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Topic: How do you get back on a Scorpio..
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Choc
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posted January 06, 2012 10:48 PM
  
EDIT: I MEANT "GET BACK AT A SCORPIO"After several weeks of ignoring me because he feels super guilty for mistreating me in the past, my super duper immature Sco ex decided a good technique to turn me off of him was to resort to sex-related insults [after I kiiinda annoyed the crap outta him].
Unfortunately for him, I can see right through his motives, despite the fact he loves playing mystery man. So, before I quit his effing a$$ for good, and although I know he will try to sting me even worse after that, I wanna come up with the a$$holiest response ever or at least, I wanna have him owned.
My Pluto in the 1st hasn't let me find peace so far. He treated me in a truly crappy way [mind games galore] in the past and even though I was still willing to smooth things out with him and let go [Libra Asc] he effed it up again. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 06, 2012 10:54 PM
Walk away forever. This will work on even a Pisces, the sign furthest along on the karmic wheel. Walk away and be happy. Then you will attract new love. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 06, 2012 10:57 PM
Be the bigger person and let it go. My ex did a huge number on me, but seriously, I could have resorted to some effed up things to **** him off and hurt him (the guy was super insecure and also had messed up his life, so I knew exactly what I could've said to make it truly sting...hard and leave scars lol)but I just think it's not worth it.
Doing that won't change the past or what happened. Doing that will make you lower yourself to their level. Be the mature one who turns away. Just brush it off and move on. I say the best revenge is moving on and being super happy and successful. And if they find out, that makes it even better! Revenge is sweet at times, but them seeing you having the time of your friggen life with a total hottie and a great life is even better! lol I got a stellium in libra, but also I'm quite arian and plutonian. I just think being vindictive or mean back does nothing lol. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 06, 2012 10:58 PM
Wiser words were never spoken, MG.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 06, 2012 11:05 PM
If you really want to hurt him though, sleep with his brother or friend and then proceed to tell the whole world how much bigger/better he is than your ex.It will hurt any guy but esp Scorpio because it's the sign of sex. Of course this won't be without karmic consequence but hey isn't that the Scorpion style? To sting, even at its own cost? Or would that be unevolved. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 06, 2012 11:08 PM
^ Yeah the worst thing she could do is sleep with her brother and tell the brother he's soo much better, that at least with him she doesn't have to fake it lol. That the scorpion was just a pity fck.Yeah that would be kinda ouch. Immature, but effective, if you want to go down the messed up route. IP: Logged |
Choc
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posted January 06, 2012 11:10 PM
1]If I sleep with his brother, I am gonna go to jail for pederasty lol.
2]I would never go anywhere near his friends, they are worse than him.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 06, 2012 11:12 PM
Lol nice touch with the pity f*ck, mg.Choc: Who cares about the condition of his friends...the point would be revenge not pleasure. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 06, 2012 11:16 PM
Yeah be sure to tell his friend that the first time you did it with the scorpion, you were so close to cracking up when you saw his body. That you seriously think you actually deserve a freakin trophy for successfully suppressing the giggles.Be sure to sleep with one of the guys that has a big mouth. Yeah revenge is sweet lol. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 06, 2012 11:17 PM
LOL you Virgos...not neglecting the details that hurt IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 06, 2012 11:31 PM
If you let it go he will know he lost something good and when he is older and more mature you will be his biggest regret.I always tell the universe to teach a lesson to people that hurt me and the universe always does..believe me, you don't have to do anything, the universe will attract him lessons and until he learns he will just keep attracting messed up situations in his life that are trying to teach him a lesson. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted January 06, 2012 11:33 PM
Don't.Walk away. Don't try to contact him, try not to think about him. It will both be better for you and tear him up  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 06, 2012 11:41 PM
I would say something like.. You can say what ever you want about me, but just know your words will not have any effect on me any more, Im just over it, over it all...
Then turn and walk away... (for good that is) IP: Logged |
T
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posted January 06, 2012 11:42 PM
Walk away, just walk away and live a happy life without him. Believe me, they get way more annoying when they are angry.IP: Logged |
T
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posted January 06, 2012 11:44 PM
Do yourself that favor. Save yourself that headache.IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted January 07, 2012 02:59 AM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Walk away forever. [...]
Walk away and be happy. Then you will attract new love.
