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Topic: Mind games.
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Libreo
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From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 10, 2012 10:55 PM
  
Apart from the obvious (IMO Cancer!) which sign do you think likes to play mind games, reverse psychology and hard to get and stuff like that? Who likes to manipulate and who is really good at it?IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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From: So. Cal
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 10, 2012 10:57 PM
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BeholdAstarte
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From: las vegas, nevada, USA
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posted January 10, 2012 11:01 PM
well, libra and scorpio are known for it. just through personal experience with children.. haha (im around them all day) libra children can be veryy persuasive when they want something, a strong scorpio child i know is very keen to manipulation and mind games. ive noticed it with aquarius as well. some sag kids can be pretty strong willed when they want something too thats just through hanging out with little kids though haha but i feel like its a really perfect age to express the negative aspects of a sign IP: Logged |
SensibleHeart
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posted January 10, 2012 11:03 PM
scorpio is known for manipulation. capricorn plays hardball if they aren't sure about you. libra is an indecisive mess at times. pisces is a slippery fish. and virgo wants you to think they're a prude but they're nitty gritty when they care nothing of what you think.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 10, 2012 11:05 PM
The person I suspicious about (of playing mind games) is Scorpio Sun, Aqua Moon, Sag Venus and Aries Mars, oh and Scorpio Mercury. I admit I'm doing it too tho....I'm Libra Sun, Leo Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Sag Venus and Taurus Mars. Who does it better out of the 2 of us?IP: Logged |
SensibleHeart
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posted January 10, 2012 11:09 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
The person I suspicious about (of playing mind games) is Scorpio Sun, Aqua Moon, Sag Venus and Aries Mars, oh and Scorpio Mercury. I admit I'm doing it too tho....I'm Libra Sun, Leo Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Sag Venus and Taurus Mars. Who does it better out of the 2 of us?
was just posting on another thread that if i picked a new sun/moon for myself it would be scorp/aqua. this other person definitely has you beat. looks much more plutonian. is probably exceedingly secretive and emotionally passionate, yet unavailable because of the squared luminaries... hehehe IP: Logged |
Libreo
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From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 10, 2012 11:15 PM
Ok I'll come clean, this guy used to have a big crush on me, like 20 years ago. But I ran away from him. Wer'e now back in touch again and I regret running, I like him so much! We have had 'the night' where we stayed up all night talking and talking, and I stupidly over emphasised how much I hate it when a guy chases me (Sag Venus, I actually do hate it) I made such a big point out of it, how it's a turn off etc, I don't know what I was thinking telling him this, but we were having this deep conversation and so my mouth just went into overdrive. Ever since this amazing night together, (which also became physically intimate)he's really withdrawn. I'm doing my head in trying to figure out if he's withdrawing because he knows I don't want to be chased and is using reverse psychology on me, or if it was just a great night and 'see you later'? I'd give anything to have him pursue me the way he did all those years ago.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 10, 2012 11:20 PM
I'm also 'pretending' that I'm all cool with it and that 'yeah it was a great night but I'm happily single and not looking for anything' which is BS!!!! But in actual fact I can't stop thinking about him.IP: Logged |
SensibleHeart
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posted January 10, 2012 11:21 PM
heres some food for thought that is purely based upon my intuition and what i just said about this persons astrological passion versus their unwillingness to share it:perhaps its safe to say that this person would withdrawal when they felt like their emotions have been exposed. I feel like this person is very controlled and has a hard time rationalizing what they feel. Therefore, in your position, with that big, boldly beautiful (sometimes oddly blunt and tactless  ...) sag venus, need to the be one who makes it exceedingly clear that you want this person to chase and want you. IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 413
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 10, 2012 11:21 PM
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Originally posted by SensibleHeart:
heres some food for thought that is purely based upon my intuition and what i just said about this persons astrological passion versus their unwillingness to share it:perhaps its safe to say that this person would withdrawal when they felt like their emotions have been exposed. I feel like this person is very controlled and has a hard time rationalizing what they feel. Therefore, in your position, with that big, boldly beautiful (sometimes oddly blunt and tactless ...) sag venus, need to the be one who makes it exceedingly clear that you want this person to chase and want you.
