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Topic: Check out this love horary - significators in each others' houses
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 09, 2012 10:24 PM
  
"Is asomeone my soulmate?"This is another guy, it's not the same guy from the other horary question. I thought this horary was really interesting, and I added my own interpretation. 
Woah! This chart is crazy with the sun and mercury (both his significators) in the 1st house (my house) and the moon in the 7th house (his house) (means I am in love with him)
I had a heart attack when I saw this! Haha.
But then I noticed sun and moon were in opposition, moon was square saturn, no aspect between mercury (him) and moon though mercury and jupiter were indeed trine. Yet, mercury is in fall with jupiter, and jupiter is in triplicity with mercury. On top of that, he is in my house but not my sign, so mercury and sun (him) are both in detriment to the moon, and the moon is not even in any reception with them (so I don’t even care much for him any more—-dont notice him).
Now let’s take a look at our sexual attraction. My venus and his sun and mercury are in mutual triplicity. So we are both sexually attracted to the other.
Ok so it seems he is physically attracted to me, but does not feel affinity with me at all besides that. Why then are both his significators in my house, though? I suppose it means he is interested but something holds him back..like being turned off or not liking me Enough to pursue me.
The answer is definitely that he is NOT my soul mate, though, with moon square saturn.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 11, 2012 01:52 AM
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Got Gemini??
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posted January 11, 2012 05:15 PM
They say a chart is unreadable when the ASC is past 27 degrees. It supposedly means it has already passed. However, lots of people still read them anyway. Im not that good at horary but it looks like your significators are in an applying trine which means a favorable outcome. You might wanna wait till someone else with more experience interprets this for you though. Dysfunctionalmistic is really good at this. ------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 11, 2012 11:09 PM
so you are Jupiter and he is mercury and Jupiter and mercury trine each other so I think this means that there is attraction and interest. HOwever, moon (cosignificator of you) opposes Sun (cosignificator of him) so even though there is attraction you can't be together for some reason, perhaps different social economic status or you are already attached to someone else (by that I mean emotionally unavailable) or he is not really wanting a relationship right now and is more into making money at the moment. Curious do you see him as someone who is hard working and can provide financial security for you?? IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 11, 2012 11:14 PM
Is this the virgo guy your parents don't like or approve of??the moon square saturn makes me think that perhaps it is, combined with sun opposite moon. Edit: Saturn in horary is older guy, father, or authority figure. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 11, 2012 11:19 PM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
They say a chart is unreadable when the ASC is past 27 degrees. It supposedly means it has already passed. However, lots of people still read them anyway. Im not that good at horary but it looks like your significators are in an applying trine which means a favorable outcome. You might wanna wait till someone else with more experience interprets this for you though. Dysfunctionalmistic is really good at this.
It could also mean she already knows the answer or she is holding on to something that already passed like you are saying.
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amowls**
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posted January 11, 2012 11:25 PM
Everything about this points to a past love connection, not a current one (28 degrees ASC, Sun/Moon in separating opposition, Mercury/Jupiter in separating trine).IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 12:04 AM
Amowls,what do you mean by separating trine??? the trine is not out of sign so I am thinking you mean something else. ?????  IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 12:26 AM
OH I think you mean that both aspects are moving away from each other instead of on their way to becoming a tighter orb and that combined with the ascendent been at late degrees hints that is something ending or that already ended. Edit:
Oh!!!! the negative orb means is separating! Learned something new today and important. IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted January 12, 2012 12:52 AM
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 12, 2012 02:05 AM
Wow! How the EFF do u guys know all these things?! Omg! My mind has been blown. Yes yes yes. This is a guy from my past who I no longer talk to or see often at all. He is part of my "family" but id not related to me by blood. His family and mine are just close friends. I know him since I was born and we would see each other frequently in family get togethers up until two years ago. Basically, I liked him since I was five years old, and I remember that he would flirt with me since I was little. For example, making seemingly "innocent" comments about my butt, or saying I would have a lot of boyfriends when I was older, or just flirting in other numerous ways. I remember once I was pretending to be asleep on his living room couch and he kissed me on the forehead. There is a considerable age difference . He was born in 83 and I in 89, as someone said, and yes this is definitely something from my past I am holding on to that I already know the answer to. But always he would flirt with me, and then when he was engaged, I noticed his flirting increased and he seemed extremely nervous around me and wouldn't stop looking at me from waaay across the table at dinner etc etc. Even ignoring his fiancee around me and being quiet and nervous, and she noticed it and said "Why are you ignoring me?" Right after he got married at the wedding I remember he looked right at me from far away and stayed staring. I was very emotional in reaction to that and felt confused and bewildered as to why he would be acting this way. Well, it ended up happening that a few days after he got married i told him how i felt. We saw each other as cousins and there was an age difference so I figured maybe he felt awkward telling me anything bc it might come out in our family and he might be seen as a pervert or something. He was very rude on the phone at first, telling me to "Just get over it." then he was sweet right away and said "I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings." He said he didnt feel the same way. He still flirts with me to this day. He does things like give me looks, bend down provocatively in front of me (i know it sounds so stupid, but i know he is doing it on purpose), stand really close to me for no reason when we're waiting for, say, somebody to clear the doorway so we can walk through, and recently he just randomly came up to me and rubbed his butt "playfully" like he was dancing against my hip. That freaking jerk. I am actually glad I am not seeing him often anymore. But i was trying to figure out whether he was being a jerk or whether there were actual feelings there. I will say the chemistry between us is crazy. We will have each other laughing constantly in under 20 seconds. Plus, we have venus conjunct mars in synastry along with venus conjunct venus, venus trine uranus, mutual moon trine netpune and pluto, sun conjunct jupiter, moon sextile moon, sun sextile moon, and a bunch of other nice aspects. Our composite chart is also really nice, and i think the only negative aspect we have in both is venus square pluto. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 12, 2012 02:14 AM
I have lost interest in him after all this time. And i am not even sure if i would get with him knowing that he is being such a sneaky jerk. Thankfully, i quickly got over him after he told me he didnt feel the same way. But, I guess i just wanted some explanation that shows he is not a complete and total dickwad, and was just doing everything to mess with my head, because I will probably see him again soon, and will have to deal with him often in the future, and every time I do I dread it a lot. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 12, 2012 07:13 PM
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Got Gemini??
