posted January 13, 2012 06:45 AM            

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Originally posted by FireWire:
I really liked this.

My NN is in Taurus, SN in Scorpio...depending on which system I use, it is either 8th/2nd house or 7th cusp/1st.

I find it to be challenging, but I'm finally learning to enjoy the process. I read somewhere that sometimes you find yourself around others who are 'more like' your NN node to and that subconsciously it really encourages you. But I agree you only get to one by really being present and working through the other.

But then again, to be fair, in vedic astrology, I'm a Scorpio--5 planets strong, lol. In any case, I am very much working through the SN, but I am finally to the point that I feel like I'm actually moving upward, but it just happens naturally, I think. Like last year, certain things just hit me. I found myself dealing with a situation and I said aloud:

"I cannot continue this. I cannot accept this. Something has to change."

And believe it or not, it started. Complicated situations, drama...etc, it all literally dissolved before my eyes.

As you focus on being the best you can be, growing and learning all you can about this experience, I feel it just happens. You get to that place where the evolution is just necessary, inevitable and unavoidable--life will take you there!

I found this link:
http://astrofix.net/2010/10/01/north-node-in-taurus-and-south-node-in-scorpio-by-house/

Good read!

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posted January 13, 2012 06:49 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What if you're a fast learner? Like you see how your SN-attitude isn't helping you get what you want already?

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posted January 13, 2012 07:24 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
That is the point. You do not get to your NN by denying your SN. It is not an "EITHER OR" relationship. Your SN actually IS helping you reach your NN. By being the best you can be in your SN, life is leading you to where you need to be. You cannot force the life lessons. Self-awareness is enough to accelerate the transition to your goal. So, by seeing that you had enough of your SN, your soul gets the "green light": "Ok, she's ready to now have her NN experiences". You don't have to DO anything special other than being self-aware of your SN patterns, be the best you can be in terms of your SN, and let life take over, without resistance, and lead you where you are supposed to be going (to your NN). Life is not black and white. You need BOTH nodes for your soul betterment. You just are extra gifted with the experience of the SN from prior lives and it's easier for you but in this life you WILL outgrow it. That's how it works.

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posted January 13, 2012 07:27 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
That is the point. You do not get to your NN by denying your SN. It is not an "EITHER OR" relationship. Your SN actually IS helping you reach your NN. By being the best you can be in your SN, life is leading you to where you need to be. You cannot force the life lessons. Self-awareness is enough to accelerate the transition to your goal. So, by seeing that you had enough of your SN, your soul gets the "green light": "Ok, she's ready to now have her NN experiences". You don't have to DO anything special other than being self-aware of your SN patterns, be the best you can be in terms of your SN, and let life take over, without resistance, and lead you where you are supposed to be going (to your NN). Life is not black and white. You need BOTH nodes for your soul betterment. You just are extra gifted with the experience of the SN from prior lives and it's easier for you but in this life you WILL outgrow it. That's how it works.

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Wow.. what you've written is amazing.. I did everything I could to step away from SN character, and to be honest it didnt feel great, that fact that you have to understand south node to reach north node, makes a lot more sense. Im doing more research on this now! Thank You!

posted January 13, 2012 07:40 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
That is the point. You do not get to your NN by denying your SN. It is not an "EITHER OR" relationship. Your SN actually IS helping you reach your NN. By being the best you can be in your SN, life is leading you to where you need to be. You cannot force the life lessons. Self-awareness is enough to accelerate the transition to your goal. So, by seeing that you had enough of your SN, your soul gets the "green light": "Ok, she's ready to now have her NN experiences". You don't have to DO anything special other than being self-aware of your SN patterns, be the best you can be in terms of your SN, and let life take over, without resistance, and lead you where you are supposed to be going (to your NN). Life is not black and white. You need BOTH nodes for your soul betterment. You just are extra gifted with the experience of the SN from prior lives and it's easier for you but in this life you WILL outgrow it. That's how it works.

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Absolutely spot on.

posted January 13, 2012 08:36 AM            

Excellent explanation, anongirl!

posted January 13, 2012 09:45 AM            

North Node Gemini 8th House/ South Node Sagittarius 2nd House

Letting go of overly idealistic values. Keeping your personal morals but becoming less self-righteous about them. Finding out what other people value by asking them. Becoming more curious about what other people hold dear. Becoming curious about other people’s “stuff.” Developing curiosity about what other people consider taboo and why. Becoming curious about sex. Staying alert to other people’s taboos. Developing curiosity about your own emotional baggage. Reading up on psychology. Allowing yourself to be curious about the occult. Learning to adapt to other people’s values and priorities. Becoming flexible in response to learning about other people’s emotional baggage. Moving away from moralistic attitudes. No longer holding onto knowledge as if it were a possession. Getting interested in the ways people transform in response to emotional crisis. Learning about death. Speaking to people from a point of deep interest. Developing a lighter approach to sex. Letting yourself be delighted by fleeting moments of deep intimacy and shared secrets.

posted January 13, 2012 11:20 AM            

Reach? I think mine's unreachable for me. I know it's about connecting with yourself, and trusting in "higher power", "universal order" and similar nebulous things.

I'm just too much down to earth to be pouring my energy into something ilogical and unproductive like that. I am however, 100% sure i'll be doing just that, since my life is full of ironic twists of fate.

posted January 13, 2012 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by sc0rpioRising:
Wow.. what you've written is amazing.. I did everything I could to step away from SN character, and to be honest it didnt feel great, that fact that you have to understand south node to reach north node, makes a lot more sense. Im doing more research on this now! Thank You!

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You are most welcome!

posted January 13, 2012 11:32 AM              

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Originally posted by HighFive:
NN Pisces 12th..

Reach? I think mine's unreachable for me. I know it's about connecting with yourself, and trusting in "higher power", "universal order" and similar nebulous things.

I'm just too much down to earth to be pouring my energy into something ilogical and unproductive like that. I am however, 100% sure i'll be doing just that, since my life is full of ironic twists of fate.

Here's an awesome page to check regarding NN's:
http://www.astrologykarmaandyou.com/supplement.htm

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