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Topic: Women With Mars In Cancer?
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Raina18 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Ga Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 14, 2012 07:42 PM
What are they like sexually? Are they mostly good or "bad" in bed? IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 14, 2012 08:32 PM
ummm Well - when I clicked on this i didn't realise that you would be asking about sex.What I noticed about this Mars placement in friends who have it is: - They are too shy sometimes and they don't completely trust themselves. This is frustrating because often they are very intelligent and interesting people - and they should have more confidence in their own abilities. They are actually not very aware of their own qualities. You have to really POINT this out to them... and even when you do, they don't fully believe you. - On the down side this lack of self-confidence can lead to them feeling threatened or jealous and being bit*chy towards other women - whom they perceive as 'better' in some way. However - this happens pretty rarely - as they do have spiritual beliefs and they know that it's important to treat others as you would like to be treated. - Because they are intensely emotional - sex is always seen as an emotional experience. All the girls I know with this - associate sex with love. They would even go as far as to say that sex IS love and that love IS sex. But they can definitely be intense and have a high sex drive.. There were posters here previously who mentioned being very intense. They are also usually submissive which I guess many men like.. They can go along with what their sexual partner wants and fulfil his fantasies. They definitely prefer a man who takes charge... Scorpio and Capricorn Mars are good matches. The only downside is that sometimes they forget their own desires... They forget that they should also be having FUN - and that it's a mutual thing.. Sometimes Cancer Mars gives too much - & not always to the right person. They can get taken advantage of by a romantic partner and by close friends and family - Although they are extremely savvy when it comes to strangers and acquaintances. I think that's all I can think of right now..
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Raina18 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Ga Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 14, 2012 08:46 PM
I have this placement and i think its very true what you said about us giving too much, especially to the wrong people. I've had a lot of friends use me for money or to buy them things. And I've had guys use me for sex, an ego boost or just someone to pass time with. I find it hard to say no MAJORITY or the time but mostly because i want to be dominated. Is this normal for cancer on mars??IP: Logged |
Capriquarius unregistered
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posted January 14, 2012 10:42 PM
My sister has this placement and she is freakishly strong. Have no idea if she'd want to be sexually dominated and hope I never ever ever never ever find out!!IP: Logged |
Raina18 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Ga Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 14, 2012 10:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: My sister has this placement and she is freakishly strong. Have no idea if she'd want to be sexually dominated and hope I never ever ever never ever find out!!
Lmao! I hope you never ever ever never ever find out either. Walked in on my mother one day and lets just say it was VERY ackward at breakfast the next day -_- IP: Logged |
Choc Knowflake Posts: 274 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 14, 2012 11:18 PM
I am not one to take the initiative and I need to feel really secure and totally accepted in order to open up but when I do, I am bloody amazing [mot my words]. Willing and giving as well but not too fond of getting dominated. It's more the other way around but only under certain circustances, as I mentioned above.Mars in Cancer, in the 10th H, widely squared by Pluto. 5th H in Aqua IP: Logged |
Raina18 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Ga Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 14, 2012 11:27 PM
When i said i like to be dominated i meant in a sexual way and only by guys but i have had some dominating friends..mpstly aries and leos ------------------ *LoveMeUnconditional<3 IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1145 From: maya Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 12:10 AM
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2760 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 15, 2012 01:25 AM
Hello Raina18! Welcome to LL 
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Raina18 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Ga Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 02:02 AM
@lalalindaThanks! @violet7887 I understand the mood thing. Sometimes i feel like a pornstar and at others i feel like *ugh* lol or as if i won't be able to satisfy. I'm also like that when it comes to taking pictures. Will the mars sign ever transition into another sign??!  ------------------ *LoveMeUnconditional<3 IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 7397 From: Saturn Registered: May 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 02:21 AM
i don't get why mars in scorpio would be a good match tho. to protect them from abusers? but who's gonna protect u from the mars in scorpio?IP: Logged |
Raina18 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Ga Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 02:39 AM
I kind of don't like my mars in cancer. It makes me moody! Nothing gets done unless i feel like doing it *which isn't often*  ------------------ *LoveMeUnconditional<3 IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4557 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 02:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: My sister has this placement and she is freakishly strong. Have no idea if she'd want to be sexually dominated and hope I never ever ever never ever find out!!