He has Venus in Sag too! And I might add, he's the only other person Iv'e ever met who also has it. IP: Logged |
tautomer4314
Knowflake Posts: 169
From: Oregon
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 10, 2012 11:23 PM
I'm exceedingly good at mind games. Much more so then I could ever allow myself to use. ------------------
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RedScorp
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From: Ontario, Canada!
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 01:44 AM
Libra and Scorpio! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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From: USA
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posted January 11, 2012 01:45 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Libra and Scorpio!
Yes.... IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 11, 2012 01:45 AM
Scorpio, Pisces (so all water signs) and Gemini.Everyone else prefer alittle more of a straight forward approach. I got a libra stellium and I don't do mind games. Total waste of time. I mean I don't even get why people do it (I know, for control etc) but I find it pointless, petty and immature. Especially if somebody does stuff and says stuff to 'test' your reaction. I mean I'm sure everybody does this occasionally, but some people do it way too much! And that is partially why I stay away from water sign guys. Too much hassle. I prefer somebody more forthright. IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 413
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 01:47 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Libra and Scorpio!
So this could go on for a while then?IP: Logged |
tautomer4314
Knowflake Posts: 169
From: Oregon
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 01:48 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yes....
Heh yep. Libra ascendent: check
Scorpio moon (conjunct pluto): check
8th house stellium of gemini planets: check
fill in the blanks  .
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Betty Boop
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posted January 11, 2012 01:49 AM
Sometimes Pisces-influenced guys do this..... ^ They make all other men seem very reasonable. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 847
From: Ontario, Canada!
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 03:53 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
So this could go on for a while then?
As far as you'll let it go on!  Also, I play mind games so much...manipulating people, omg. It's not to really hurt them (unless they's made me angry, then it's never permanent)... more to like, learn more about them. I often tell them "I'm going to test you now" or "Prepare to be manipulated" even! It sounds horrible, but I have 5 things in Scorpio in the Third. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 04:33 AM
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Originally posted by BeholdAstarte:
well, libra and scorpio are known for it. just through personal experience with children.. haha (im around them all day) libra children can be veryy persuasive when they want something, a strong scorpio child i know is very keen to manipulation and mind games. ive noticed it with aquarius as well. some sag kids can be pretty strong willed when they want something too thats just through hanging out with little kids though haha but i feel like its a really perfect age to express the negative aspects of a sign
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FireWire
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posted January 11, 2012 08:03 AM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Mutables
WHAT? LOL! I've never heard this before. IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted January 11, 2012 08:11 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Scorpio, Pisces (so all water signs) and Gemini.
Sadly, I might have to agree with this, esp. the water signs...I hate believing things based on sun signs alone though. It happens to be true with those I know. The types of games played and the motive behind it, seems to be very different. One can be about emotional manipulation, power, control, insecurity...etc. The other, an intellectual game and seeing how the mind works from an almost detached perspective. Just from my experiences. Effects are just about the same though. IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 413
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 11, 2012 08:41 PM
Well I (kind of.....actually not really) took the advice to do something, and sent a msg this morning, took me soooo much guts, sweaty palms, the works. I sent a msg that read "I'm coming back soon" (we live 3 hours away from eachother) he replied with one word only "nice". Wtf? Does he even give a ____?IP: Logged |
maira
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posted January 11, 2012 09:15 PM
Yeah he does, and he found your Achilles heel (the fact that you don't like to be chased). You revealed your cards, now it's time to manipulate him back... I was going to write "into submission" lol. Just undo what you did.
The better way would be to stop playing games,come clean and be really,horrifyingly vulnerable, but you seem nowhere near that point, so... IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
Knowflake Posts: 277
From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 12, 2012 08:02 AM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
Libra ascendent: check
Scorpio moon (conjunct pluto): check
8th house stellium of gemini planets: check
Lol.. interesting. Libra Ascendant : Check
Aquarius Moon : Check
Gemini Venus : Check
Cancer Mercury : Check
Libra Mars/Pluto in 1st house (Scopio influence with a touch of Aries Mars?!) : Check
I guess I'm very naughty with words..
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nordicsoul
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posted January 12, 2012 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Sometimes Pisces-influenced guys do this..... ^ They make all other men seem very reasonable.
LOL betty, i couldnt agree more IP: Logged |
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