posted December 25, 2011 02:11 AM            

We have that mind, body and soul connection that others sense when WE walk into the room.

We open each others minds to so many new things.

We bend, we break, we travel over bumps, have our fair share of struggles and come out on top like f*cking warriors, stronger in the end for having trudged through the sh*t together. Because we rock like that. Passion runs deep both in the best and worst of times (intense sex and insane arguements. It works both ways, sorry NO fairy tale nonsense here, this is real life) but in the end. we are.

Best friends
devoted lovers
part of each others families
Intense lovers
life altering emotional occurances between us shake us to the very core..
each others pyschologist, mentor, advisor, collaborator ... dreaming together, fight together, overcome together, a great super fantastic team together, so not perfect in a way that is pefect for us just the same grow and struggle together. We take great pleasure in satisfying each other every whim, we are both givers like that with massages, sensual touches and caresses aplenty! We talk about anything, communicate well, unravel the deepest secrets we both have, share, give and take balanced together.
...We are

That is what a relationship is to me.

posted December 25, 2011 02:32 AM            

Your souls are connected and will always be regardless of this illusion we call reality.

I dont have anything much different to say except certain connections are what you are missing and they help in making you a little bit closer to whole.

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Out of myself, but wanting to go beyond that wanting what I see in your eyes, not power, but to kiss the ground with the dawn breeze for company, wearing white pilgrim cloth.

posted December 25, 2011 11:06 PM            

And what flaws can I put up with? Dirty laundry on the floor. Needing your freedom (is that a flaw? I suppose only when it conflicts with my own need at the time...) Not being a planner. Having to talk everything out. Showering every day (it's one of the top 5 I'll accept.) Lying to spare my feelings, but any other time I won't tolerate it.

posted December 26, 2011 12:04 AM            

I won't go further because I tend to tick people off, and I shall not do that. No matter what I say, it all comes off the wrong way and rubs people the wrong way.

posted December 26, 2011 12:59 AM            

Cancer Sun, Mars & Mercury in 7th
Virgo Moon in 9th square Sag Uranus/ASC
Taurus Venus in 5th quincunx Sag Uranus
Venus opposite Saturn

posted December 26, 2011 03:47 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Well written, Carl. Best wishes to you.

I won't go further because I tend to tick people off, and I shall not do that. No matter what I say, it all comes off the wrong way and rubs people the wrong way.

My sincere regards.

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You don't rub me the wrong way.

posted December 26, 2011 06:52 PM            

Then we have an issue because we have grown so close to each other that like clockwork we must merge at a certain hour of the day, week, or whatever the given way is...

if so it be this way,and the one or the other, I have been in both positions, closes off to as reject the ritual, then so be it that the relationship is poisoned until the other makes it up...how?

posted December 27, 2011 04:02 AM            

Probably the most important thing to me in a relationship is that it is obvious to others how much we love and care for eavh other and the intense chemistry we have. With moon, venus, and mars in leo it's very important to me that others can FEEL how sweet we are to each other and can see the chemistry.
My ideal relationship is very close but very distant at the same time. He is shy and sweet towards me and laughs at all my jokes. We tease each other mercilessly and embarrass each other just to poke fun. We're physically playful. He's different around just me and with other people, he's a lot more nurturing and caring when it's just us two. He's a sentimental romantic, but only shows it to me. I make him emotional, i make him worried/scared about losting me, i affect him deeply, and he does the same all to me as well. We're also kind of distant in that we can hang out separately with our own friends, and we can even go on vacations without each other. Too much time with one person is suffocating to me, and if we spend too much time too quickly in the beginning of a relationship, i want to run for the hills because it feels unnatural.

I definitely would hate for us to not hav any friends outside of the relationship. It's very important to me that he doesnt just drop everything in his life for me. I want both of us to be independent. Also, we would probably have times of extreme coolness interlaced with periods of extreme passion to make up for the coolness/shyness/lack of affection. I can be a bery withdrawn person, and often need to be in my own little world doing my own thing most of the time, so i can be pretty distant and unaffectionate. Hopefully that would not bother him. I like to keep the mystery alive by "distancing" myself from time to time.