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Topic: Pluto wants Control
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Lioness
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posted January 11, 2012 11:06 PM
  
Here's a simi update with fishy... Well we are still NOT there.. We talk everyday for hours... We have both said what we want, and have both said that we want to try...
Big step... in baby shoes... Im not sure what the heck we are doing... I just dont think its going to happen....
He keeps coming at me with "his terms" it has to be THIS WAY!!
and well Im a Leo, so it just doesnt work for me.. It needs to be under my terms... LOL So we are stuck on the "terms"... I told him look lets just drop it, and just go with the flow and see what happens (my pisces self thinking it would work with a pisces) He said NOPE it will happen when you agree with me... I said no.... I cant do that... I told him bend for me and THEN I will bend for you... He said nope bend for me and then we can start this...
But my leo is very stubborn and its really important to me, that he bends somewhat on good faith for just this one little thing.. But he wont.. He wont budge and neither will I.. But dont get me wrong, we are not "fighting" or arguing about it... Its turned into a competition now. (MARS OPPS MARS!!! )
idk WHAT.. but we are now trying to entice the other with well (s. advances) yes its both of us...
Now its a competition on who will break first and give in... But weeks later, still no break from either of us.. All we are doing is torturing each other... But oddly we like it... Its been fun, but frustrating at the same time.
But still no bending from either of us...
Everyday we keep talking and trying to convince the other to bend. In the mean time nothing is going on, besides trying to get the other to bend.
Im thinking this is Pluto with both of us.. I swear the sexual tension between us is off the hook... Im afraid we gonna end up on the floor in the breakroom.. Meanwhile, with all that going on, at the same time, we talk to each other and compliment. And its been so intense and so deep... I cant even put it into words...
Today I told him, Im feeling over whelmed and that he needs to loosen up on me.. That Im feeling the need to run.. but Im stuck...
He calmed me down, he said.. just relax when the time is right, it will just all fall together.... I felt a million times better..
So I didnt run..
Then he threw in, once you agree.. LOL...
So we are both very stubborn and not bending AT all....
sighhhh... This is why you dont want to meet a soulmate! If this would have been any one else.. I would have so been outta there, trying to give me terms.... IDK what he's thinking...
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NickiG
Moderator Posts: 5234
From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 11:15 PM
your posts are always too big!!!! LOL------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted January 11, 2012 11:21 PM
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Originally posted by NickiG:
your posts are always too big!!!! LOL
Lol. Lioness...idk, this all seems so dramatic and the two of you seem to be going round and round. I understand the soulmate aspect of it, as 'most' of my relationships are very intense soulmate relationships. But that doesn't mean the relationship will be complete this lifetime. Just learn what you can from the bond, from the experience, but don't let it drive you nuts. There seems to be a lot of push and pull without enough give, or it is very transitory. Certainly don't let it blind you to other more fulfilling romantic opportunities that might be waiting just around the corner for you! And also, when you are in intense involvements like this, it is hard to imagine that another one equally as intense and enchanting exists. That is only true if you allow it to be so or if you believe it to be so. I've thought that before, and found myself years later in scenarios and situation that were much more enjoyable. They weren't perfect, but I was happy, and not so much trying to be happy, if that makes sense. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 11, 2012 11:27 PM
dramatic?? firewire, lioness is a leo!!! drama enconces her------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 11, 2012 11:29 PM
Yeah but there always comes a point where drama becomes tedious. >.< I agree with Firewire.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 11, 2012 11:49 PM
HAHA Nikki.. Hey I said that all in one breath. I dont really consider this drama..
Its kind of fun...
Maybe its the competition thing.. IDK.. @firewire, yes there is alot of push and pull... But IDK I guess its just the way the cards are falling....
Today I was really feeling the hey Im otta here... But he stepped in and said.. Its all ok... just go with it...
Yeah its kind of frustrating but at the same time,its just so exciting...
Im not sure how to put it all into words... Alot of things going on at once.. Im trying to separate it all in my head..
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NickiG
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From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann
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posted January 11, 2012 11:51 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
HAHA Nikki.. Hey I said that all in one breath.
lol, i just mean that, considering my gem asc, i couldnt pay attention ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 1834
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 12, 2012 02:41 AM
Just really curious, what are his terms??IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted January 12, 2012 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Just really curious, what are his terms??
I'm really curious also! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 12, 2012 09:21 PM
LOL.. You two... Sorry I was just now able to get on.Ok I will try to explain... See my dear fishy is a rule guy.. He has his rules about everything... Which for the most part is fine.. Its really not that big of a deal.. Like I cant go into his house with shoes on.. Ok Thats acceptable and I respect that. Not a problem. He hasnt said anything specific like you "have to do this or that" he just keeps talking to me like he wants some sort of mutual agreement of how the relationship will go.
Im telling him why even have an agreement, you want to be with me, then just be with me... Why work out details by details before.. Just take one day at a time...
When a problem comes up, then we will discuss it then and work it out...
He wants to work out ALL possible issues, and then stick with it from day one..
I cant do that, its one thing saying something, but another when the situation actually comes up.. So in the mean time, we are mentally torturing each other, with what could be, if only "you" agree... But at the same time, I love love love the challenge.. Its keeping me alert,and giving me something to fight for. But its sort of fun, at the same time.. The anticipation is enormous. But Astrologically it makes sense the differences..
His Cap venus verses my Can venus. He told me today.. Im trying so hard to not think about you, but I cant stop...
(ahhhh  ) sweet flattery! hehehehe I WILL break him!!!! He's dying... IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted January 12, 2012 09:54 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I WILL break him!!!! He's dying...
Or is he breaking you, lol--as I see it, this is going both ways. I bet both of you think you are wearing the other down--and you actually are. This is like a great film. You both have each other were you want (you think), which is where neither of you really wants to be--because you both want to be with each other. I think I get it, right? LOL! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 12, 2012 10:04 PM
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Originally posted by FireWire:
Or is he breaking you, lol--as I see it, this is going both ways. I bet both of you think you are wearing the other down--and you actually are.This is like a great film. You both have each other were you want (you think), which is where neither of you really wants to be--because you both want to be with each other. I think I get it, right? LOL!
LOL.. Yeah I think you get it now!!!!
I think both of our pisces, likes the "story" behind it all... Hell I know I do.Deep down, we are both frustrated but we just LIKE it...
We are playing games with each other, but not in a bad way... Neither of us are getting mad at the other..
Its just we both want it our own way... I WILL break him.... Im almost there!! He's about to loose it.. and bend for me...
So I think right!!!! Im loving it.... every single minute of it. Since we have a lot of pluto going on, its like an obsession with both of us to get the other to bend... Who will win the battle!!!! The ultimate question!
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