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Topic: Transits for when you completely lost interest in relationships?
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teasel
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posted December 27, 2011 05:19 PM
  
I was feeling this way a year ago, but this has just cemented it. I'm always attracting the wrong type of man, and the one time I thought I'd attracted the right type, he changed everything I liked about him. (Seriously.)I don't have much experience in romantic relationships at my age, and this is why. I avoided them when I was younger, but opened up to the right guy coming along. At this point, there is no right guy - I'm PO'd, and felt so much better about myself, about life, etc, before I ever dipped my toe back into that water. Saturn (transiting) is in my 12th, and I just realized that it's opposing transiting Jupiter at the very end of my 6th house, conjunct my descendant. I don't need hugs, I don't need to be told that it will happen one day, I just need to feel good in my own skin again, and avoid men as anything but purely platonic friends. Uranus is still in my 5th, unless you use equal house, and Pluto is once again sextile my mars and ascendant, I think. Chiron is hitting moon, venus and nodes via square, conjunct mars, And trine uranus/asc. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
Knowflake Posts: 795
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 27, 2011 05:41 PM
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I don't have much experience in romantic relationships at my age, and this is why. I avoided them when I was younger, but opened up to the right guy coming along. At this point, there is no right guy - I'm PO'd, and felt so much better about myself, about life, etc, before I ever dipped my toe back into that water.
Same here. I'm having a Uranus transit thru H7 and it looks like it'll be this way for at least a few years. Must say, it's like a breath of fresh air not having to be responsible for anyone else's happiness but my own. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 27, 2011 05:45 PM
I might have felt better about it, had there not been so much weirdness around it all in the past, and I'd had one good/successful experience. So much wasted energy, that should have gone towards other things.Uranus is sextile my moon/venus again, so that's probably helping. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 28, 2011 06:09 PM
This is one thing that gets to me, and has happened to me a few times: http://mydatinghangovers.com/?p=1081 I hate it. Reading that just confirms my feelings. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted December 28, 2011 06:28 PM
That's just sad.IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted December 28, 2011 06:33 PM
I don't see how it's sad, seems refreshing.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
Knowflake Posts: 795
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posted December 28, 2011 06:38 PM
Some people just aren't cut out for relationships. I was in one long-term and felt increasingly suffocated and grouchy all the time. When I'm not in a relationship or otherwise hung up on someone, I'm like a totally different person - happy and not feeling burdened by expectations. I guess some might label it as immaturity but my soul chose to be incarnated into a Moon/Venus/Uranus + 12th House NN for a reason. Maybe I need to learn to be ok with being alone in this lifetime. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 28, 2011 06:47 PM
Capriquarius, I have Moon conjunct Venus/South Node, square Mars, widely trine Pluto and sextile Jupiter, inconjunct Uranus.  Mars trines Uranus conjunct ascendant. I feel better when I'm not pining for someone, as well. I always did. I'm not attracted to many men out there; I need to be able to trust them, and I also need some space to do my own thing, but not in an open relationship. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 28, 2011 06:49 PM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
I don't see how it's sad, seems refreshing.
I thought she was referring to the link I posted. (?) IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted December 28, 2011 07:17 PM
Yes, teasel. Sorry I should have quoted it.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 29, 2011 09:27 PM
When saturn first hit my dsc... I lost all faith and hope in my ex husband.. Decided walking away was the best thing to do.. IP: Logged |
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