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Topic: Your Venus conjunct Chiron experiences
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seeker3030
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From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 12, 2012 04:41 AM
  
Hi all 
Just wondering if anyone would mind posting their experiences of this synastry aspect and telling me how the relationship panned out?I have this with someone and initial astrological thoughts seem to be that it's a very difficult aspect for relationships. The experience so far (it's very very early days however) is one of intense healing as you'd expect with a Chiron linkage. We've also got some other nice aspects such as Moon conj Asc, Sun trine Moon and Sun, Venus trine Mars and Juno conj NN (not exactly sure what that might bring but seems like a positive rather than a negative.) There's a spicy but potentially volatile Asc conj Mars too so there are quite a few balls to juggle!  Time will tell. But what I'm most interested in is the Venus/Chiron conjunction so any experiences would be fascinating to hear. Thank you IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: maryville,tn,usa
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 12, 2012 08:55 AM
i saw on one website that venus conjunct chiron is the cinderella aspect,basically true love and soulmates and all that other good stuffIP: Logged |
seeker3030
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From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 12, 2012 10:16 AM
That sounds like Magi astrology which I've also read about but it's different to what I've been told by more 'mainstream' astrologers so I just thought I'd ask for 'real life' experiences so that I can get a clearer picture of what to expect. Thanks for your post :-) IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted January 12, 2012 10:52 AM
His 5* Taurus Chiron in his 1st House is conjunct my 7* Taurus Venus (and, more loosely, my 10* Taurus Chiron) in my 7th House. And...it's lovely 
I'd say that there's been a good deal of healing on both sides. IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 12, 2012 11:07 AM
Wow thanks mockingbird that's a great start!! :-D Did you and he experience intense feelings very quickly? Almost overnight perhaps??IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted January 12, 2012 02:28 PM
Very, very quickly.It almost started before we even met, if you can believe that. We worked together - he had been hired, but because of some administrative intricacies at our University he could not start his new job until the end of the semester. There were some steps that had to be taken to help prepare his equipment (we were technicians), and I jumped at doing them. I still can't explain why, but I was excited about this new employee. I liked him immediately (and he has since said that the feeling was mutual), but we didn't act on it right away because...well, work.
I pined for him for a while, then finally asked him out. [Edit: Note: I say "finally", but I think I lasted a grand total of 2 weeks. Maybe less.] The relationship progressed very quickly from there. We spent every second we could together. When we couldn't, we were on the phone. We've been married a little over two years now, and we still joke that we somehow warp space/time - we'll sit down to talk for "just a minute". When we look up, hours have passed. And he's always felt comfortable, natural - even physically, we fit together nicely. He's always warm and calming - we actually have a little bit of a problem with falling asleep (because we're so relaxed) whenever we sit down together IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted January 12, 2012 02:34 PM
My Venus 14 Gemini in my 9th houseMy South Node 16 Virgo on my 12th house cusp His Chiron 14 Gemini in his 2nd house His Venus 13 Virgo in his 5th house
His Mars 14 Virgo in his 5th house His Uranus 14 Sagittarius in his 8th house
Very strong love but mostly pain that I think originated in pain from our immediate past life together... I was mostly the giving one. Just pouring out love to him.. I think this is what his soul secretly craved.
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seeker3030
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From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 12, 2012 06:00 PM
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Very, very quickly.It almost started before we even met, if you can believe that.
Totally!!! That's exactly what's happened with us!! I'm swinging between being completely thrilled by it and distrusting it completely however so it's making for some uncomfortable moments! Thanks so much for your story because it's given me a little hope that it might not all end horrifically! IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 12, 2012 06:04 PM
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Very strong love but mostly pain that I think originated in pain from our immediate past life together... I was mostly the giving one. Just pouring out love to him.. I think this is what his soul secretly craved.
Oh wow! I recognise that last sentence completely! However it's his Venus and my Chiron in this scenario so looks like it's actually me that's craving which makes perfect sense given my 'history.' Thank you for posting your experience IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted January 12, 2012 06:14 PM
hi, i've been seeing someone whose venus is on my chiron (less than 1 deg) for a little over a year. so much healing, so much pain, the line is REALLY blurry between the two. and yes it was overnight. after or first date we ended up in this extremely long, beautiful sweet embrace, we just held eachother so tightly and there was so much emotion. it's somehow just instinctive and so beautiful and healing. we have that all the time but then so much pain also comes up and wants to be healed, but there is a lot of resistence to it in us both.. it's kinda hard to explain. it's like it's so beautiful and good that it is really really scary at a very deep level. but yet it is so easy and natural too (all we need to 'do' is honour it and feel it), and yeah it is extremely comfortable and calm. as for how it will pan out, who knows? IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 13, 2012 10:52 AM
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it's like it's so beautiful and good that it is really really scary at a very deep level.
That is exactly how it feels to me so far!! That's a beautiful description woahcakes - thank you These are actually encouraging me that it might not be quite so bad after all? I was kind of expecting horror stories in a way I suppose. Granted it's tinged with pain because of all it dredges up to be healed but I can see the beauty in its purpose and that helps  IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 13, 2012 10:55 AM
My soulmate has this with me in our composite chart. I learned a lot about love due to my interactions with him!IP: Logged |
Geminisquared
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 13, 2012 11:02 AM
I have venus sextile chiron. I also have chiron conjunct my ascendant. I'm curious about this tooIP: Logged |
seeker3030
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posted January 13, 2012 11:29 AM
It's amazing isn't it? How an asteroid can have such a whopping great effect?!Can I ask you if these relationships came about after you'd had a particularly difficult or stressful time in your life? Just wondering if there's a pattern here - healing/karma coming when it's needed most sort of thing?? IP: Logged |
seeker3030
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From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 13, 2012 11:30 AM
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Originally posted by Geminisquared:
I have venus sextile chiron. I also have chiron conjunct my ascendant. I'm curious about this too
Do you find that you heal people who contact your Venus/Asc in some way? Or maybe have you had difficulties with people who square either of them? IP: Logged |
Lindaland
