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Topic: Capricorn Men?
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maira
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posted January 07, 2012 07:38 PM
  
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I took my college girlfriend to Paris. We drove around in a convertible. Kissed on top of the Eiffel Tower. Went to Moulin Rouge. Guess that wasn't so much fun. I must call her to tease her (yes, she is still a good friend... and a cardiac surgeon).
And yes, Leo might consider this lots of fun! My dad had a leo girlfriend for 10 years or so, then she found herself an Aqua (she might be evolving around the zodiac wheel and not know it). Please don't take offense in what I've said, mintgirl is right, fire sings value spontaneity first and foremost. It's a matter of personal taste, not an absolute truth. IP: Logged |
starfox
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posted January 07, 2012 07:39 PM
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Originally posted by maira:
This is often true later in life, when Capricorn has achieved both material and status desires and is more relaxed and "fun" to be with, if fun is a word that can describe Capricorn 
Hey, I (capricorn) love fun!
At my work we had to throw away some pumpkins, so I turned it into a challenge as to who could throw them the furthest into the bins..which led to all of us getting covered in splatted pumpkin
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maira
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posted January 07, 2012 07:41 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I feel sorry that I am approaching 50.
Don't be, I meant it as a compliment. I really think that Cap people (girls included) get better with age, like fine wines. They seem to grow younger, if you have seen Benjamin Button you know what I'm talking about. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 07, 2012 07:42 PM
He was as cute as a button!How's that for fun n humor hmm?? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 07, 2012 07:44 PM
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Originally posted by maira:
fire signs value spontaneity first and foremost. It's a matter of personal taste, not an absolute truth.
And both yourself and mintgirl are correct. All spontaneity on my part is always strategized and immaculately planned  I'm just joking IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 07, 2012 07:45 PM
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Originally posted by maira:
Don't be, I meant it as a compliment. I really think that Cap people (girls included) get better with age, like fine wines. They seem to grow younger, if you have seen Benjamin Button you know what I'm talking about.
Yes I knowexactly what you mean. I'm starting to behave too much like a kid while folks my age are starting to look like grandparents. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 07, 2012 07:52 PM
I dunno. I mean the cap guys I've dated weren't that earthy, but still they had abit of reserve. Like they held back alittle. One of them was actually like really firey in behaviour (had aries moon, sag venus and rising), but still.. ALL had that properness too? Like they couldn't completely let loose and be crazy. I don't know. Just the impression I got. I have uranus exact on my MC and I like a guy that can surprise me =).IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted January 07, 2012 07:58 PM
I call them groupies and fans...lol. Kinda' makes me sick to a certain degree how forward women can be sometimes. I've attended events where I have seen women hit on my SO (luckily I am not the jealous type lol) and how forward and grabby they can be. I watched one woman grab his private parts, another one grab his butt and another grind on him while dancing. But yeah I know plenty of capricorn men and women tend to flock towards them but they don't ever have a clue. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 07, 2012 08:04 PM
^ Is your s/o in a band or sth? Wow how do you handle that? I'm not possessive as a person, but no way in hell would I allow my man to be groped by a chick lol.IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted January 07, 2012 08:23 PM
No band lol. He runs a nightclub. I don't like it either but these women don't care & it's not like he isn't trying to beat them off with a stick lol. Besides I get to go home with him so who's really the winner? Lol IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 07, 2012 09:04 PM
Hey I get that crap too, and I'm not even attractive or in any night club.  IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted January 07, 2012 09:30 PM
He's not movie star good looking but handsome in ways but he's like a magnet....lol. it's like they see his ability & his potential and are drawn. I think its funny because I don't see anything extraordinary. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted January 07, 2012 09:49 PM
I don't think there's anything lucky in failing to pursue someone you love, nor do I think there is a pattern for Capricorn men here. I would look at the Mars sign, not the Sun Sign. Cardinal Mars men are very likely to pursue because they want to pursue and because enjoy it. Mutable Mars men seldom know exactly what they want so they would prefer a woman who is decisive. Fixed Mars men are on a different playing field all together. They slowly move things along into a relationship.
Usually there's no chasing involved if both people have a fixed Mars. They will simply get to know each other and at one point decide that it is best (for whatever reason) for them to be together. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted January 07, 2012 11:46 PM
If a Cappie likes you, he will pursue you.
I know it first-hand.
Do they have women flock around them? Usually yes. But so do Pisces men for example. But it doesn't mean that they attract what they want without effort. Like YoursTruly said, they may attract the wrong women.
