posted January 02, 2012 01:03 PM            

My parents divorced when I was an infant lol. He remarried a lovely woman who actually adopted me and raised me as her own child.

My birth mother is really into her career. She's very glamourous and has a comfy life. d Honestly I have no idea why she even wants a relationship now. I guess now that she's older,and I'm an adult...

posted January 02, 2012 03:50 PM            

Gemini is pretty accepting with human flaws
they take life in stride.
If your birth mother wants to help you with Education then that's great and it will make her feel better about the choices she's made in this life, and you will benefit.

posted January 04, 2012 06:17 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
How does your adoptive mom feel about it, if you don't mind my asking?

I notice that your mother has a lot of planets in Libra, including the sun. Her chart ruler, the sun, is also in Libra, which of course makes her ascendant Leo. Venus being in the first house would add to this; my guess is that she is a very beautiful woman and that she probably has pleasing mannerisms and demeanor--very charming, attracts people easily. She has Venus in Leo, too, which would also indicate very 'high' tastes/elegance. On top of that, she has a Taurus moon to boot. I can see how she would be the 'glamorous' type. I consider myself a glamor girl and a career girl (both) and I only have two planets in Libra; in her, this would be even stronger and more powerful. Beauty and elegance are core parts of who she is and I would venture to say that they are what she seeks and desires in life, very strongly, even more strongly than the average Libra.

I notice that she has Mars in Libra, which would be drive/motivation. She would be motivated by beauty and would respond strongly to it; she would be drawn to people who are pleasant, beautiful, well-mannered, polite. She could possibly be motivated by peace and the promise of comfort or harmony, which might be why she is contacting you. However, without knowing her personally, of course, I can't say that with 100% certainty--just that it's possible.

Personally, I would tread carefully and give her time to earn your trust. It is entirely possible that she feels bad for the past and is trying to heal old wounds in her own way, but it's also possible that her motives might not be the best. I think that it would be good to go into this very slowly and cautiously and see if she is truly trustworthy.

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My adoptive mother had a similar childhood to mine, She's usually very protective of me, but now is in an awkward position. Our relationship is strong though.

posted January 04, 2012 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
You need to do what is best for you.
What do you feel comfortable with?

Gemini is pretty accepting with human flaws
they take life in stride.
If your birth mother wants to help you with Education then that's great and it will make her feel better about the choices she's made in this life, and you will benefit.

Tell your step mother, it has nothing to do with love and she's still number one

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posted January 04, 2012 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
You need to do what is best for you.
What do you feel comfortable with?

Gemini is pretty accepting with human flaws
they take life in stride.
If your birth mother wants to help you with Education then that's great and it will make her feel better about the choices she's made in this life, and you will benefit.

Tell your step mother, it has nothing to do with love and she's still number one

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posted January 05, 2012 04:58 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
If you have a feeling about being used, though, just be careful.

Without really knowing her, it's hard to say, but until you know for sure, you can always just kind of let it unfold and see what happens without giving up too much of yourself or letting her get into a position of trust right away.

So, I'm not saying to definitely not trust her, but just to make sure that she earns your trust and is worthy of it.

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Yeah I've been careful she's been inviting up to see her, and I've just been making excuses. She recently got remarried and I did not even attend the wedding. Its really awkward but I know I have to see her now that she's offering to help me out. I mean she can't really hurt me, since I have like no feelings towards her. :P