothing like what you've described.

Actually I think you'd like him a lot if you met him.

Happy Holidays to you lindisfarne!

posted December 23, 2011 06:21 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
woah! Okay are they best friends? They have great synastry.

I mean leo asc likes attention and has the potential to feel entitled to things. The aries stellium just augments this and makes her somewhat pushy and unreasonable.

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my mother is very two faced when this woman is not around she will say Awful things, and how she hates her. once this woman barges in unannounced my mother and her are besst Friends. my mother will love you if you listen and agree with every single fib she spins out of her mouth. In my eyes they are best Friends they go out together. Last week this woman somehow got into my locked apartment!!!!!! at 3 am and forced my mother to get dressed cause she didn't want to attend some social event alone...

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See my best friend has Leo rising but we get along so perfectly! Its cause he has a lot of air in his chart I guess. I just don't get this behavior it's sick.

posted December 23, 2011 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Oh god she sounds like my aries/leo friend. Im heavy air so I have a love hate relationship with this girl. She is very pushy and demanding and one of the most self centered people I have ever known. She thinks the world revolves around her and has a sense of entitlement that will make you gag. She thinks the whole world owes her something.
She has sun,mercury, and venus in aries square mars and leo moon opposite jupiter.

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Does she get big and bad when you wrong her? I bet she flips out and acts like you seriously offended her over the smallest things. Leo moon! So wary of that placement lmao.

posted December 23, 2011 08:03 PM            

Luckily, I put people like that in their place rather quickly, and it doesn't remain a problem for long .

posted December 24, 2011 05:37 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
I would call the police on both this woman and your inconsiderate "mother" (what a euphemism to call her so).

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You don't think shes a mother?

posted December 24, 2011 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
Lol I'm that way with my good friends, too. She also probably doesn't respect you because you'rejust a child in her eyes.

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posted December 24, 2011 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by FireWire:
[b]Old Wench

You are TOO funny! LOL![/B]

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posted December 24, 2011 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:

So all you leo asc and aries sun or mercury or mars, do you understand what boundaries are? Do you think everything revolves around you?

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You've communicated with me before and I'm an Aries - do you think I know where my boundaries are? (Haha boundARIES.)

posted December 25, 2011 04:01 AM            

I do a work shift and am leaving the building with 2 heavy boxes and my handbag and she says ' you coming back for your hours next week ' ! Assuming I would do. Instead of saying actually my hours of work are between 9 and 5 and you could have given them to me anytime you had hundreds of minutes to do so; I decided the curt polite approach was best so it was a no, text me. She just has to push the boundaries all the time, she was aware of the hours she was going to give me all day and has texted before of her own initiative, she just wanted an extra pound of flesh so to speak.

She did text me and it was the most sickly or cynical message I have ever read, thank you so much for your endless enthusiasm in this job blah blah. She can't be polite it is either the sickly stuff or aggressive assumptions.

There are some other boundary issues with her like she knows I don't drink alcohol so the only Xmas present she gets me is alcholic chocs; just don't get me a present I don't want one!!!