posted January 02, 2012 02:48 AM            

You are mercury he is jupiter.

You are in his sign. +3
you are in triplicity with him +1
the moon is in the 7th house +5
=9 you miss him more

He is in triplicity with you +1
he is in exaltation with you +2
=3

posted January 02, 2012 04:06 AM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
if the rocks moves to the right, does that mean yes or no?

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posted January 02, 2012 04:15 AM            

Thanks for the reading Made me happy!

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Well, yes, you miss each other, but you like him more! Moon in the 7th house means you are falling in love with him. In sign is the strongest reception, and you are in his sign, while he is in the sign of your sexuality. So he may actually like you more for your sexuality than your personality. Be careful. You are in triplicity with his sexuality, so you appreciate that, too, but you're not crazy about it like he is. He likes your personality a lot, too (exaltation). Overall, I wouldn't be too worried. There are no receptions in detriments or fall, so you have mutual reception all around. He may not like you for your personality as much as you like him yet, but he does definitely appreciate you (exaltation and triplicity). However, I wouldnt say he is falling in love for you like you are for him. Try to talk to him, make him fall for you slowly. He is certainly interested. But dont force him to commit, dont tell him how you feel, just keep contacting him. I'm sure he will be receptive.

You are mercury he is jupiter.

You are in his sign. +3
you are in triplicity with him +1
the moon is in the 7th house +5
=9 you miss him more

He is in triplicity with you +1
he is in exaltation with you +2
=3

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posted January 02, 2012 04:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Coffee:
If it moves, it's not a rock, but a crab.

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Ohmigod, This is just too hilarious... You are definately in a playful mood, aren't you Coffee?

posted January 02, 2012 04:37 AM            

Also, your significators are applying...which is a yes for missing you and contact, but you are the faster-moving planet to the applying (Mercury to Jupiter), so it's you who is taking the action. You're in detriment (Mercury in Sagittarius is in detriment) and in the fall (Moon co-significator in Aries). while he is in critical/anaretic degrees being at 0 Taurus. The reaching out which is done is not going to be coming from a well-calculated place. At the same time, I think he is also almost used to not taking enough action given his very fixed position (esp since by horary he is in your 2nd house, 8th by regular chart).

posted January 02, 2012 04:49 AM            

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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
No, don't contact him again. Your co-ruler (moon) is in the 7th, where he is, making your decisions at this point, almost too subjective. I like RAS's explanation, it makes sense. But I have to point out that there are detriments and falls here (Merc in Sagittarius and moon in Aries).

Also, your significators are applying...which is a yes for missing you and contact, but you are the faster-moving planet to the applying (Mercury to Jupiter), so it's you who is taking the action. You're in detriment (Mercury in Sagittarius is in detriment) and in the fall (Moon co-significator in Aries). while he is in critical/anaretic degrees being at 0 Taurus. The reaching out which is done is not going to be coming from a well-calculated place. At the same time, I think he is also almost used to not taking enough action given his very fixed position (esp since by horary he is in your 2nd house, 8th by regular chart).

I say you've said what you want, now give it time to evolve. When he starts to change into later degrees of Jupiter, he will be more receptive and will take some kind of action. But your position at this point is not good - you're reactive, very much so, because you don't want to lose this. It's making him look like he has less to lose, which is why I dont like this. If you give it time, the degrees will shift and there will be a turnaround and you will be able to balance out this storm. For now, every time you want to take action, just take a breath and realize that he needs to make up for not acting on your behalf about this.

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posted January 02, 2012 05:50 AM            

I think if you want to ask about contact and if he will, distinctly, then another chart with the separate question should be drawn up since this one is purely about missing each other. I hate how horary is very nitpicky with this stuff but it is unfortunately :/

posted January 02, 2012 10:24 AM            

He was also confused that he admitted and also felt that I didn't like him enough.

Should I post a 'should I contact him' chart?

Thanks for your help

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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
As for now, from what I see in the chart, both of you guys are not functioning at your best...I do see this though as being contributed to missing each other
I'm talking more about imbalance of action though, and I'm seeing you as making the next move regardless of whether it's best or not. To me this chart shows you as being highly driven by feeling, and as the one who takes action. Your significators, regardless of detriment or fall, are not stagnant!
He shows on the other hand as being almost calculating and somehow stubborn about it. He is not acting at all. He seems to have a very good reason in his own mind for not wanting to pursue this, though I don't know what they are. I think he might have not been clear about it though, and I think he is also emotionally effected by this thing with you and not processing it well (it shows, and he seems somewhat paralyzed, kind of neither here nor there in action).

