posted January 11, 2012 03:56 AM            

first, RP u're great really one of the closest to my heart on LL

anjellyfish, im a libra sun but have scorpio in my moon, venus, and pluto. Everyone says scorpios are vengeful, un-forgiving, but they never stop to think why! scorpio, at least how i experience it, are all or nothing people. they're not the first to warm up, but when they do it's for good. they have a passive low expectation attitude towards emotional connections, thats why they seem distant, because once they step inside an "emotional connection" (any kind of relationship not necessary a romantic one) they poor it all in! intense, and over-powering but also very fragile thats in short a scorpio's heart, its not that they dont forgive, most of them do, but its not the same anymore, they cant forget because they cant help it.. if you lost their trust, alas its gone forever..

posted January 11, 2012 07:59 AM            

for me atleast it is very hard for me to forgive and forget...

usually i firgive for small insults cause people usually dont make them intentionally so it doesent hurt much

but there were one time when i had a person in my class who made fun of me.... i knew he was just kidding but the things he said reminded me of some past thing id rather not talk about....and it hurt me real bad

posted January 11, 2012 01:41 PM            

Then I know like two Scorpios, who even the slightest thing you do (I did actually wrong one of them...in the past I had been difficult to deal with and kindof emotionally unstable at the time and said some mean stuff, but not overly mean? It wasn't intentional, I was a kid at the time and had a lot of mental health issues, to put it that way) makes them cut ties with you and if you like...got cancer or died, they wouldn't care. One was vengeful. They weren't terribly evolved. The other, all I did was stick up for a best friend who he hates for whatever unknown reason.

posted January 11, 2012 02:40 PM              

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:

If you hurt a family member, friend, or other loved one of a Scorpio, it will be MUCH harder for them to forgive you than if you only hurt the Scorpio.

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posted January 11, 2012 02:48 PM              

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Originally posted by Anjellyfish:
I have some friends who are Scorpios who are really forgiving and just let stuff go and forget about it.

Then I know like two Scorpios, who even the slightest thing you do (I did actually wrong one of them...in the past I had been difficult to deal with and kindof emotionally unstable at the time and said some mean stuff, but not overly mean? It wasn't intentional, I was a kid at the time and had a lot of mental health issues, to put it that way) makes them cut ties with you and if you like...got cancer or died, they wouldn't care. One was vengeful. They weren't terribly evolved. The other, all I did was stick up for a best friend who he hates for whatever unknown reason.

I've seen people bring this up before, was curious what anyone's thoughts are on it. But I've also noticed this with other water signs, if they are unbalanced.

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I wonder if those with an abundance of Scorpio in their chart act like Libra or Sagittarius (their neighbors)? My Scorpio best friend is very loyal but she's also good at picking her battles. She attributes it to her crazy Leo brother whom she's been at war with since they were little.

Scorpio sun, Sagittarius moons have always been quick to cut me off. Being an Aries sun, Taurus moon I don't really understand cutting someone that you once enjoyed, off. Unless it's like RP's case in which personal safety and well being was involved, there's no reason you can't buck up and work out the kinks in the friendship. You can't just cut someone off whenever your mad or you'd have no friends left. You know? In any case, my best friend does not cut people off. Even people who are unhealthy for her. She will wait for the perfect opportunity (re: when she has the upper-hand with her facts) to argue. But she'll still stick by someone.

posted January 11, 2012 04:36 PM              

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Originally posted by Anjellyfish:
I'm an Aries with an Aries moon, so I don't get the cutting-off thing either...I can't comprehend why if you cared about someone, or had an emotional attachment, you could just become dead to them emotionally. Unless you felt like your safety around them as in danger (like...they're physically abusive or sexually harass you) like RP said. When someone does something that hurts me or I get mad...I just let it go, I get over it anyways in a few hours to a few days.
Said Scorpio friend who cut me off over really stupid stuff, has a sagittarius mercury and some other sagittarius placements, but has a Scorpio mars and in my experience, people with Scorpio mars are very unforgiving at times and don't even want to hear about the person. She cut me off to the extent (so stupid and trivial) that she doesn't want her closest friends to talk to me or have anything to do with me.
Anyways, I've seen Pisces do the same thing. Not Leos...Virgos and Capricorns depending on other placements if they can't get their way with a person.

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posted January 11, 2012 04:47 PM            

i know this is talked about a lot, but i really cant stress it enough

i have 3 scorpio placements, including my sun, and the minor things i can forgive, but if you break my trust with a HUGE thing, it would take forever for me to trust you again and possibly even longer for me to forgive you

i also believe (after a lot of observation) that the more planets you have in a sign the more pure the energy is

for example, a person with only one planet in scorpio will act more like your average scorpio would (or rather, what you might have read about the sign)

but a person with a packed sign acts more true to what the energy really is (i know leos who dont act "leoish") and i dont act like your typical scorpio

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted January 11, 2012 07:00 PM            

My biggest issue with forgiveness is when the other person can't admit they did something jerkish. If I say to you "Hey, it kind of sucked when you did X" and you come back with a bunch of weaselly excuses about why it wasn't SOOOO bad or how I'm making a big deal out of nothing, then I'm done with you.

On the other hand, if you come back with "Yeah, you're right, that was kind of crappy. I'll try not to do that again," then as far as I'm concerned the issue is closed and we're cool. I don't expect massive grovelling apologies, just show me that you get why there's a problem. I do my best to hold myself to these same standards.

posted January 12, 2012 02:58 AM            

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Originally posted by NickiG:
anjellyfish, it depends on what level their scorpio placements are

i know this is talked about a lot, but i really cant stress it enough

i have 3 scorpio placements, including my sun, and the minor things i can forgive, but if you break my trust with a HUGE thing, it would take forever for me to trust you again and possibly even longer for me to forgive you

i also believe (after a lot of observation) that the more planets you have in a sign the more pure the energy is

for example, a person with only one planet in scorpio will act more like your average scorpio would (or rather, what you might have read about the sign)

but a person with a packed sign acts more true to what the energy really is (i know leos who dont act "leoish") and i dont act like your typical scorpio

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posted January 12, 2012 03:06 AM            

I tend to like my opposite sign alot and find them sensitive, understanding, honest and of high character, though those examples are only the ones ive gotten to know well. I've heard horror stories and have also seen the bad side of some of them. I know there are some "dirty" ones out there too.

posted January 12, 2012 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by T:
Many of my besties have been Scorp girls or Scorp gay guys and they are always forgiving of others (never a need to forgive me for anything as i've done because I never 'cross them'). We just click and usually have a strong bond. I think when they love you enough, forgiveness comes easier, but if you are an aquaintence then it might not work out as well.

I tend to like my opposite sign alot and find them sensitive, understanding, honest and of high character, though those examples are only the ones ive gotten to know well. I've heard horror stories and have also seen the bad side of some of them. I know there are some "dirty" ones out there too.

But for the most part, I am very fond of them and the issue of forgiveness has never been....well...an issue...

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I get along with them too! Probably one of the easiest to get along with signs to get along with even though we are "opposite"
I also have strong pluto in my chart so that could be why.

posted January 12, 2012 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I think it depends on the extent of the situation. If it's betrayal then Scorpios, Virgos and Leos will never be able to bounce back from it. They would cut you off and no way would you be able to get them back.

Forgiveness can be granted, but that doesn't mean you'll be part of their lives ever again.

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Nice. Agree!