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posted January 06, 2012 08:18 PM            

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I have heard so many times guys saying that they cheated on every girl they ever dated until they met "the one" and with that one they feel no draw to any other woman.

Is there something about their composite chart that would change them just for that relationship?

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posted January 06, 2012 09:19 PM            

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Ahem. The no draw to any other women part is just plain BS. Perhaps other women have less draw than their wives, but gimme a break. Suddenly, no other woman on Earth is attractive? For me it's about moral values, commitment and good old common sense. I don't boink other women because I love my wife, I took my marriage vows and it's the plain right thing to do. I have a personal ego to fulfill and my personal value standards prohibit me from proceeding beyond friendly flirtation. My wife as well. But to say my Johnson no longer responds to any other woman walking down the street is just a bunch of BS hooey. LOL. It's part of my attraction to LL forum cos its female filled. LOL. Why can't these guys just be plain honest? .

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posted January 06, 2012 09:25 PM            

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I dont think she meant it like that..

Of course anyone and everyone will be attracted to other people..

I think she means more of what would make a guy that cheated on all his girlfriends FINALLY BE faithful to this one specific woman..

She is asking what aspects would that be, to keep in faithful.

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posted January 06, 2012 09:39 PM            

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I don't buy that either. Cheat and cheat and then suddenly stop? Like saying a liar would suddenly stop lying.

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posted January 06, 2012 09:43 PM            

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Please.. When guys are younger (not all) most of them cheat and cheat.. One girl after another, once they mature and pass their saturn return, and really start wanting a relationship, they (some) will remain faithful..

My ex husband, was as a younger guy.. cheated and cheated.. He even has 2 kids born a month apart...

When me and him met, he was in his 30's and done with all the games...
We were together 13 years.. He never cheated on me.... (at least not that I know of)
but he never gave the tell tell signs, plus he was ALWAYS home... Never went out.. Never did anything..
There was never a time, I suspected him of cheating..

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posted January 06, 2012 09:44 PM            

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Some players DO change (like 5% lol). But most serial cheats or ones that have a habit of cheating don't ever change. It's part of their lack of character, they can't change that part of who they are.

I think with this, it's all about the guys maturing?

^ well cheating can be more than an ongoing thing. They could do one night stands and other things, like you know flirt outrageously or touch somebody sexually.

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posted January 06, 2012 11:10 PM            

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Well, what did the composite with these stable girlfriends look like, did you check?

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posted January 07, 2012 11:32 AM            

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I suspect saturn aspects such as saturn/venus trine.

also jupiter in soft aspects to the sun/mars.

if you smell some neptune-mercury or neptune mars, most likely there will be cheating. with mercury (lies or misunderstanding) with mars (acting on it)

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posted January 07, 2012 05:26 PM            

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Good Lord YOURSTRULYALWAYS!
I just replied to you in another post where you were complaining about people and now you come to this one and complain about something else. I use this forum to try to better understand astrology because I am still quite a beginner-- I don't get it...

Yes, LIONESS... that is exactly what I meant.

Thank you NORDICSOUL... that's the kind of info I was looking for

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posted January 07, 2012 05:30 PM            

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Saturn trines are lovely. A venus and moon trine to saturn helps everything go the distance.

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posted January 07, 2012 05:53 PM            

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Originally posted by appleberry:
Good Lord YOURSTRULYALWAYS!
I just replied to you in another post where you were complaining about people and now you come to this one and complain about something else. I use this forum to try to better understand astrology because I am still quite a beginner-- I don't get it...

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And neither do I. I'm asking a question as well to seek clarity because it doesn't make sense. I only speak from a practical point of view and a perspective of having experience.

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posted January 07, 2012 06:19 PM            

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I think when another persons Saturn conjuncts your DSC or Asc would make that person really commit..
Or in their saturn in your H1 or H7 would do the same...