I think if you want to ask about contact and if he will, distinctly, then another chart with the separate question should be drawn up since this one is purely about missing each other. I hate how horary is very nitpicky with this stuff but it is unfortunately :/

It's just by my own feeling that I see him making contact.

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posted January 02, 2012 10:25 AM            

If he isn't crazy about you now, he never will be. It will always be you suffering. This happened to me in both my long-term and short-term.

More importantly. What happens if this guy finally decides to "settle" with you, which sounds so boring, and then someone truly suited for you comes along??

posted January 02, 2012 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Ohmigod, This is just too hilarious... You are definately in a playful mood, aren't you Coffee?

I'm sorry, Cella, I can't help much with astrology. I really dun know much. But good luck and happy new year!!

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posted January 02, 2012 10:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Take it from someone who learned it the hard way: FORGET ABOUT HIM. MOVE ON.

If he isn't crazy about you now, he never will be. It will always be you suffering. This happened to me in both my long-term and short-term.

More importantly. What happens if this guy finally decides to "settle" with you, which sounds so boring, and then someone truly suited for you comes along??

If I were you I'd remain unattached. NO STRINGS and don't be strung along either.

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posted January 02, 2012 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ook, ok I didn't know the context. Well, I have no idea about fast moving planets and such. No idea what that even means or how to calculate that, but MVM pointed out something I didn't notice. Earlier I was only referring to detriments and fall in mutual reception. But, yes, you are indeed in both detriment and in fall, so you feel week and hopeless about the matter. I think because it shows that you feel so strongly for him, yet it doesn't seem that he feels as strongly, you should step back and not pursue this anymore. Guys don't want to commit to girls unless they miss them so much they can't stand it because they want to be free to sleep with other women... Since he isn't "in love" with you, he doesn't want to be tied down. I'm not saying he won't come back for you later when he is ready to settle down, but for now you should leave him alone. Sorry about the sudden change of mind in my advice, but I didn't know the context before. You shouldn't try to contact him, but maybe try to show up where he hangs out, or make it so that you run into each other. So that he falls for you without him even knowing you're missing him or thinking about him. The chart shows he finds you attractive so at least use that to lure him further in and to make him miss you so he'll want to commit.

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posted January 02, 2012 05:47 PM            

So, you see, some guys really just dont want to commit. U have to make it so that they cant take it anymore.

Now they have been married since they went out and with 7 years living in different countries bc of communism he didnt even cheat on her and has proven very loyal all of my life. And he's an aries, btw and she's a taurus.

So don't listen to negative people. You never know how things will turn out . Just dont contact him anymore but do try to run into him somehow! Make it so that he sees you. Seeing you will make him miss you.

posted January 02, 2012 06:03 PM            

RunAround, your advice does sound like it could work because guys are visual.

posted January 03, 2012 12:10 AM            

If it doesn;t work, then at least you know you tried. It makes your conscience clean to follow your intuition and heart, so that you do not have (as many) regrets. If you go through a bitter phase, that's alright too. As long as you don't get stuck and limit yourself, then the bitterness will leave you and become a different season.

Anyway, just rambling now.

posted January 03, 2012 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
I agree with both RAS and Capiquarius here! I've been screwed over many times, and I think it's about calculated risk. On the other hand, you can't really calculate risk lol....and despite everything, people will always surprise you (if you allow it). For me personally, I have always killed feelings off for someone who distances themselves from me. Maybe it's a Venus in Scorp thing too, because all or nothing will not take to extended levels of uncertainty very well. But feelings are feelings, and I know that too! Sometimes you need to let things run their course and see where it rolls.

If it doesn;t work, then at least you know you tried. It makes your conscience clean to follow your intuition and heart, so that you do not have (as many) regrets. If you go through a bitter phase, that's alright too. As long as you don't get stuck and limit yourself, then the bitterness will leave you and become a different season.

Anyway, just rambling now.

Cella, if you want to draw a chart for contact, draw it separately as a different question. Try to have the question be as specific as possible, something like, Will there be contact between us within X-amount of time. Something like that, so you can get a more specific answer. Horary can be annoyingly SPECIFIC lol. I admit I do not know a whole lot, but I have read some and know a little and will help however I can.

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