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anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4557 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 02:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Raina18: I kind of don't like my mars in cancer. It makes me moody! Nothing gets done unless i feel like doing it *which isn't often* 
Do you have a Sun in a water sign too? IP: Logged |
Raina18 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Ga Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 02:54 AM
@anongrl10Nope. Aqua sun/sag moon/libra rising ------------------ *LoveMeUnconditional<3 IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 591 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 15, 2012 06:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: ummm Well - when I clicked on this i didn't realise that you would be asking about sex.What I noticed about this Mars placement in friends who have it is: - They are too shy sometimes and they don't completely trust themselves. This is frustrating because often they are very intelligent and interesting people - and they should have more confidence in their own abilities. They are actually not very aware of their own qualities. You have to really POINT this out to them... and even when you do, they don't fully believe you. - On the down side this lack of self-confidence can lead to them feeling threatened or jealous and being bit*chy towards other women - whom they perceive as 'better' in some way. However - this happens pretty rarely - as they do have spiritual beliefs and they know that it's important to treat others as you would like to be treated. - Because they are intensely emotional - sex is always seen as an emotional experience. All the girls I know with this - associate sex with love. They would even go as far as to say that sex IS love and that love IS sex. But they can definitely be intense and have a high sex drive.. There were posters here previously who mentioned being very intense. They are also usually submissive which I guess many men like.. They can go along with what their sexual partner wants and fulfil his fantasies. They definitely prefer a man who takes charge... Scorpio and Capricorn Mars are good matches. The only downside is that sometimes they forget their own desires... They forget that they should also be having FUN - and that it's a mutual thing.. Sometimes Cancer Mars gives too much - & not always to the right person. They can get taken advantage of by a romantic partner and by close friends and family - Although they are extremely savvy when it comes to strangers and acquaintances. I think that's all I can think of right now..
betty i thin is a good description overall. I have mars in cancer and also venus-sun there. the only thing did not right a bell was the bitchy thing, but that is me. another thing. even if i relate sex with love (not fill very fulfilled otherewise) i still can have sex just for fun with no emotional attachement. but i can distinguis clearly between both. wondering if its my moon-mars square uranus. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 591 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 15, 2012 06:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: ummm Well - when I clicked on this i didn't realise that you would be asking about sex.What I noticed about this Mars placement in friends who have it is: - They are too shy sometimes and they don't completely trust themselves. This is frustrating because often they are very intelligent and interesting people - and they should have more confidence in their own abilities. They are actually not very aware of their own qualities. You have to really POINT this out to them... and even when you do, they don't fully believe you. - On the down side this lack of self-confidence can lead to them feeling threatened or jealous and being bit*chy towards other women - whom they perceive as 'better' in some way. However - this happens pretty rarely - as they do have spiritual beliefs and they know that it's important to treat others as you would like to be treated. - Because they are intensely emotional - sex is always seen as an emotional experience. All the girls I know with this - associate sex with love. They would even go as far as to say that sex IS love and that love IS sex. But they can definitely be intense and have a high sex drive.. There were posters here previously who mentioned being very intense. They are also usually submissive which I guess many men like.. They can go along with what their sexual partner wants and fulfil his fantasies. They definitely prefer a man who takes charge... Scorpio and Capricorn Mars are good matches. The only downside is that sometimes they forget their own desires... They forget that they should also be having FUN - and that it's a mutual thing.. Sometimes Cancer Mars gives too much - & not always to the right person. They can get taken advantage of by a romantic partner and by close friends and family - Although they are extremely savvy when it comes to strangers and acquaintances. I think that's all I can think of right now..
I will also add that the conjunction sun-mars (even if in cancer) makes for some arian qualities (i have observed them in mysefl) i can take initiative and enjoy partners that are little shy. too much aggresiveness in partners is not my thing. i prefer receptive rather than too active ones. IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1145 From: maya Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 08:31 PM
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LakiSG03 Knowflake Posts: 74 From: United States Registered: Sep 2009
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posted January 16, 2012 03:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Raina18: I kind of don't like my mars in cancer. It makes me moody! Nothing gets done unless i feel like doing it *which isn't often* 
I'm exactly the same way! I also have Sun in Cancer so I think that adds to it  IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 7397 From: Saturn Registered: May 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 09:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by violet7887: Sandlol you meAnyy already thinking of a bad scenario with one of us huh? lol its okayy i could take you onn LOL. or atleast i will tryy untill you evetually kick my butt 
lol aww no butts shall be kicked.. how big r u? lets arm wrestle lol! what is mr. and mrs. smith btw? i know the movie of cors. so even the mood for domination changes? i still think scorpio mars is a bad idea. you'll end up doing nothing else. IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1145 From: maya Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 11:55 PM
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sand Knowflake Posts: 7397 From: Saturn Registered: May 2011
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posted January 17, 2012 09:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by violet7887: ahaha i usually think scorpio mars men are REALLY sexy and i like that they can understand my mind games so well so yeahh..all the in between stuff seems like background noise  why what kinda experiences have you had?
oh you're a tall gemini! tho most of the ones i know are or look tall in pics. mind games huh? ahh venus in taurus opposite pluto in scorpio LOL! tho i dunno if they touch in your chart. i do remember u saying they're your dominants. mine too haha!  oh i dunno i just meant that sometimes people can just lose themselves or their sense of identity if it is too much domination. i do think that can happen to mars in cancer. IP: Logged |