In my experience, Cappies are picky and once they pick someone they are faithful to them. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted January 07, 2012 11:51 PM
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Originally posted by starfox:
Hey, I (capricorn) love fun!
At my work we had to throw away some pumpkins, so I turned it into a challenge as to who could throw them the furthest into the bins..which led to all of us getting covered in splatted pumpkin
Yeah but it turned into a challenge, no?  Do you have a lot of fire in your chart, starfox?
I've Mars in my 1st and I seem to be competitive without even trying.
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hannaramaa
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posted January 08, 2012 12:11 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Cap men can be kinda stiff at times. Not as carefree as Gemini guy or Aries. Even when they have alot of fire in their chart. I should know, I seem to meet alot of caps for some reason. Dated 3 caps seriously. All of them had fire or air chart, not just earth.
As an Aries/Gemini combo with Taurus spreckled in (spreckled?) I completely agree. They are very stiff and seem uncomfortable a LOT of the time. Even in their own skin. I'm not judging them for it... the challenge of getting them to loosen up is kinda hot. You can see it in their eyes they want to but are afraid. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 08, 2012 12:23 AM
What about Capricorn man with moon and venus in Scorpio and Mars in Pisces? Surely that water would override the stodgy Cap in him, no? When I read that I imagined someone who would be good at being a sniper or something, but over time read things to make me think the Scorpio in him is probably like walking around with a flesh wound and every little thing stings and makes him emotional, even if he's a Cap.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted January 08, 2012 03:47 AM
Personally, I don't see what's wrong with a person being reserved and not going crazy.I can understand people wanting to have fun, but in all honesty, "bad" boys are a horrible investment when it comes to your heart, and especially if you marry them/have a domestic partnership. It's highly unlikely to pay any kind of dividends or produce good returns (in the form of a happy, healthy, and secure relationship). Wild people are fun and exciting, but they aren't the type to stick around when you really need them, to see you through rough times, to be trusted--they're unreliable and unpredictable. You can't really count on them. A guy who maybe isn't spontaneous and wild but who is stable, loyal, caring, connects with you, respects you, is there for you, faithful, intelligent, understanding, sensitive (in the sense of being thoughtful/considerate and being able to grasp deep feelings or thoughts, not in the sense of being emo), hard-working, etc. is a much better bet. "Nice" guys are just as bad as "bad" boys, but a guy who is a happy medium between the two (kind but not a pushover, interesting but not unreliable) is a good catch. I also think that someone reserved who learns to let go (just a little bit--to the point of being more balanced, not becoming something that he or she is not) is just beautiful to watch. It's a true joy to watch those people really blossom and come into their own. I have Mars and Neptune in Capricorn in the 2nd. I haven't really studied my Neptune a lot, but I am SO grateful for my Mars. I love the caution and planning ahead that it gives me. I also love how it helps me keep my emotions in-check at work and other situations in which I absolutely cannot lose it. My Mars gives me a lot of self-control and gives me a good ability to think through consequences most of the time, which I like. I'm an air Sun and Mercury, prone to overthinking, indecisiveness, and anxiety, and this grounds me. Plus, Capricorns have almost always treated me very well--there are very, very few whom I know and do not like. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted January 08, 2012 03:51 AM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
If a Cappie likes you, he will pursue you.
I know it first-hand.
Do they have women flock around them? Usually yes. But so do Pisces men for example. But it doesn't mean that they attract what they want without effort. Like YoursTruly said, they may attract the wrong women.
In my experience, Cappies are picky and once they pick someone they are faithful to them.
I'm a Libra and creepy people hit on me all of the time--like really disgusting perverts. And I don't do anything to encourage that; it happens even when wearing pants and a long coat that completely covers me. So yeah, I might attract a lot of people, but they are BAD and filthy; they have bad intentions and are trying to harm me. Not fun. I wouldn't want to be considered ugly, but men (and even some women) SERIOUSLY need to learn some manners and have some respect! /end soapbox
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RegardesPlatero
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posted January 08, 2012 03:52 AM
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Originally posted by starfox:
Hey, I (capricorn) love fun!
At my work we had to throw away some pumpkins, so I turned it into a challenge as to who could throw them the furthest into the bins..which led to all of us getting covered in splatted pumpkin
that sounds awesome! well, if you had like smocks or something...we Libras love our pretty clothes ;-) but then again, there is always dry cleaning or the washing machine too  IP: Logged |
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