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From: Australia
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posted January 05, 2012 12:47 AM            

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Venus in Sag (like me), mercury in Scorpio (like me) and Mars in Aries. So the scenario goes like this....we met when we were 9.... grew up together, went to school together, then 17 years ago he chased me so hard that I bolted. The interest seemed to come out of nowhere so I really got spooked. I moved away and that was that. Until now. We are back in touch and there has been some sexual tension, mostly, this time, from my end. And just like 17 years ago it came from nowhere. It's taken us till we are 38 to finally 'get it on'. And we did and it was good. We sat up several nights talking and talking and talking, then some other stuff, then more talking and talking. After a particularly great night, he goes cold on me. Ice cold. I really can't explain why. I went back for another night together as I was in town for a short time only and the night was pre arranged, but he sat on a separate couch to me and distracted himself with phonecalls to friends etc and small talk type chit chat with me, until I got the hint and left. I don't know much about Scorpio behaviour. I know theyr'e intense, jealous, secretive....I don't know is this typical behaviour?

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posted January 05, 2012 03:49 PM            

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posted January 05, 2012 05:28 PM            

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Well I did explain my actions all those years ago, and I sincerely apologised and told him that I'd always regretted treating someone I grew up with like that. That I was young and didn't know what I wanted. I told him that I knew nothing more could happen this time round either because we live so far away, but I liked his company and for now I WAS in town. To this I got "I'm definately not boyfriend material, I'm not worried about what happened back then, I'm not taking any of this too seriously" Ouch!!! I'm hoping it's reverse psychology! Lol. But yeah...probably not. I got a lot of mixed messages this past week, from invitations to jealousy to detachment. Very confused.

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posted January 05, 2012 05:35 PM              

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I went through a similar situation with a Scorpio Mercury person and when I consulted a disinterested third party the feedback I received was, "Forget about him. Guys don't treat girls they like in that manner."

Guys are simple. A lot of them will even admit this themselves, just go ask on Yahoo Answers and see for yourself. No need for all the Mercurian hyperanalysis to figure him out.

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