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posted January 12, 2012 07:33 PM
Oh yeah, amowls is correct, your significators ARE separating. This means it has already past.------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 07:37 PM
My feeling was that there was attraction between the two but there was an obstacle and that you already knew the answer and he was more from the past. Obstacle is that he is married, he is more from the past bc you have known him your whole life and stopped really seen him regularly about two years ago and you did know the answer...you know there is attraction and you know you can't be together bc he is married. I think what you want to know is why he never acted on the attraction.My best friend from childhood juno conjuncts my SN and I think we already took care of our karma and were married in a past life. When we were kids we would play pretend we were married and he was my first kiss during this play pretend game (all slimy kiss LOL). I use to say we would get married when we grew up. But we are just friends and been anything more doesn't feel right even though we have great energy interaction and feel really good together we already went down that road I feel and took care of what needed to be taken cared of so what is left is pure unconditional love in the form of friendship. I am thinking you and this guy already were down that road and is why you know him since small and have this connection you can't put your finger on. Now I dont know if you still have karma to resolve with him or not..it sounds like maybe you do but is not meant to be romantically speaking bt the two of you in this life bc he is married and horary backs this up. Maybe 10 years from now things will change. I think maybe you hurt him in a past life hence the resistance he has to act in the attraction when was single...something keeps him away. There is karma to work out but if he is married I assure you the karma he has with his wife is stronger so maybe once he is done working that out perhaps even in this life you will get to work out the karma you have with him. Personally I would try to work out that friction between the two of you as friends through unconditionally loving him as a friend. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 07:43 PM
and why is he jerk? he is flirt but not a jerk. He hasn't cheated on his wife or asked you out on a date and stood you up. Or declared he loved you and then acted like he never said it. All he has done based on what you say is flirt which can be fun but I get it that it makes you feel let on...well now you know he is a flirt so just flirt for fun OR dont flirt back and just treat him like a friend.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 12, 2012 08:09 PM
But he flirts with other women while he's married? Sure there are worse things but that is still jerkish behavior. Once he touches me i draw the line there. He rubbed his butt in a circular motion on my pelvis and of course that is jerkish behavior...But thank u for trying to help, amelia . I really appreciate it. I feel special, hehe. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
But he flirts with other women while he's married? Sure there are worse things but that is still jerkish behavior. Once he touches me i draw the line there. He rubbed his butt in a circular motion on my pelvis and of course that is jerkish behavior...But thank u for trying to help, amelia . I really appreciate it. I feel special, hehe.
Awwwwwwwwwwww.. Always! You have a point about the flirting going to a touching level involving the pelvis...that is pretty sexual. El es caliente! probablemente infiel a su mujer basado en tomar el flirting tan lejos. I imagine his wife knows what she has though and decided to still marry him bc he sounds like he is not good at been sneaky about his flirting. Him staring at you is not discreet you know and the pelvis thing is pretty aggressive so she must know what she has I think. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 12, 2012 08:35 PM
Yeah, it was the pelvis, hip area. And he has touched me on the waist before. I'm not saying he secually harrasses me. He plays it off very well and does it so it doesnt feel so invasive...like one time he bumped into me and he put his hand on my hip and was like oh are u okay. So it aleays looks like either he is just being playful and friendly like the pelvis thing, or accidental like he didnt mean to, like the hip touching.I'm not sure if his wife is aware. I think he is really good about doing it when she is not around.. :/ IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 08:40 PM
Caliente! Tremendo! LMAO...IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 12, 2012 08:45 PM
LOL! Joo crazy child. I speak spanish, and you're basically saying he's really hothaha. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 09:04 PM
LMAO......not hot in the sense that he is good looking. I dont know how he looks like but I figured you are cuban so would know what I mean by Tremendo and Caliente! Its hard to translate those two words. I guess mischievous, flirty, sexual and likes to start stuff perhaps he shouldn't is the closest I can get to translating those two concepts.Do you know Spanish well or just a little? I just assumed Spanish was your first language, sorry. Edit to add: When I say caliente I don't mean HOT, I mean more like Candela (Fire). So I am saying he is very fiery and tremendo is like saying he is mischievous. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 12, 2012 11:00 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
LMAO......not hot in the sense that he is good looking. I dont know how he looks like but I figured you are cuban so would know what I mean by Tremendo and Caliente! Its hard to translate those two words. I guess mischievous, flirty, sexual and likes to start stuff perhaps he shouldn't is the closest I can get to translating those two concepts.Do you know Spanish well or just a little? I just assumed Spanish was your first language, sorry. Edit to add: When I say caliente I don't mean HOT, I mean more like Candela (Fire). So I am saying he is very fiery and tremendo is like saying he is mischievous.
lolol no worries, i got your joke before! No need to explain. It made me LOL The right way to say it is "Tremendo fresco! Candela!" lmao...that is how cubans talk! how'd you know? haha...too funny i'm sorry IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 13, 2012 04:28 PM
El chico eseee es tremendo cubanassssoooo! Candelaaa! LOL hahahahhabc I lived in Miami for 16 years and dated a Cuban, the ex I keep talking about, for about a year. IP: Logged |
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