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posted January 07, 2012 06:22 PM            

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I just found the way you speak is inappropriate and offensive for this type of board. And you didn't seem to want to offer anything- you only seemed to want to attack and complain. And because of all that, this topic has gone off track and that is annoying for other readers. Maybe from now on, either flat out ask for clarity in the question, offer an answer stating that you are not sure you understood the question completely, or simply move on and don't add anything. Please use this forum as a place for learning and sharing, not a place for letting out steam.

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posted January 07, 2012 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by appleberry:
I just found the way you speak is inappropriate and offensive for this type of board. And you didn't seem to want to offer anything- you only seemed to want to attack and complain. And because of all that, this topic has gone off track and that is annoying for other readers. Maybe from now on, either flat out ask for clarity in the question, offer an answer stating that you are not sure you understood the question completely, or simply move on and don't add anything. Please use this forum as a place for learning and sharing, not a place for letting out steam.

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That's good you have an opinion and can express your feelings. Go tell that to the Moderators, please.

Who's complaining now? People who live in glass houses....

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posted January 07, 2012 09:34 PM            

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Appleberry, YTA was just trying to be helpful by offering practical down to earth advice fr the pt of view of a man. He meant no harm.. in fact, he wants that view out to prevent future heartbreaks of anyone here

i too am of his opinion that a cheater dun change unless at his own "time" n will power not synastry nor composite. I've know married men who cheated cos they can, when wife pregnant or when opportunities offer. . Of course they make me lose faith but everytime i meet a man who proves otherwise, I'm pleasantly supprised.

Edited : My view: composite dun speak of committment of a man. Mayb u shld ask when will such an opportunity to cheat be presented to him.

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posted January 07, 2012 09:37 PM            

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Darn lilithpluto, you know how to present it so eloquently.

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posted January 07, 2012 09:43 PM            

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It can go the other way too. I was faithful for a decade. I wanted to leave, he wouldn't let go, I cheated*, then walked out for good because the relationship was officially broken! So that's Moon square Venus/Uranus for ya. Post Saturn Return. Steer clear. Along with Venus in Gemini and Venus in Aries.

*depends on one's definition of it, I suppose

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posted January 07, 2012 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
So that's Moon square Venus/Uranus for ya. Post Saturn Return. Steer clear. Along with Venus in Gemini and Venus in Aries.

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Not so. And my moon/venus inconjuncts uranus.

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posted January 07, 2012 09:59 PM            

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I said SQUAAAAAARE

And you have Moon conjunct Venus? That means what you want is in line with what you need. So you're probably content with relationships.

As for Gemini Venus - it has a rep for cheating and I've seen it myself

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posted January 07, 2012 10:01 PM            

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You also said Venus in Gemini.

I love hearing personal experiences, I just don't like the generalization.

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posted January 07, 2012 10:04 PM            

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Well, you haven't met me, or several othes on this board.

I do have Moon conjunct Venus. Squares Mars, trine Pluto, sextile Jupiter, inconjunct Uranus/ascendant. I can be playful in speech, but not with peoples' hearts.

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posted January 07, 2012 10:04 PM            

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I edited my post to include Venus in Gemini.

And I like generalizations because I can use them to protect myself.

Edit: see what I said about Moon conjunct Venus. Of course you'd enjoy relationships.

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posted January 07, 2012 10:05 PM            

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Well then you're protecting yourself from some really great people. that's definitely your choice, though; can't and won't argue with that.

edit: I don't enjoy bad relationships, any more than the next person.

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posted January 07, 2012 10:09 PM            

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There are plenty of other great ppl with Venus in Scorp or some other Venus sign that doesn't need constant variety or requires so much SPACE (like my Venus in Aqua ex did at the beginning, which tore me up).

Thanks for acknowledging it's my choice. Cuz I never once created a thread here soliciting anyone's advice.

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posted January 07, 2012 10:11 PM            

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Proud Venus in Gemini! Never cheated!

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