Best advice, ever. Have experienced similar, with a Scorpio AND with a Pisces, both were sensitive in a self-serving, egomaniacal way due to their unimaginable levels of insecurity, jealous and repressed rage. Nothing at all nuturing or caring about either of them. I NEVER told them these things, but they knew I knew and resented me for it. I saw through both of them in a away no one else ever had, and I knew that as well. If he is insulting you sexually now after you aren't together, probably doesn't want you to move on. So, if they shatter your confidence, you'll stay mourning over the decay of the relationship or angry with them. Either form of energy offered they can leach off of. And This really makes me upset. Mind you, I was awarded the Jupiter optimism award around here. :: grimace smile :: LOL Walk away, not with negative intent (part of the karmic wheel too), but with the intent of finding joy for you. With the intent of being happy and new love, not with the intent of hurting him. Your negative energy will only add to his fire and he will keep going until you 'really' move on. Trust me on that. He will know and will respond accordingly. Revenge is probably his style, don't give in to it!  IP: Logged |
tautomer4314
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posted January 07, 2012 03:10 AM
Revenge does no good what so ever, and it doesn't even leave you feeling good afterwards and in the long term. As others have said, cut the cord and be done. If you REALLY want to get back at a scorpio person, not responding cuts just as deep and is also the noble thing to do.Take it from someone who has quite a good deal of scorpio energy too. ------------------
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lilithpluto
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posted January 07, 2012 03:49 AM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Walk away forever. This will work on even a Pisces, the sign furthest along on the karmic wheel. Walk away and be happy. Then you will attract new love.
Nice!! IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted January 07, 2012 04:23 AM
Living the best life that you can and being happy and successful and strong is the best revenge. Showing people who are trying to bring you down that you can't be destroyed or distraught or ruined because of them--showing them how weak they really are and that they have no power over you--is a good way to "get back". Cutting a person out of your life is another way--refusing to deal with a toxic person also shows that they do not have power over you. I would highly discourage anyone from seeking other forms revenge, as this will only come back to haunt you and will continue the cycle of vengeance. If you do go after a Scorpio, they will likely wait for the most opportune moment (for them) and hit you at least twice as hard, and you won't see it coming. The higher-evolved Scorpios would simply sting you once and walk away, but if he's not one of the good Scorpio people, this could get really ugly and end up backfiring on you. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted January 07, 2012 04:43 AM
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mintgirl123
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posted January 07, 2012 04:46 AM
Yeah everyone hates being ignored. Even if you go psycho on them or treat them coldly, in a way it's acknowledging them SOMEHOW right? So some people are still happy. But if you show you won't put up with crap and just ignore them and cut them out of your life for good (and continue to ignore even when they call you and try to see you) this affects most people more. Cos nobody likes to be slighted.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 07, 2012 04:47 AM
"If you like what he does, stay. If you don't, leave."No bad karma there that I can see. IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted January 07, 2012 09:10 AM
I was thinking earlier, about how my post was saying "don't ignore the person because you want to get back at them--that is bad karma just as well...etc, because of your intentions."Then I realized the OP is actually asking how to get back at them and be vengeful against this person. I suppose it really isn't my place to talk about karma...etc, when this is how they WANT to proceed. As far as the Scorpio sting, meh. You'll survive. IMO, the Scorpio's who can REALLY hurt/devastate/harm, they actually don't. The one's that have the gall to try aren't nearly as potent from what I've seen. Doesn't mean that what they do won't hurt, relative to your person. But, in the large scheme of things, it isn't much. I've heard some others talk about 'what they would do' and it is NOT nice! Then again, I have a significant amount of Scorpio and Plutonic energy in my chart as well. Often, I will walk away from conflict, especially when I know how much harm I can cause. But, it isn't worth it to me or the person to see them hurt, as I am too nurturing and caring to do that to a soul. As stated before, I really think this person just doesn't want you to move on. They know they can't have you, so they might be trying to sabotage your confidence so that you can't move on to someone who will treat you better and with respect. It is so desperate it bothers me. Conceptually, I love water signs (esp. Cancer suns), but the only people I've known who have done this to me or other people, have been water signs. Again I would advise you, like everyone else, to just walk away if you are unhappy. Be done with it, but do explore the feelings to the full extent as part of your own healing and recovery. IP: Logged |
LoVeLy
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posted January 07, 2012 09:21 AM
Why waste your time on revenge when you can be having FUN with someone else ? IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted January 07, 2012 09:25 AM
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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
Why waste your time on revenge when you can be having FUN with someone else ?
 That also goes for everyone else who said to walk away. It's best to do so with no ill intent, but (as someone with a Scorp Asc who knows quite a few other Plutonians) I'll second that it will also eat at him. IP: Logged |
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