posted January 07, 2012 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
IamLoved Sun conjunct mercury is a very common aspect, dear. It's not just present in marriage, but in friendships as well. It means both people find plenty to talk about in the relationship, but by itself it does not mean that the two people get along well or that they have any nice feelings towards the other.

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Completely agree with that. It enhances the possibility to communicate with each other, but on itself does not say anything about the degree of emotional attachment or love.

posted January 07, 2012 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
IamLoved Sun conjunct mercury is a very common aspect, dear. It's not just present in marriage, but in friendships as well. It means both people find plenty to talk about in the relationship, but by itself it does not mean that the two people get along well or that they have any [u]nice feelings towards the other.[/u]

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Okay, so which aspects show that a couple has nice feelings towards each other?

posted January 07, 2012 03:49 PM            

I donīt completely agree on your asessment of the Sun-Moon-conjunction. Taking it on its own it could very well be a sign of soulmate, as it is the merging of complimentary energies. BUT of course no aspects can ever be seen on its own, and beyond that complimentarity without LOVE (read= Venus for example) might not lead to anything romantic.
Also a Sun-Moon-conjunction that is difficult aspected might not be just as harmonious as the textbooks wants us to believe.

posted January 07, 2012 03:50 PM            

Also any of these in synastry is very nice as well, and combination of them in synastry and composite is surreal.

Oh and sun square/opp pluto and sun square/opp moon create tremendous fascination.

posted January 07, 2012 03:57 PM            

no personal planets aspecting pluto or jupiter. The sun moon conjunction aren't aspecting anything else important....Mercury nor moon isnt really doing anything either...There just seems to be nothing going on. as far as love feelins...venus isnt doing anything either except being square jupiter, which is nice but will not create strong feelings by itself..

Also the chart is really scattered.

The sun and moon are in conjunction with mercury (opp and conj with sun and mercury is interpreted as same thing in composite), so this actually makes for a nice stellium. But...i dont see anything else going on, like with mars, venus, or jupiter that would add nice feelings so *shrugs*

posted January 07, 2012 03:59 PM            

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Also, Sun conjunct moon...I see that aspect a lot. And it definitely doesnt indicate a soulmate relationship. I know a married couple who has this and the guy tells people she could never talk to and will never meet he doesnt love her and is regretting marrying her. I've also had friendships with this aspect and nothing else holding us together, which ended disastrously. They did me real dirty. It might make the relationship feel like you are pretty similar and have similar opinions, but it doesnt mean you care for each other that much or are especially forgiving of each other ...etc etc

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Oh wow I'm sorry you went through all of that! And I think it's wise that we all take the whole chart into consideration .

Sometimes soulmates hurt each other...... and later forgive and make things work... it's possible. Don't despair.

On another note, I found these links on Sun/Moon comp. conj. that might prove to be interesting.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090303145109AAANJlC
http://www.cafeastrology.com/composite/sun_moon.html

posted January 07, 2012 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Guess.

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posted January 07, 2012 04:08 PM            

thank you for the arguments. And why do you think the first and the third one are real relationships?
(I have to hold up answering your arguments directly, or I would tell it all, and I want to ask I am love something).

posted January 07, 2012 04:09 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Composite of couple white boyfriend black girlfriend, together 5 years so far, she told me she does feel they are soul mates and that she loves him so much it makes her cry!

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What is natal her Sun, Venus and Mars sign?

posted January 07, 2012 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:

They really do have A LOT of nice conjunctions! They are definitely soulmates in my opinion because they have A LOT of planets in one sign! And despite their troubles together as a couple it doesn't stop them from being soulmates.

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posted January 07, 2012 04:19 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:

This is the composite of two guy best friends. They have been best friends for the longest, but the love and chemistry between them isnt as apparent as in the above two (probably because there is no love stellium).

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I'm not surprised they are best friends!

They have Sun trine moon signifying friendships
and moon conj jupiter which signifies the love of being in each others company!

posted January 07, 2012 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
*shrugs* I didn't feel they were my soulmates at all, and i got over it pretty quickly. But thank you, though <3

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You're good, because it took me forever to get over my 1st and 3rd boyfriend.

It was easy for me to get over all of my other boyfriends though.

You wouldn't believe it if I told you, but I still think about my 3rd boyfriend to this day, even though I've had boyfriends after him.

posted January 07, 2012 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
RAS,

thank you for the arguments. And why do you think the first and the third one are real relationships?
(I have to hold up answering your arguments directly, or I would tell it all, and I want to ask I am love something).

I Am Love,
why do you think the third one is fake? Cause I posted it last?

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posted January 07, 2012 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Sun conjunct or opposite venus. Sun conjunct, sextile, or trine jupiter..but especially the conjunction. Moon in aspect to venus. Venus or sun trine, conjunct, or sextile pluto. venus trine, sextile, or conjunct mars. Sun trine neptune is nice as well, but not as nice, and by itself does not indicate anything special.

Also any of these in synastry is very nice as well, and combination of them in synastry and composite is surreal.

Oh and sun square/opp pluto and sun square/opp moon create tremendous fascination.

It's a combination of nice aspects in both synastry and composite which make for a nice relationship, not just one single aspect.

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posted January 07, 2012 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
In reply to your links, IamLoved, i'm not saying sun conjucnt moon isnt nice, just that by itself in the composite it doesnt mean anything without other nice aspects like sun/venus sun/jupiter

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posted January 07, 2012 04:40 PM            

The first composite belongs to my parents who have been married for 38 years coming may. They have never been apart a single night except for 6 weeks (when my dad was transferred because of his job).
They are still hugging and kissing all the time, and holding hands while taking their walks.
As a kid I sometimes felt like an intruder. Almost. lol

The second one is of a friend of mine, who has been with her guy for 7 years next july.
It was love at first sight, and from day one she called him "the one", using descriptions I only read about twinflames, though she had never heard of that term before.