posted January 11, 2012 08:39 PM            

This is sort of an embarrassing topic for me, but I'm going to brave it anyway and jump in head first.... Cause my ASC is in Aries... And this is how we collect all those pretty scars on our face.

So the question is, what physical feature(s) can a person have (or appear to have), which overcomes any unattractiveness you may have perceived in them before? Or, which would result in you not being attracted if the feature did not exist?

My Venus is in Scorpio and I have two:

1. Tattoos - I have no clue why, but people with tattoos automatically get a pass for me. This --> http://images.coilhouse.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/skeletonguy1.jpg makes me weak in the knees LOL. Perhaps it is the idea of a tattoo's permanence, the fact that it is a wound which heals into art, or the fact that it is art penetrating the body. Whatever it is, my Scorpio Venus says "YES PLEASE". If I am interacting with someone who I have considered unattractive and I later discover they have tattoos, they all of the sudden become an attractive prospect for me.

2. (Here is the embarrassing one) Big "guy parts". I have no clue why, in fact, having a big hoojie isn't something I prefer when it comes down to making love. For some reason though, if I know or sense a guy is well equipped, I become a drooling idiot. Considering Scorpio rules the genitals, this one doesn't take much contemplation to figure out (the Mars in Leo being highly sexual on it's own doesn't help much either). If I know and love a guy I could care less what he is packin. Especially in my younger years though, if I was flirting with a guy and some how discovered his meat department was not well stocked, he would need a lot of swagger for me to not direct the convo into a friendship mood. If I am interacting with a guy who I consider not my type, but I suddenly find out he has "hidden gifts", he all of the sudden becomes an attractive prospect....Whatever, I'm a ho, don't judge me =D

posted January 11, 2012 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by maira:
LOL @ the "guy parts", that's so Scorpio of you! It does make sense though... from a psychological point of view, big boys are less likely to be insecure.

My ""win/lose" button has nothing to do with my Aries Venus - which is really picky in itself since it rules a Libra ascendant, and everything with my unaspected Moon in Taurus. The smell overrides anything. I have fallen in love with how someone smelled and rejected lots based on this and this alone.

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Smell is a good one, what is your Mars in?

posted January 11, 2012 09:01 PM            

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Originally posted by maira:
P.s.: I just looked at the photo you posted.
God, you would have loved my ex husband, the Scorpio ascendant He ran out of places on his arms and is considering moving up to his torso. And I won't comment on the "parts" thing, but, yeah, you would have loved him

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posted January 11, 2012 09:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
Smell is a good one, what is your Mars in?

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posted January 11, 2012 09:13 PM            

Not even necessarily a deep voice (although it's hard to go wrong with a rich velvety baritone) but one that is pleasant to the ear, unique and conveys some personality. My Venus is also in the third house and my chart ruler is Mercury, so communication is key.

posted January 11, 2012 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by maira:
...and completely off topic, do you have a Virgo Mercury? Or is it very well aspected?

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Mercury in Capricorn
Moon and Saturn in Virgo though

posted January 11, 2012 09:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Malena:
Interesting. I'm also a Scorpio Venus. For me, it's if a man has a sexy voice.

Not even necessarily a deep voice (although it's hard to go wrong with a rich velvety baritone) but one that is pleasant to the ear, unique and conveys some personality. My Venus is also in the third house and my chart ruler is Mercury, so communication is key.

There are also some men where the attraction has just DIED the minute they opened their mouth. If their voices sound dumb or whiny, I'm outta there.

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posted January 11, 2012 11:31 PM            

Nice smiles can make anyone look appealing, and mischievous eyes are sexy <3

Voice is important too. It's a major turn off if somebody has a squeaky voice. =X

posted January 11, 2012 11:52 PM              

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2. (Here is the embarrassing one) Big "guy parts". I have no clue why, in fact, having a big hoojie isn't something I prefer when it comes down to making love. For some reason though, if I know or sense a guy is well equipped, I become a drooling idiot. Considering Scorpio rules the genitals, this one doesn't take much contemplation to figure out (the Mars in Leo being highly sexual on it's own doesn't help much either). If I know and love a guy I could care less what he is packin. Especially in my younger years though, if I was flirting with a guy and some how discovered his meat department was not well stocked, he would need a lot of swagger for me to not direct the convo into a friendship mood. If I am interacting with a guy who I consider not my type, but I suddenly find out he has "hidden gifts", he all of the sudden becomes an attractive prospect....Whatever, I'm a ho, don't judge me =D

So what about you? What are your aesthetic "I Win Buttons" and how do they apply to your Venus?

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posted January 12, 2012 12:04 AM            

I've long since come to the conclusion, body type, height, ear size, nose size and feet size mean nothing!

posted January 12, 2012 12:08 AM              

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ how?? Lol

I've long since come to the conclusion, body type, height, ear size, nose size and feet size mean nothing!

How can you tell? Lol

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posted January 12, 2012 01:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:

Sorry, not appropriate to post on a public message board.

Maybe astrology can pinpoint it though :P

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posted January 12, 2012 01:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
You were never able to find an astrological correlation?

Well even if you did, I suppose it shouldn't get posted here....apparently it offends a certain "member"

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I haven't found a general astrological rule, though apparently the position of Priapus is supposed to be an indicator.

posted October 16, 2013 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
For those who are not aware of the term, an "I Win Button" is an ability or factor which overthrows all opposition. In the case of Venus, an aesthetic "I Win Button" is something which we find beautiful or attractive regardless of other reservations.

This is sort of an embarrassing topic for me, but I'm going to brave it anyway and jump in head first.... Cause my ASC is in Aries... And this is how we collect all those pretty scars on our face.

So the question is, what physical feature(s) can a person have (or appear to have), which overcomes any unattractiveness you may have perceived in them before? Or, which would result in you not being attracted if the feature did not exist?

My Venus is in Scorpio and I have two:

1. Tattoos - I have no clue why, but people with tattoos automatically get a pass for me. This --> http://images.coilhouse.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/skeletonguy1.jpg makes me weak in the knees LOL. Perhaps it is the idea of a tattoo's permanence, the fact that it is a wound which heals into art, or the fact that it is art penetrating the body. Whatever it is, my Scorpio Venus says "YES PLEASE". If I am interacting with someone who I have considered unattractive and I later discover they have tattoos, they all of the sudden become an attractive prospect for me.

2. (Here is the embarrassing one) Big "guy parts". I have no clue why, in fact, having a big hoojie isn't something I prefer when it comes down to making love. For some reason though, if I know or sense a guy is well equipped, I become a drooling idiot. Considering Scorpio rules the genitals, this one doesn't take much contemplation to figure out (the Mars in Leo being highly sexual on it's own doesn't help much either). If I know and love a guy I could care less what he is packin. Especially in my younger years though, if I was flirting with a guy and some how discovered his meat department was not well stocked, he would need a lot of swagger for me to not direct the convo into a friendship mood. If I am interacting with a guy who I consider not my type, but I suddenly find out he has "hidden gifts", he all of the sudden becomes an attractive prospect....Whatever, I'm a ho, don't judge me =D

So what about you? What are your aesthetic "I Win Buttons" and how do they apply to your Venus?

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You have the same aspects as me? When you were born?!

I completely understand you. Besides what you mentioned though, I'm really into "bad boys" kind of guys. It's not the outward appearance as much as the idea that I want a man who doesn't feel intimidated by me. A man who can stand up to my intensity.