posted January 11, 2012 07:23 PM            

Are you guys strict with your lovers? Meaning, when they do something you don't like, you will impose "rules" on them?

Example from a Scorpio:

Coming back at 2AM on a Friday night, DESPITE the fact that your S.O. texted you and let you know where she was and who she was with. Although she was late, she texted you to let you know she was late.

Scorpio: 2AM???? That's too late!! Get back by midnight. If you come back after midnight, I will lock the doors on you. Also, you can't go out with XX. You can go out with AA and BB, but not XX.

What do you think, Scorps?

posted January 11, 2012 07:36 PM            

that is a sure fire way to loose your current SO

i'd rather keep a long leash on him, give him some freedom...only when he does something i REALLY dont like will i say something

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted January 11, 2012 07:40 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
That's not strict. That's being controlling. And Scorpios are terribly controlling at times.

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not all scorpios

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted January 11, 2012 07:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
Well, the SO was out drinking on a friday night with colleagues and XX so happens to be somebody whom you don't like b/c the last time XX was out with your SO he/she tried to make her/him drink too much.

I'm okay with it because afterall, it's somewhat being protective.

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i suppose thats acceptable

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted January 11, 2012 07:57 PM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
I'M NOT LIKE THAT, I'M KINDA THE OPPOSITE! :'D

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as he screams it in our faces...

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted January 11, 2012 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
I'M NOT LIKE THAT, I'M KINDA THE OPPOSITE! :'D

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posted January 12, 2012 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
Well, the SO was out drinking on a friday night with colleagues and XX so happens to be somebody whom you don't like b/c the last time XX was out with your SO he/she tried to make her/him drink too much.

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So, are we talking about a male colleague trying to get Scorpio guy's partner too drunk? Hoooo yeah, that's gonna make the average Scorpio see red.

However, taking it out on you and threatening to lock the doors or dictate who you can hang out with is over the line. It's a red flag... I think you've got to ask yourself, if you stay in this relationship for a long time, is he always going to deal with problems by slamming down some ultimatum against you?

I'm a Scorpio, and I wouldn't do that, simply because trying to control your partner like that is exhausting and usually doesn't work in the long run. I want to be a participant in my relationships, not a police officer. I feel like if I have to watch your every move, maybe you're not the kind of person I need to be in a relationship with. But some Scorpios don't have the maturity to take that kind of long view.